There’s a spider in my room and I’m really scared, what do I do?

[luciusmalfoy1]

I have arachnophobia (I think) and it’s like 2am... I was going to my room to go to bed and then I felt like I walked through a cobweb in the hallway, then when I got into my room there was a jet black spider there.

I tired waking up my family but they wouldn’t help. I’m back downstairs right now. What do I do?

My heart is racing and I’m sweating everywhere, I grabbed one of my shoes to kill it but I just couldn’t. I honestly got so scared I was pouring sweat.

What do I do? And I really have a fear of them especially because I’m not used to those kinds of spiders.

Updates

+1 y

Why are half of y’all saying I’m a girl and stuff? Most of you are the same Incels who complain about girls wanting the guy to pay on dates... either you dislike gender stereotypes or not

Also thanks for anyone who actually tried to help😊 I appreciate it

[Accidental_Genius]

I know... I hate spiders as well... I think the best thing to do right now is to close the door of Ur bedroom (to make sure the spider stays in there) and then spend the night downstairs and w8 for the morning to come... and then ask your family for help in the morning... I hope I helped you.. thats all I could say... god damn spiders :D

[luciusmalfoy1]

Could I maybe spray it with AXE?

[Accidental_Genius]

Probably. It definitely works with small spiders, but “medium” is a very subjective measurement. I’d say it’s a safe bet for anything under 2.5” in diameter

[luciusmalfoy1]

I just read that post ahahah

[Accidental_Genius]

Yeah that one XD

[luciusmalfoy1]

Ok should I grab some Windex? And try to kill it?

[luciusmalfoy1]

I’ll be so scared though, and start sweating and stuff

[Accidental_Genius]

Like.. You've got the phobia... And the scariest part is gonna be finding the spider... Why dont you just stay downstairs? 😅 and do what I said before 😅

[luciusmalfoy1]

Everyone on here is already insulting me.

[Accidental_Genius]

Uhhh... why dont they get the concept of phobia... for heavens sake... That a pain in the *** :(

[luciusmalfoy1]

IKR !!!

[Accidental_Genius]

So.. what happened.. what did you do?

[Accidental_Genius]

U dont wanna talk about it ok 😅

[N192K001]

How big is the spider? What species is it?

Granted, they're creepy and their venom can do damage to the body, but only certain species are lethal to humans.

[luciusmalfoy1]

No idea. It’s black. Probably about an inch big

[luciusmalfoy1]

There is black widows here though and I have bad arachnophobia

[N192K001]

You've been advised to use chemicals to kill spiders, but those chemicals accumulate.

Have you considered more natural means of repelling (or even killing) the 8-legged freaks? You'd be surprised what a few plants, citrus peels, etc. can do.
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[Fitness-Fanatic]

Find a glass , or something similar over it , capture it in the glass, and then put it outside. I hate spiders , but I never kill them. I capture them and put them outside

[Ogopogo]

Look up black widows and brown recluses, and anything else poisonous common in your part of the world. I love spiders, but if it's one of these, kill it fast. Don't risk it getting away and escaping to some small dark space where it can't be found.

The slipper is actually a good suggestion because it's a soft, floppy object you can swat with but which has a lot of bulk. This may kill the spider without squashing it all over your bed. I keep a hard bristle broom on hand, personally. Don't use big spray around your bed as this could result in health problems.

Meanwhile keep your home free of clutter, and don't store things in open cardboard boxes - use sealed containers, preferably plastic ones. Look up your local poisonous spiders for other factors that allow them to thrive in and around your home.

Keep a "spider kit" for the ones that aren't dangerous. I use a clear hard plastic picnic cup, the front door of a CD case, and a magazine subscription card. Put the cup on the spider, slide the card gently under the cup, then slide the CD case door under that. This will help you not hurt the spider while imprisoning it. Now slide the card out. The cup and its makeshift lid can be safely carried in one hand, then left on your doorstep or tapped against your outside windowsill without breaking, and if you drop them they won't kill somebody.

[TripleAce]

Use a vacuum...
or like spray it with hair spray... or some type of aerosol

[luciusmalfoy1]

I can’t its too late at night I don’t wanna wake up my family.

[luciusmalfoy1]

It was too high up to use a vaacum. What spray is aerosol? Would AXE be?

