Would you let your son or daughter date interracially? (Page 2)

Question

I don't date interracially, so therefore I would not condone that type of behavior. So how do you feel about interracial dating, and what is your race?I'm white, and if my kids started to date outside of the race..basically I would be very very angry. yes that would be how you kill me.

Bluegameroyon · Answer

Where's a poll when you need it?

anyway, if I had kids (which will never happen, btw) I would allow him/her to date any race.

we're all human. and besides, do you think people can stay this close-minded when humanity is beginning to leave earth?

screw you all.

Anonymous · Answer

I find that notion absolutely silly and without proper support for the claim.

I personally strongly feel that there is nothing wrong with interracial dating or marriage. Especially so seeing that my boyfriend is of Hispanic descent while I'm Caucasian. I fully supported my brother who had an African-American girlfriend.

In the past I have had crushes on Asians, African-Americans, Hispanics, and Caucasians alike.

If you love them, who cares?

And to put a less emotional, and more scientific twist, ever heard of inbreeding? Some of the most gorgeous and intelligent people I've met are a product of interracial marriages.

Armada · Answer

Old post but I'll add my input. I would let my children date anyone as long as they are a good person. My parents are the same way and they urge me to meet a white girl as they really like half Asian half White babies lol. I would love to meet a black or latina woman as well though.

top_cat · Answer

You know something? I would. I'm black and I LOVE all women, especially white women. There's elegant whites, bold and creamy blacks, zestly and mouth- sizzling hispanics, curious and astounding indians, shy and cute asians, then you have burnt trash. Kindly escort yourself to that last one and I'll kindly tip my hat to you and be on my way. :)

kemosavy · Answer

You don't date black people or aizens but your kids do. Get over it. You are not their boss when they are adults. If you are angry about it then I think you are immature. Getting angry over such a trivial thing.

thats for old un-modern people.

im white

LittleWing · Answer

You're kids should be taught that true love is blind. They should be taught that race is NOT a factor in love.

This is SIMPLY a disgrace. I am white, but I WOULD NEVER tell my kids, "Sorry, son.. I can't let you date this woman you love. Her skin tone is just a bit wrong.."

OUTRAGEOUS BEHAVIOR! What makes white people better than other races? Who do you think you are?

SteelersBabe · Answer

Its people like you that sicken me, I'm not a violent person, but I wouldn't mind smacking some sense in yall.  Mario Lopez, Hot! Emmanuel Sanders, HOT! Ryan Higa, hot! Guy who plays storm shadow in G.I. Joe, HOTTIE! Latino, African American, Asian, and Asian. YUMMY!:D

lace1228 · Answer

I love my girls very much and I always will. When my girls are old enough to date the most important  thing is they find somone that will love them and respect them and will treat them well. It wouldn't much matter to me what the colour of their skin was has long as my girls were happy.

mrwharton · Answer

I'm black mixed with white and Amerindian,and to be honest I didn't know that people like you still exist but there is a lot of things that I don't know lol,if you were in dior need of a new heart would you ask for it to come from a white person? lmao that should answer your question,I have 1 son and 2 daughters and when its time for them to date I would not care what race their companion is of but I would more be concerned about their well being and happiness.

Rubybubzz · Answer

I think it's really sad that people are so close minded. The anger that you see in some of these responses is crazy, as long as your child was happy why would it matter to you wether it be with  a black, Asian, Hispanic or any other nationality. No one choses what life their born into, so be grateful for the one you have.

roxo06 · Answer

Normal people don't bring race into the equation and love people for who they are and not what their made of.  You should really consider seeing a theripist, and invest in a good one because its going to take a lot of time for them to bring you back to a normal state of mind.

sikoo31 · Answer

every attack comes from fear you're just a coward.

Anonymous · Answer

It does not matter to me. I am white. The black guy I'm seeing now and I fell for each other when we were 15. Both of us were shy then and had family members telling us not to see people of each others' race, so we only recently got together. My dad's passed now, but it hurts me to consider that I let his opinions affect how I acted then, and that he might not have accepted this man I respect and admire based on such a superficial difference.

Attraction accompanied by an emotional bond -which is an honest-to-God fireworks show type of chemistry- is so, so hard to find, and you really cannot help with whom who you find it. It just happens. How can you say that you would unconditionally love your child if you cannot unconditionally love with whom they fall in love?

Freetobe007 · Answer

Yes. Quite frankly, it's none of your damb business. Who cares what the hell you would condone? It is not your choice to make. The relationship is not for your happines so if your child chose to, you should just get over it and deal with it. You will be okay. Who cares about you being very gvery angry!? It's not your relationship, it's not your life, so get over it!

I want my children to be happy. I undestand that sharing the same race doesn't gaurantee happiness or correctness.

ysheila81 · Answer

You are confusing race with culture.  Further, you are confusing race with skin color.  I just watched an Oprah from many years ago with skin heads, and I hate to see that behavior today.  I would not care who my son/daughter dates, and certainly not on the color of their skin.  The color of a small part of my skin is hot pink in the shape of a playboy bunny, and I would hope nobody would judge me because of it.

