I told my boyfriend that I would fuck Brad Pitt if I had the chance and he answered?

[Anonymous]

Like every girl i also have a crush on a celebrity, on Brad Pitt. After we saw a movie together yesterday i told him that if i had the chance i would fuck Brad Pitt (i was serious but i probably wouldn't do it in the end cause i love my boyfriend too much to jeoperdaze our realationship).
He answered than that if he could have the chance he would fuck Sarah (My best friend).

I was extremly hurt.

Was it my fault?
Csn you compare a celebrity crush and this?
Was he seriou or did he just do it to show me that i hurt him with it first?
Should i apologize?
What would you say in such a situation if your SO said sth like this?

[Alessus]

Yeah, you started it, you should handle it. I'd say it's comparable, since it's just a "if I had the chance" hypothetical situation, whether it's your best friend or a celebrity, doesn't mean it's ever going to happen. Granted Brad is less likely to happen than Sarah, because of obvious reasons, but still basic situation is the same. Can't say if he was serious or just spiteful though, since I didn't see his reaction to what you said or how he said what he said, but I'd guess spite. Whether or not you should apologize, depends on if you had an argument afterwards. If you did, then yes, I think you are the party more at fault, but if you didn't then I don't see a reason to apologize. If my hypothetical SO said something like that, I think I'd be curious as to why that particular celebrity, I suppose. I don't immidiately recall any celebrity with a lot of the same physical traits that I have, so I think I'd be intriqued to hear what draws her to that particular celebrity.

[Yes-Man]

I fully agree.

[Moppy]

You basically just said I love you but this random famous person is still worth more than you and I will ditch you for him if I get the chance.

Look at it like that. Of course he will make an aggressive comeback.

On the flip side in a better situation you could have asked about his celebrity crush and then shared yours that way you can discuss it between one another. The way you did it was hurtful and his response (also hurtful) was to kind of make you see how much that sort of statement hurts and devalues you. Go apologise and say you were speaking before thinking and I am sure he will apologise back if you say that you were hurt by his comeback.
Take care

[samhradh_leannan]

I think both of you were wrong. It was insensitive of you to make such a blunt, sexual comment about a celebrity crush. But he did take it a step further by making the same comment about your actual friend, which is quite different. However, it's possible that he just spoke harshly to get back at you for hurting him. I don't think you can compare a celebrity crush to an actual friend crush. However, you took the first blow, so you have to consider that when you address this. I would suggest that you apologize for your comment and let him know that you see how it might have hurt him. Then explain that you wouldn't actually sleep with a celebrity, because you do love your boyfriend. Hopefully, once that is cleared up, he will also apologize and clarify that his comment was just an aggressive comeback. But if he stands by his statement and says that he really does want to have sex with your friend, then that's definitely a problem.

[Anonymous]

Simply do NOT joke with a SO about fucking others. You are lucky he did not walk off and dump you. If my guy ever said anything like that he would be an ex in the time it would take me to tell him.

He is NOT to know if you would do it or not. To safeguard himself, he would think that what you said was meant. It is virtually saying you would cheat if the right person became available.

What can you do? Apologise and hope he accepts it. Hope, too, that he has not already fucked Sarah!

[RJGraveyTrain]

Honestly, I know this makes me sound hypocritical but wanting to fuck a celebrity or someone with notoriety is way different than wanting to fuck a friend - because one is obvious fantasy and the other is a real life situation.

BUT! In his defence you did say you'd fuck another guy and that likely hurt his ego, so he wanted to get back at you.

Basically you both fucked up. I'd just have a talk with him about it.

[Wally48]

I think you guys should both apologize, lighten up, and get back to enjoying each other again. Actually, there is a little humor in this.

My wife (of 35 years) once told me that she was mine for life, but if Ferris Bueller really existed, she'd be gone in a heartbeat. She thought she was being funny (and was), but I was put off at first.

[Waffles731]

your wife would leave youfor a higher schooler?

[Wally48]

@Waffles731; hahaha well Ferris was pretty charming, and that was 30 years ago.

[Waffles731]

Also didn't matthew Broderick kill a woman in Ireland

[CatInLove]

First of all, why would you say that to him? It was not nice. If you are committed you shouldn't want to have sex with anyone else. I think he felt hurt and said something to hurt you back.

[Moray]

^MHO^

[Jennifer398]

You did nothing wrong, having thoughts about someone you will never meet is a lot different than say it about a best friend. Being a guy he probably thought he was being funny. However you might want to watch how he acts when they are together.

[juicyjessie]

She said she would be willing to cheat!

[Jennifer398]

How likely is it she will meet Brad Pitt that is called a fantasy.

[juicyjessie]

It is not the fantasy of a celebrity. It is saying you would cheat. If she met up with a Brad Pitt look alike, would she be tempted?

[jonv515]

Let it go. Chances are that you'll never get to Fuck Brad Pitt, but you definitely hurt his feelings. On the other side it kinda tells me the thought of fucking your friend has already been in his head.

