"Classy" is an image that a woman projects and it can be based on many factors. A classy woman is almost always attractive but her beauty is not necessarily innate, drop-dead gorgeous beauty. She may be a woman of modest features who has done all that she can to maximize her attractiveness. This usually means that her makeup is understated and she has well coiffed hair in a flattering style.
She conducts herself with elegance and grace. She is well mannered, and she may be assertive but she is neither loud nor aggressive. She always exhibits intelligence but is not pretentious and does not make a demonstration of her intelligence.
A classy woman has her eyes set on goals and she does not allow herself to be distracted with petty side issues. Revenge and "proving something" to others is not a part of her modus operandi. She maintains a distance between herself and unsavory people and places. She is conscious of how her actions are perceived and she strives to maintain her reputation among her peers and associates.
"A classy woman may be well aware of her appeal, but she doesn't use it her gain. Instead, she uses intelligence, wit and charm to win. She dresses like she means business - not to show her business." - Me
It means being high value. You know your worth and you conduct yourself in a manner to let others know it. You dress tastefully. You're well groomed. Well mannered, tactful, and versed social etiquette. To be classy used to be associated with being well breed. Meaning you were taught the correct or proper way to act. As in how conduct yourself with; your deportment, conversational etiquette, dinning manners, and manner of dress.
It's about the way you carry and present yourself. It's not really something you can learn how to do; you either know how to do it, or you don't. It's a combination of taste, confidence, intelligence, and behaviors, that make other people around you just kind of... appreciate you.
Being classy spills into every part of who you are. I'll give you an example of what I mean. A classy woman is always impeccably dressed. Everything she wears, even on lazy "no make-up, hair in a ponytail" days, just works. Her jeans might be torn, or shirt baggy, but it's all just the right amount. Her apartment would never have mismatched soap and toothbrush holders, and she DEFINITELY would never let them get dirty. When she walked into the room, you would immediately notice her, and it's not because she's physically beautiful (although she may very well be), it's because you could feel a soft, gentle, happy and positive glow emanating from her.
Classy is probably the best compliment I can give someone. If I call someone classy, you embody confidence, walk with grace, have respect for yourself and others and of course, you must wear fashion well. I usually like women who keep their look simple and timeless.
Good manners and right conduct Modesty and decency
But you know being classy doesn't end there. It also applies in behavior and attitude (how you treat others and how you treat yourself). Education and even grooming.
It's not how you dress. It is how you do your etiquette
Probably when most people think of what makes a woman "classy" they think of her fashion or style of living, financial status, etc. But I think a very important thing that makes a woman classy is her character. Is she a thoughtful and considerate person to others? Does she treat people with respect, even those whom some people would consider "beneath" her? Is she loyal and does she have integrity? If you can answer "yes" to those questions then to me that woman is very classy.
Not always elegant and manners. Being a mature woman and knowing how to handle situations and present yourself is classy. A classy girl will speak her mind with ease and never let anyone walk all over her. She handles things with grace and strength
Classy doesn't only mean good manners, well dressed and groomed, it's about respect. A classy person respects themselves, as well as others. Classy is not acting like a snob or thinking one is better than others, nor is it about trying to get attention. A classy person treats others as they would like to be treated. Now people might say someone looks classy, because of the way they dress and carry themselves, but class is much deeper than how one looks.
It's a level of etiquette once practiced widely but almost entirely unobserved in contemporary culture. Behavior based on the idea that other people's thoughts and feelings are equally important to yours is the basis. Formal etiquette is an extension of that.
Not really. It means being principled and remaining polite in the face. Diplomatic. Reasonable. Fair.
Manners is sort of the dumbed down version. Unlike with “manners” you can swear and still say classy. Alternatively you can conduct yourself with manners but still be kind of shitty to people and fail at being classy.
Behaving and dressing like you belong to the upper social class. That's why it is called classy. A classy person dresses elegantly and gracefully, is well read and well informed, is sophisticated and speaks a few languages. Knows how to behave in different social situations and adheres to specific social etiquettes.
It has more to do with attitude than appearance. To me, a classy person is someone who is very tactful, very polite, picky with words, respectful towards people, has a correct rich vocabulary, isn't fishing for attention and doesn't get influenced by people's views and opinions, knows their worth and aren't rude no matter the circumstances.
in my opinion, class is about being kind and respectful to others. You could know your wine and brands, but if you don't have basic civility, you're not classy in my eyes.
Being classy has nothing to do with physical beauty. IMHO, a classy person is well-mannered, dresses tastefully, and knows how to act like a lady/gentleman, for starters.
Its a mix. Class is outer and inner. Its being the better person in conflicts without being a pussy or getting walked all over. Its manners. Its elegance. Its taste in all things. And its an aura, charisma, charm, confidence, humility.
Yes and no. Sometimes it just a phrase to express someone's dressing or attitude (which falls in the category of good manners). But it's mostly a word of expression.
You mean to say, a woman who advocates equality of the sexes can't also be poised, graceful and mature? I believe you're confusing feminism with feminazism.. The first feminists were all of the above, as a matter of fact.