Tachiana · Answer

Well I'm not gonna hate on you for only have a certain preface and wanting your kids to have the same. If my family never dated interracially I wouldn't be here. I'm mixed with Black,White,Cherokee,Japanese,Puerto Rican,Jamaican,Filipino,and Jew. I don't have kids but I wouldn't mind if they dated interracially and its not just because I'm mixed. It's because I don't want them to never wanna see me again because I couldn't accept who they were in love with. It's up to you what you want though...

Anonymous · Answer

Did you know that mixing races create superior offsprings? a higher genetical variability is evolutionarily preferable. That's how nature works. Keeping a race "pure" actually weakens it and its completely anti-natural. Let the idea of a pure race superiority to Hitler. Science shows us halfblooded people are superior.

upskrtcelebs · Answer

Good, then perhaps you should die.  This is 2011 where pretty much it's not a big deal.  Besides, mixed kids are easily the best looking.

SuperLupeLyrical · Answer

I'm in an interracial relationship and love it.  Now I'm not sure how I feel about dating hateful, evil, racist, ignorant, hideous idiots.

top_cat · Answer

How ironic that there's an interacial dating ad right next to this topic. Kinda speaks for itself eh?

jaii-x · Answer

i don't know where in the world you are from but its clearly not the uk if it were you would understand how low and disgusting that is. if you cut through white flesh, black flesh, yellow flesh the coulour of the blood that poors out will be the same! itts what's on the inside not the colour of someones skin. are you really goining to deny your son/daughter true love because you don't like the colour of their partners skin?

im shocked

cjwright79 · Answer

I hold all sorts of different nationalities in high esteem, so this sort of miscegenation would be totally fine by me.

advicegiver · Answer

You sound racist. You should be ashamed of yourself, you're a disgrace to your race and shouldn't be reproducing.

snoopy13 · Answer

I don't understand people like you because I look at all of the interracial babies and how beautiful they are: Lolo Jones, Rashida Jones, Derek Jeter, Leona Lewis, The Rock. I could go on...but just about every mixed kid I know personally is just so beautiful to me and I don't know why...So why would I deny it?

0ddjob · Answer

No. I would only allow my children to date other humans. If they date outside their race, that might lead to bestiality.

kkandbb · Answer

Are you kidding me? Who cares who your children love? What? Don't want a drop of color in your white pool? T_T

Well I've dated a black guy and I'm currently dating a Filipino guy and I'm white. I have no problems with people dating who they want to date whether that's same-sex or interracial.

themastaplan · Answer

have you been killed yet? along with penton? you two would make a cute couple...they should post yopur blown up face next to bin ladens

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a white guy and the girl I'm sweet on at the moment is of east Asian ethnicity. If I get with her and my parents object to her race, which is possible, then I'll be the one who's angry. I wanna make cute half Asian babies with her. ;-)

Anonymous · Answer

Tell me why you even decided to have kids?

If you have a preference, you could At LEAST state it in an inoffensive way. I couldn't help but notice that your age says you are: 18-24, how many kids do you have? Were you a teenage mother or something? What is outrageous is the fact that you even exist at all and that you computed barely enough brain power to type out a sentence.

GOOOOD LUCK with that. I hope your kids bring home plenty of black boyfriends/girlfriends and some Asians too.

Elisha22 · Answer

Why would I care? It has nothing to do with me as long as they are with someone who cares about them and they are safe.

Why does it matter so much to you?

Also I'm black and I date mostly white guys.

Lamnad · Answer

it does not matter to me, my brother married a black girl and I click with her better then him. I judge people not skin. I still have a fear of short skinny people though, they be CRAZY.

Shimi · Answer

This page is about 3 years old but I'll answer any way. I have read your responses and I have to say you are very rude miss. I'm black with various mixes in my background. I'm dating a white Puerto Rican in good stance. My preference is mostly Asians, White, Hispanic (even though they can be any race) but I have dated a blasian and an African American before who was super nice. Your view on black men must be a bit screwed. What you want does not matter at the moment. If your daughter shows up with a black guy and you're angry about it (excuse my French) but who the F**k cares? You need to suck it up. It's not about what you want.

Margaret2015 · Answer

Wow. Me being biracial myself finds this question to disgusting and appalling. I see no point in becoming disappointed by whom you child is in a relationship with. What does that matter to you? It shouldn't be about the color of the persons skin but about the way they carry themselves and how they treat your child. Just because other people in their race act "ghetto" doesn't mean they do. Get out of the 19th century please!

Sapphires4Life · Answer

I have dated a biracial man once, and the relationship had a good long, healthy run.  So I don't see why my future kids can't do the same. =/  The only thing I care about the person they choose to date is if that person is really good for them to be with.

gummybear888 · Answer

yeah I would not be disapointed at my kids for making their own independent decisions on who is a good person and who is a bad person and it does not depend on race.

i've dated outside my race. so what? there isn't all good people in my own race.

i wondered why some people's son's acted so uneducated about other cultures and now I understand why. cause their mother is a bitch who should get some education about not being a racist.

