Don't. Every guy is a nice guy when they like you (more or less) but in my experience, guys who get heavy into drugs have fallen in with a bad crowd. A happy, successful, caring guy who is good boyfriend material is not a guy that gets f***ed up every night on pills and booze.
He might be a smiles and compliments now but if you date this guy you might see another, darker side of him. You're not going to change him. He's more likely to get you into drugs than you are to get him off of them. Drugs and especially alcohol aren't exactly substances that bring out the best in men. He may be an asshole trying to get some action out of you, he might have some deep emotional problems that he's covering up with the drugs and booze but whatever he is, he's not a winner.
You sound like a nice girl, and you're quite pretty too. You can do much better, trust me.
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ok, your story is similar like mine. I was a drug addict back then, and worse than pills because I was a meth addict for a couple yrs, and I fought really hard to stop using it and I did it because I love my GF. so now, you need to ask him to stop it if he loves u, but if he doesn't want to do it that means he loves his drug more than u, and at this point the choice is yours, but if I'm at your position I will say bye2 to him.
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I personally think you should try and help him out as a FRIEND right now. Getting involved with someone that is demonstrating such self destructive issues should be enough proof that he has some "issues" in life that are yet to be resolved, so yes more so it will end badly and could end in death for all you know if he abusing pills (what kind) and alcohol mixed. Maybe get him some help, that will show you really care more than just being a girl for him to tote around. make sense?
people that´s getting f***ed up al the time that´s a real nono for me, I digg those guys who can have fun w/out f***in up their mind because those girls ( in yo case guys) who´re just fun when they not themselves just seem pathetic. and look out fo yaself that he doesn´t get you inot drugs
Be smart. Stay away from this guy. It isn't worth it. If you end up getting sucked into his drug world, you could screw yourself up pretty good. There are plenty of guys out there. Find one of them instead.
ive said it once and ill say it again...girls always pick and chase the losers!
so you want this guy to f*** you but your worried about your health... I'm sure you'll make the right choice in the end, hahahahahaha
It will most likely end badly.
End badly. Move on.
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