[TripleAce]

ya axe lol... hairpray
kitchen spray cleaners, bathroom spray cleaners

ya stuff like that so you can stay at a distance, and slam it with some liquid to kill it or bring it down
a water bottle works too, the spray type

[luciusmalfoy1]

Is Windex powerful enough?

[TripleAce]

yea it will work im sure lol...

[luciusmalfoy1]

Should I risk it?

[TripleAce]

ya you have to, you can't go to sleep like that... thats even worse lol
let us know what happens

[luciusmalfoy1]

Well I could just sleep on the couch

[luciusmalfoy1]

And let my Dad who is a ARMY vet take care of it tommorow morning...

[TripleAce]

Ya screw it. Ill go with that
Use a blow torch tomorrow

[call_me_scar]

Well the best thing to do is leave it because they are more scared of you than you are of it plus they kill other bugs but because of the phobia well you could start doing exposure therapy which would help kill the phobia, you may be able to get a roommate or friend neighbor to help you or get a really long stick or cup or whatever and kill or trap it

[markscott]

Sleep on the couch, and in the morning, buy some spray that will kill spiders. Then you can spray them next time, and not need to get so close to hit them with a shoe.

[luciusmalfoy1]

Can you get the spray at walmart?

[luciusmalfoy1]

Thanks you are the only person helping me

[markscott]

As far as I know, it can be gotten at Walmart, But you have to read the labels, because not all sprays will kill spiders, etc. Some sprays are fairly specific for certain things.

[luciusmalfoy1]

Ok thanks

[DarkxAngel20]

Back again? Not only is your thinking very extreme, but you’re spoiled. You have very serious issues. Grow some balls kid.

[luciusmalfoy1]

How am I spoiled? It’s not my fault I was literally shaking when I saw it so

[DarkxAngel20]

I remember you hated on women cause you thought women didn’t want relationships. That was a very extreme view.

[DarkxAngel20]

You’re an incel.

[bobby1973]

Just put a glass over it till some one can move it

[luciusmalfoy1]

It’s high up on the wall

[bobby1973]

Just hover it up then that's one way to catch them

[luciusmalfoy1]

It’s 3am and the spider was high up last time I was upstairs

[bobby1973]

What the weather like. If it warm leave window open and I should move out. But if it could it just like you looking for a warm place to be so it does not die. Spiders are good as they keep the flie and flee number down

[MarketData]

You do have arachnophobia. You need therapy.

[luciusmalfoy1]

How do I need therapy? Many people have it.

[MarketData]

If it's preventing you from sleeping you need therapy.

[luciusmalfoy1]

I’m gonna sleep on the couch

[genericname85]

gat a slipper and slap it dead.

[Lance1965]

Drown it in bug spray if you have any.

[Anonymous]

Blindfold yourself and whack it with a pillow case

[MemeMaester]

Buy fertilizer

[luciusmalfoy1]

What?

[MemeMaester]

Fertilizer

[luciusmalfoy1]

Why would I buy fertilizer

[MemeMaester]

To grow balls lol

[luciusmalfoy1]

Ok well it’s not my fault they scare me that much

[luciusmalfoy1]

Plus it could be poisonous

[MemeMaester]

But it's probably not, and it's super easy killing a spider especially one barely the size of your eyeball

[luciusmalfoy1]

You dont get it

[MemeMaester]

No I don't, a human scared of a probably-not-poisonous spider is like an elephant scared of a mouse. I get thalasophobia and trypophobia etc but not arachnophobia

[luciusmalfoy1]

What phobias are those?

Why are you judging me when it’s a legitimate ohobaie many people have?

[MemeMaester]

I'm not judging you or trying to hurt you XD I'm just generally saying this phobia is just ilogical and you kinda know that deep down 😂

[luciusmalfoy1]

Umm yeah but I can’t help it because it’s a phobia

[MemeMaester]

You're just scared of spiders, unless you actually got diagnosed with the anxiety disorder
sorry for saying what you hate hearing lel

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Is it gone now?

[luciusmalfoy1]

I don’t know. I came downstairs

[FlatsRunner]

Use a pint glass. 😊

[Anonymous]

Leave it alone

[Joker_]

Murder it