Good day @BackBreaker. Yes, the original feminists were advocating for equal rights of the sexes. However, the current, new wave, feminists are more "man hating". In this country, there are laws in place to stop discrimination. There is no pay gap, there is no inequality. The ones that are protesting are just unhappy, self hating, wanna be victims. And yes, most but not all of them, are unattractive. As far as @skateranan123 was saying. I agree to an extent, to not be man hating, ungrateful, rude, obnoxious, childlike, victims. There are always exceptions, however, I am referring to the majority. Thank you for your time. Please do not take what I said as an attack on you ma'am. I am only voicing my personal opinion. Have a pleasant evening.
@Mongooseactual I appreciate the time you put into informing me of these fallacies. Now, I must inform you of how it is to live as a woman in "this country."
While there are in fact laws that have been implemented to end discrimination of sex in the workforce, it is in fact ever-present. It is a misconception that all regulations will be applied instantaneously. For, the wage gap is still a major concern despite the fact that the Equal Pay Act became law in 1963. While feminists have made large strides in closing this gap, it'll take decades before it is completely nonexistent. Those you perceive as "unhappy, self hating, wanna be victims" are being portrayed in that light by the media. You see-- not everything you read is true, I'm afraid. I hate to have to repeat myself for a third time now, but these individuals are in fact feminazis. They are a misinformed, ignorant group of "people." To be a feminist is to not hate men, but to advocate equality of sexes-- which has yet to be achi
Not to mention the significant inequality in social standards for women.. Smile more they say.. wear more clothes.. be more feminine.. Do you feel pressured to be a man? Don't show your emotions or you're soft, am I right? If your body isn't an immaculate sculpture of chiseled perfection, you're weak.. right?
Imagine not being able to get gas past 8:00 pm because our society is more concerned with women dressing in prevention of rape, rather than addressing the actual issue and teaching men early on not to rape women. Now, please... Empathize with the woman who is unable to escape her pregnancy.. a pregnancy that resulted from a rape.
I appreciate the professional response @BackBreaker.
There are no cases of women being payed less than a man when both are equal. Both having the same job, work the same number of hours, same number of days, worked in the field for the same amount of time, and having the same education. These are the factors that determine different pay. This also affects men. When it comes to people telling women to dress, smile, and act certain ways. All people are critical of others, however, most of the criticisms towards women come from other women. As a majority rule, men do not tend to criticize women's appearance because we do not want to offend and ruin our chances of courtship.
Yes men hear the same that you have mentioned. Yet again, most of it stems from other males. I would like to say that rape cases have been twisted by the media. When the vast majority of rape cases come from a person that the victim already knew. Or by illegal migrants. (Seperate topic there) Women have the same if not more rights and freedoms as men. Women have won that battle, and it was a just, right, and fair one. I am happy for the equal rights. But now, everyone is just beating a dead horse and wanting more and more it seems like.
I understand and respect your view. I disagree with it, because I do not see evidence supporting your claim.
@Mongooseactual I believe you're mistaken. Trust me, the evidence exists. Why else would women not be in more leadership positions when, statistically speaking, women achieve a higher level of education? The few positions that are obtained by women exclude those of color. It would seem you've failed to consider the unfair treatment women that aren't white face. I understand that both men and women alike face these same difficulties, but women do in fact have the disadvantage-- especially women of color. Although an increased number of companies prioritize gender diversity, they neglect racial diversity. The bias exists. Don't deny it. As far as the criticism, more women may be guilty, but it is mostly men who degrade women and treat them as sex objects and nothing more. If feminists wouldn't be advocating woman's rights, who will? Are we to rely on our leaders-- MEN-- who treat women unfavorably.. Who make the decisions regarding our bodies, for us?
Prior to the Equal pay act of '63, women were making less than half of what men made. This excludes women of color. 55 years later, these women are just now averaging 57 cents to every dollar that a man makes.. the same that WHITE women made decades ago.
Historically speaking, men have always been the first to achieve equality. Those of color face an unfair disadvantage, as well. Black men received the right to vote before women. And now.. White women have achieved a higher level of equality in the workforce as opposed to women of color.
Women do graduate collage at a much higher rate of men. However, they do not choose fields that would put them in leadership positions. We do have many women and women of color in leadership positions all over this country. Senators, Congress, CEOs, the list goes on and on. Of course bias exists. It just does not exist inside of the law. There are no laws or institutions that allow it. And if one does, the court system will hold them to the fire. Men are not the only ones that look at women as a possibility to procreate with. Women do the exact same thing. Women are not victims.
Historically, everyone sucked. Not just the white man. Everyone. You are talking about the past as if it is still here. Where is it? Where is the proof? Nothing you have said is fact, except the history lesson that is always on CNN.
@Mongooseactual Your insensitivity and apparent ignorance baffles my mind. If you want facts, spend time reviewing YOUR claims and prove to me that discrimination does not exist for women--
Women are underrepresented in all fields. You are not aware of these exclusionary behaviors because you haven't experienced them. You refuse to believe that a wage gap exists because you'd like to believe that the government will always enforce regulations without anyone taking initiative and ensuring that equality exists for EVERYONE. But it doesn't. To this day women are still effected by discrimination and BIAS. While laws may exist, it is well documented that women are continuously treated unfavorably. Regardless of bias not existing inside of law, discrimination is an occurrence that cares not what the law says. Working mothers.. pregnancies.. the court is utterly ineffective in both of these cases, tossing it aside and describing it as a "work-balance" issue. Women have no power.
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