Caught my ex driving by my apartment (3rd time) even though he has a new girlfriend?!

[abcgirl10]

so I was with a guy for four months..i broke it off because I felt we were in different stages in our lives..i was done with drinking and partying...and he wasn't so I just told him we are too different. two weeks later we try to work it out but we argued and he said he didn't understand me and that he's seeing someone new... So I told him well...I'm glad now I know I made the right decision and I will go out with other people now since it seems you moved on..and so I am dating someone else now. end of story..but ,

but lately he's been driving by my house 3 times twice in his car and once in his guy friends car..

all while he has pictures of some chick..his status says in a relationship.

why is he passing by my apartment? especially if he's flaunting his new girlfriend on Facebook..why is he spying on me? he doesn't live near me and his girlfriend lives in a different city and I haven't talked to him and I'm pretty much over him..shouldn't he be all happy and in love with his new girlfriend? what does he want from me? why is he doing this?

[YouMeYou]

He wants to see if you've gone on without him. Don't do anything about it, as he is obviously trying to decide if he can go on without you. Meanwhile he is in a relationship, so do not ask him weird questions. Move on, let him miss you as he's evidently not ready.

[avksxx]

Are you sitting at your window waiting for him to pass by or what? I don't understand how you have seen him all three times.

[abcgirl10]

Once he was right behind me on a red light. 2nd time he was in the parkinglot of my apartments when I was getting out of my car and third time I was on my balcony with some friends and I live on the side where its facing the street..and he drove by slowly..

[avksxx]

It really sounds like you're being paranoid. I still drive by my ex's house everyday simply because it's on my way to school. I also have a lot of friends who live near past exes, one of them in the same apartment. I've never just driven by my exes just to be a creep.

Let it go. If you're seriously convinced the dudes being a stalker, call him up and ask him about it. Just casually mention you've seen him a lot and see how he reacts.

[abcgirl10]

Thats the thing the first time I just thought nothing. I live far oppsite of where he lives and his girlfriend lives way far from where I live.. he's in the parking lot where I park my car to get into my apartment, he drives out of his way to my apartment..

[avksxx]

Call him up. Ask him about it.