[Asker]

Now that i think about it... i dont think he would ever fuck Sarah cause she isn't his type and he is far too much in love with me to ever have sex with someone else. I think he just said t to let me know that it hurts.

[AlexanderZ]

I think celebrity crushes are kinda typical and normal, but it's not something I can relate to. There are plenty of celebrities I find attractive, but I doubt that I'd ever have any interest in fucking any of them.

[mrworkalot]

Look you can not do that lol and not expect a reaction. As a man I do not want to hear my girlfriend talking about who she going to fuck to me that sounds like you're going behind my back and doing something else

[TruthOfCoral]

honestly it seems like you hurt and pissed him off because you most likely made him feel small and not good enough for you so he got really upset and jealous so you should just drop the brad Pitt thing and apologize

[theharlequin]

Haha Kudos to this guy for having the balls to show you that you stepped out of line

[samueldinesh]

Sorry for you... He may get upset bcoz men always want him to better than other in this thing. You could talk him about you almost like him but only one this is missing... If you full fill it you might be amazing than him... Even sarah could get crush on you..

[ElisaPlease]

Yikes. The male ego is very fragile. You learned that the hard way unfortunately.

[HeAintMe]

"The male ego is very fragile."
Actually she's the one crying about his dude wanting to fuck Sarah.
So i'd say the female ego is very fragile.

[ElisaPlease]

@HeAintMe The difference is desiring a far out dream and something that is easily attainable (and quite personal at that). I just think it was uncalled for.

[HeAintMe]

Yeah i bet your daddy runs to a corner and cries like a little bitch as well when your mommy sucks some random hood dick in front of him.
Male ego is definitely very fragile.

[juicyjessie]

The big issue is that she said she would cheat if the right guy came along!

[TheAmazingRando]

No, there really is no difference. How many men have been screamed at over looking at other women while out? The chances of that random girl are probably the same as this girl and brad pitt. It's just more socially acceptable when women freak out over stuff like that. End of the day she flat out told this dude someone was WAY more attractive and she would drop him like a bad habit for if she had the chance.

[ElisaPlease]

@TheAmazingRando @juicyjessie you people are taking this way too personally. Hop out my comments

[TheAmazingRando]

Nah, its not personal. I just don't agree with you that's all.

[juicyjessie]

@TheAmazingRando I agree. If the FEMALE ego is not fragile, why is she asking for advice? LOL!!

[vittle1999]

Probably he might not do it so as to not jeopardize your relationship.

[Asker]

I dont really think he would cheat on me, he is far too much in love with me to even think sexually about others. I think he just said it to make me understand his pain.

[vittle1999]

Seems like it. That's why he choose Ur friend instead of a celebrity.

[spoopyscaryskeleton]

Honestly you both need to lighten up and apologize to each other. What kind of comeback were you expecting?

[Anonymous]

I know a girl that does that crap ALL the time. She calls her celebrities crushes bae and says ''thats my boo'' and what not, And Im not even her boyfriend yet I can feel his pain. You really need to be more aware of other peoples feelings.

[Tyberius]

That's an epic comeback, your boyfriend is awesome.

[Anonymous]

Every girl? Lol come on. Are you actually 18-24? You asked for it. I would respond with something similar as well.

[Kuraj]

If you told that to me, I'd frankly just go fuck Sarah.

[goyzindahood]

You hurt his ego and he responded by hurting yours. Fair is fair.

[GentlemanM]

Asshole. Yeah, everyone has a celebrity Hall Pass *cough*GalGadot*cough* But a best friend is way outa line. Reconsider him, honestly.

[HeAintMe]

"Reconsider him"
What a pathetic old, sensitive pussy.
No one needs to reconsider, if she wants to fuck Brad, then he can want to fuck Sarah.
Fuck off you old shit.

[TruthOfCoral]

lol look at his opinions, he clearly only wants to try and find a relationship on here because he's desperate. all he does is post opinions on females questions

[GentlemanM]

😂 That’s because guys ask stupid questions. Step it up, boys, step it up.

[TruthOfCoral]

no it's because you're desperately looking for a relationship and now you're trying to hide it and play the subject changer to get us to forget about this

[HeAintMe]

"I'm looking for a sub princess"
Lol what a fucking joke this guy is,
feel bad for him.

[GentlemanM]

😂 Oh, please, do tell me - as a 46yo, how exactly am I going to find a relationship online here 😂

It’s really too bad there are no establishments that serve alcohol & food and keep out young kids. That would be a much better way to meet people.

[HeAintMe]

"looking for a sub princess"

[TruthOfCoral]

so you're just creeping on females then😂

[samhradh_leannan]

I would agree with this if he really did have a crush on her friend. Because that IS pretty different from a celebrity crush (though an actual hall pass is also a different matter). But, we don't know that he even really meant what he said. It may have just been an aggressive comment designed to make a point or get back at her. She was also in the wrong, after all.

[SLR_Music]

Hey he probably just pushed the comment too far but in a way he played your game but just made it so you would "shut up" and change subject

[Insanyx12]

Well it will probably never happen so I hope he moved on already