I don't see it as either one unless the person posting these pics is actually flirting with the people who comment.
That doesn't mean that I think it's ok, tho. When you're in a relationship, the only person that you should care about getting that kind of attention from is your partner and if you feel the need to get it from strangers, then something is obviously not going right in your relationship.
So, unless you're famous and it's a part of your "brand", there's no need to do that.
Very good point
No. As women we get attention every time we step outside the house and that’s not cheating.
Its wrong. Any woman who respects her Man wouldn't do such a thing.
I'd say it's the intent that makes all the difference.
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If not in any relationship, that should be fine. If in a relationship, then it depends whether you're partner knows about it and whether he's ok with it or not. If he's knows, but not ok, then it's not cheating per se, but it IS disrespectful to the relationship being carried. If he's ok with it, then it means he trusts you that you won't cross the line. There are couples who even swing/swap willingly, so obviously it's not cheating. So, it's kind of dependent on the kind of relationship and trust levels between the two.
If you are in a relationship then Yes that's messed up , but if u r single then no it isn't cheating , posting pictures like that basically means you are looking for someone cuz you are trying. to get attention from others. So if they are in a relationship doing that then Yes they are a cheater and you're best to dump their asses. Cuz they dont respect you and basically means you aren't good enough for them. The only way it might be ok is if that was their job and they were a model , but posting sexy pictures of themselves for no reason has CHEATER written on their head
a girl did that recently and i knew it was directed at me. She added me on instagram and that same night she posted a picture of her showing off her cleavage (and commenting date night with my bf).. i looked at her picture history and no where had she done this before.
A month went by and i asked her why she added me to instagram and she gave a standard one but with a 'lol' at the end. She's never lol'd before. I wouldn't class it as cheating but i do find it funny how smart girls are at not getting caught.
Sounds kinda like cheating to me. I would be upset if my boyfriend did that. That being said, if two people have an unspoken agreement that stuff like that is harmless and basically okay, in that case it would not be cheating as long as it didn’t go any further than just being flirty.
So me and my older sister have VERY different views on this, she thinks flirting, porn, and going to strip clubs is considered cheating. For me I dont feel like it's cheating unless there's actually touching or feelings involved. Like for example I wouldn't have an issue with having a boyfriend that watches porn and went to clubs and flirt when out with the guys (in moderation), or they went to a strip club, as long as there no actual touching or feelings happening I dont have an issue and dont view it as cheating. Many girls are gonna disagree with me on this but I dont care, it what I think.
To my mind it’s a violation of trust. Cheating? Maybe not but it’s still not appropriate. But different relationships have different rules. What’s true for me isn’t necessarily true for someone else and so long as that’s accepted by both people in the relationship then it’s ok within that relationship.
From my personal experience. When a girl that I’m dating does this, she is testing to see if her man will get jealous or she’s just fishing for compliments to see if she still “got it”.
I’m not that insecure type of guy that will throw a fit at every little thing she does. Now if she posts a half naked picture with some other guy’s name written all over her body, then I’ll confront her.
Depends I think. If she's a self-proclaimed "model" then its something she has to do to remain relevant, even when she's in a relationship.
But if she's just a normal girl not really looking to make money from social media from her looks, then most likely she is looking for validation or attention.
Is it cheating? Not if her S. O is aware of it and has no problem with it. If she's single, well yes it is a way to flirt and get attention from potential dating partner.
Posting sexy pictures may not be flirting, I think it matters what platform is used.
There are some guys who are okay with their partner posting such pictures.
Answering back in a flirtatious way is wrong, it lead some people on and could get out of hand.
You tell us, you are the one into dating. My opinion is, if you are trying to turn someone on it is either cheating or being a tease. Either can get you into hot water.
Posting for attention isn't wrong. It's weird and I don't get why you need to post sexy pictures online in order to get attention; especially if you have a man.
Responding is wrong of you're having conversations because then it's kinda like you're leading them on. But if you're just saying "thank you" or something like if they say something nice, then I think that's ok.
Sexy pictures in lingerie or poses that are sexual are wrong to post in a relationship but it’s not cheating unless that leads to her flirting with a guy and more. Bikini pictures are less offensive to post but still kind of bad to post them. When a girl is single I still dislike the idea of girls posting sexy pictures because that seems like they’re desperate for attention
To be honest it depends on how open you are in a relationship coz i know many guys and girls who are very much in live with each other but still flirt with others for the sake of fun time
And if one is not in any relationship then its not always the intent i believe
Normally I wouldn't care because both sexes are gonna stare at each other regardless of relationship. But if that's the only attention you seek and you can't be satisfied with the lion share coming from your partner, then yes it's a problem and you shouldn't do it.
As long as its talked about in a civil manner and mutually agreed on its fine.
If you're in a relationship, then yes it is. However if you're single. No.
If I take a sexy picture, or what I deem as sexy, there are only 2 people that will get to see it. Me and my boyfriend. No one else
If in a relationship. Its cheating, it can go bad. ... its that fine line playing with fire and hurting partner.
If not, attention/flirtyihng to attract and can lead to more.
The Golden Rule "Do to others as you would have them do to you."
I wouldn't call it cheating, but I think it's not something most people would like their partners doing either. It doesn't have to be cheating to be objectionable.
