Guys, how often do you have guys nights out vs. time with your girl?

[Anonymous]

Do you spend equal time with both your friends and your girlfriend? And what are you doing during guys night anyway? Thanks in advance! :)

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

My guys night out crew is no longer. They've all transfered to different departments, putting them in different cities and of course on different schedules.

Now I work a Mon-Fri daytime job, so I'm the only one with a weekends off schedule.

We used to go out, talk about work and anything significant that someone may have missed. We would talk about office happenings and the speculate on the after effects from those things. We'd talk about other departments. We'd talk about toys, places to travel to, and so on.

We did these regularly, but on different days because the nature of our schedule. But then guys got married, moved, whatever. Also, a big part of why we stopped is generally now when you go out, there is always some other group, usually four to five gentlemen, that are walking around with a chip on their shoulder and more money for alcohol than any one person needs, and they want to start a fight with anyone they possibly can.

After awhile we seemed to attract more attention from these guys than the rest of the crowd, and decided we don't need the hassle, and we can go have a range day, or fish, or whatever. But like I said, everyone has scattered to the wind now, so it's all over now.

[WeaponZero]

I work 5 days a week at a job where I work mon-fri normal daylight hours. Unless a "night out" consists of going out to dinner then coming back home, I only have Saturday night & Sunday night to go out.

Friday nights = Guys night out. Usually it involves seeing a movie, grabbing a bite to eat, and then going toa bar to grab a few drinks or just goign straight home. If any one of us feels like springing for gas we may go on a short road trip and jsut listen to music and hang out. Other times we'll go to a local club called Matrix and chill out in the '80s room (its a club divided into 4 rooms-an 80s room, a salsa room,a rap & RnB room, and a techno room) and drink and have fun.

Saturday night = night with my girl (if I wasnt single). Usually it means just putting on a movie and watching it at home on the couch together or sometimes going out to a fancy restaurant and then a movie.

Whether its a date or just hanging out with my friends, going to the movies is usually part of the nightly agenda cause you just can't go wrong with the movies =)

[WeaponZero]

Oops when I said saturday night & sunday night, I meant friday night & saturday night

[Asker]

So true about the movies! :)

[neberle]

I spend a lot more time with my girl than with friends but we live together so no surprise there If we didn't live together I wold probably spend a little more time with her than my other friends. Buys nights usually consist of doing things that girls don't want to do with us. In my case because me and the few really close friends I have are a little in touch with are other side we talk long walks and talk about cloths, our girlfriends and philosophy but I think I am in a minority with that.

Things we don't do or talk about (in my case) are sex in anything but broad terms, watch porn, try to hit on other girls. Basically anything that would piss our girlfriends off if they were with us the only thing we do do is if one of our girls is being difficult we may tell a sympathetic ear and ask advice.

[Da-Boss]

I only have a couple friends so when we do go out it, it's pretty important. We've known each other for over 10 years and I would never dis them for a girl I was dating. It's simple respect.

Why would I diss people that have been good to me for a decade for a girl I've known for maybe a year? And most likely will end sooner or later?

I have had some former friends that have dissed me for their women, and I ended the friendship. I would never do that to a friend. Hanging out with your girl is fine and I have no problem with it, but when we have an actual planned event and you lie or flake out for a female, you don't deserve my friendship.

[sanam]

Dont make the woman seem like she's the enemy in this situation!

i'm sure that she'll understand that you treasure you friendships and if anything she'll respect you for that! I know I would!

[Jamerz]

I agree with "sanam"!!!!!

[quantumdefender]

actually its been my experience that the girls have WAY TOO MANY "girls only " nights that men do, my buddies often come hang with me and and the reason the guys hang out.is because.and I quote: "my girlfriend abandoned me at home to go party with her girlfriends and refused to take me along because she wanted to flirt with the guys she encountered while hanging with her friends!"

[wally]

a guy if he really care about his girl he'll try to spend more time with her ,

[happymsnn]

um just hang out talk see how every one girl friends are doing and how they are doing and then we go mess around town