If it is to a single person, I'd say it's cheating. If you're publicly doing this, even for attention, at that point it's your body, and has nothing to do with betraying your partner's trust. You just wanna post sexy photos of yourself.
I see small cubes... everywhere
I hate that! I think it's a glitch on the app.
It is a sluts way of showing off her fat , implants and such to get men's attention to date them and have sex too ! Thanks
I love honest people. Thank you for this amazing answer. Women wear extremely revealing clothes and then go "i just wear for myself, i wanna feel good." Yeah yeah right. :D
I find unless you know the person, it only invites perverts and losers to harass you when you post sexy pics... ALWAYS never put your face if you do.
All. For attention, flirting material and projecting a bad image of yourself especially if you have a partner. Unless you only send it to your so then that’s a different story
Only if their partner doesn't know about it, because then its shady. I don't see anything wrong with harmless flirting while in a relationship, provided your partner knows it happens.
This depends entirely on the motive. If the motive is just to get to feel sexy or feel good about yourself and that's it then I think it's okay. If there is an ulterior motive then yes it can be cheating.
If the person is single, then it is not cheating. And even if they are attached, it may not be cheating. And flirting is not necessarily cheating, either.
A form of shaming yourself, your man and your family
It depends on what kind and to whom and what for or what reason but lust can be a bad thing. It's all about being careful and faithful.
Personally, I’d say yes! And it shows how insecure they are that they need constant ego boosts. If you’re in a happy relationship and you respect your SO, you shouldn’t do it. (PS: we’re all humans and we’d want to be seen as attractive but going the extra mile to post sexy pics and flirt with people is completely different)
It depends. Some people do, some people don't. It depends on the two in the relationships.
For the update: So you should have probably asked if flirting is cheating.
In my opinion, flirting is cheating.
If it's all she knows then she's probably just getting attention. But flirting with other people is a form of cheating in my book.
It both it cheating and flirting
UNLESS it for your significant other
It's not cheating, but it's negative attention seeking, which is not good either.
It's disgusting, disrespectful, undignified and trashy. I would never be with a girl that does that.
I think if you are married or have a Boyfriend, women should not put pics up in bikinis , underwear and bra. It is disrespecting the man. Just because she can doesn't mean she should. When I see women with boyfriends post sexy pics it tells me she is not happy with her boyfriend and advertising for a new one. Just like women that want a modeling career and pose naked , then gets "lets have sex "and sexual questions from other guys. I could not put up with it and would move on to someone new.
If u have a boyfriend or girlfriend, then it depends. If you're straight up in sexy panties and bra then it's kinda like cheating in a sense, if it's a shorts and sports bra situation, make sure they're cool with it first, but if it's just swimwear or a bikini the. Its fine
Could be all of the above. Not wrong if she’s single. Actually that’s a good strategy to bring the guys in.
I think it's attention seeking , i feel if i had a special lady in
my life who posted sexy pictures online than she's not
interested into me much.
I think of it as something else other than flirting or cheating, wouldn’t personally do it though since I’d still feel guilty about it. Just seems like another way to get attention//
Yes if your in a relationship. You shouldn’t be looking for attention from anyone other than your SO. If that’s the case be single and get all the attention you want and hump like rabbits
It may not be cheating, but it's not healthy for a relationship.
Its disrespectful, it ain't cheating but its being a slut for sure
To me, it's already cheating because I want her to be mine and mine only.
Well, unless she works as a model for victoria secret or a professional athlete, I can't really say anything. I doubt I'll date any of them, though.
It's not cheating. But its wrong, without being discussed before hand.
It could just be that the woman doesn't mind having her sexy pics up in public or she isn't mature enough, it may not necessarily come from an intention of attracting more men.
I dont mind her posting sexy pics on instagram etc. Its narcissistic but not cheating. Sexting is cheating of you are in a relationship. but its forgivable. Im more bothered by real in person physical intimacy than technology sexuality.
If i had a girlfriend who was doing this they wouldn't likely be my girlfriend anymore.
If your man won't accept it. Then its cheating. Same goes for the man...
It can be. I don't necessarily think it is, but it can lead to something. If your in communication with your partner.. then it's usually ok
It's just self-promotion. Flirting is kind of a grey area. You have to decide what is acceptable in your own relationship. Maybe it's okay to flirt if you're still faithful to your partner?
If I’m in a happy relationship why tf would I post needlessly sexy photos?
To each their own, but anything like that if my partner doesn’t like it is cheating to me🤷🏾♀️
It's wrong as you get the wrong idea about the person posting the pictures.
It's not cheating, it's just another form of narcissism.
Who are you cheating on by posting a provocative photo? The real question is "why are you doing it"?
In most cases it´s simply attention seeking and confirmation seeking.
That's the lead-up to physical cheating. Might as well cut your losses and move on, because he/she is only keeping you around until they find someone new
depends on attached message and to whom definitely hunting for attention
Yes its cheating and there's no other explanation for it whatsoever
I don't know if it is cheating, per se, but it is certainly disrespectful to her partner and a low class thing to do.
I don’t mind if she posts sexy pics but the comments and intentions of other guys will really upset me unless she’s gonna post it privately to her girls
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