Lunarrose · Answer

I honestly wouldn't care too much, It'd probably be a little awkward because I myself don't find some races sexually attractive. I don't find black guys or girls sexually attractive even if its quite obvious that they are handsome or beautiful, and it's the same with most other races.

I've never dated outside my race but that my decision. no different from being gay bi or transsexual. as long as the said person was a good person and such then it's not my decision.

Alexeiv · Answer

I'm more on nationality. For example:

Japanese, Vietnamese, Cambodian are perfectly fine.

Chinese, Korean, Thai are not.

And yes, from life experience there is a difference in the way most of these people act. Koreans personally hate most Caucasians.

As for African American, I would be fine as long as the guy/girl is of good character.

girlmx · Answer

I'm from Mexico my boyfriend is from Boston of course we have some cultural differences that's normal we grew up with a completely different perception of what is "reality" in the abstract sense, but it doesn't mean that we have to hate each other in fact that keep us closer . We live in a globalized world people are moving from country to country for many different reason I think the only way to avoid interracial dating is look for a house in island on the middle of the Martian ocean and move there, and even there your son or daughter will date a martian girl or boy!

caligirl3 · Answer

i hope my kids will date someone that's has our nationality which is italian or at least part italian. I think it has to do that we understand each other and have simular likes and dislikes so its easier to connect with one and other. But I don't have any kids somany I will change my mind when I get there.

VeronicaL · Answer

I just have a question first. What's wrong with other races that makes you object to it? I'm white and honestly I would date anyone I loved. My feeling is we all are humans...the only difference is some of us have different pigmentation. And sure cultures differ but then again there's some people that act black, some black that act white...ect. It really just depends on who you are. I feel whatever your belief is that's your belief I'm not gonna tell you to go and die over it. I just don't believe the same thing you do. Personally my family taught me to be open to everyone...one time my mom even told me "please marry someone with some color  because our family is just too paisty" lol. Which is pretty true. I can't tan even if I wanted to. Hahaha. I love different cultures too  because it would be sooooooo boring if we all were white. White is the most boring race ever I swear. So like I said I just wondered what makes you object so strongly to it?

NicholasHalden · Answer

Yeah, race doesn't mean anything. Its just like different foods. Its personality that matters :)

HotPepper302 · Answer

You do know that genetically, you're more likely to be similar to someone of a different race than to someone in your extended family, right? Things like skin pigmentation or the shape of someone's nose, for example, have nothing to do with WHO that person is on the inside. Just something to take into consideration.

Anonymous · Answer

i don't want my boy dating a white girl.. but other races are ok.. my daughter can date whoever

Metallicaman · Answer

Wow you sound like Hitler, he killed the Jews cause he thought the inter breeding was weaking the German race!

TheArcticMonkey · Answer

Obv, you do know that humanity crawled out of East Africa and the only reason your white is to allow your skin to absorb more vitamin D, from the low levels of sunlight in Europe.

Anonymous · Answer

I would be disgusted if any of my children came home with a white-American man/woman. I tell them all the time to stay away from those evil- people. Especially the white ones, the whiter the more evil. Even worse, if my daughter came home with a man! The Horror! And if he was the God loving white-devil I think I would commit senpuku and spill my guts onto our clean floors. What a mess...

Anonymous · Answer

you sound like a white southerner from 1953. its not something you want to be.

in a couple hundred years america will be one big brown mixed race country, and it will be for the best.

- a white person

lovelace13 · Answer

I am the product of an interacial marriage. I date interacially, thus I see no problems with it. I think the distaste and disapproval for interacial interacial dating is plain old stupid. Close minded.

babymomma · Answer

my daughters can date whom ever they want, you love whom you love and race should mean anything, I'm spanish and irish my 3 children are spanish, irish and scottish and My sisters married to an irianian man and they have a teenage daughter and my other sister is married to a latin man, I was married to an irish, scottish man just my choice

lala-193 · Answer

Im half black and half white, and therefore any couple I'm in is interracial. I don't care if you only want to date people in your own race but I think its ridiculous to impose that on you kids. I mean I understand if you don't find people of other races attractive but I can't think of anything else wrong with interracial dating. also what did you expect with a question like this of course people are going to get mad.

Anonymous · Answer

The only reason why black guys go for white chicks is because they are hella easy but once black guys get tired of a booty call they come crawling back to their black roots, don't worry if your daughter dates a black guy..because once an intelligent classy black girl comes along he will give you pack your "precious" white daughter.

Anonymous · Answer

yah my daughter is mexican and white so of course I'd be OK with it.  I'm not some mean controlling old hag who wants to scold my kid for dating someone just because I don't like it. you sound like a tight wad. it'd the kids life not yours...as soon as their 18 they can do whatever they want weather it makes mommy happy or not.

JudeJericho · Answer

as long as the guy isn't black i'm cool because i'm brown and i realized i want white kids so my wife or kids mother will be of European descent so most likely i want her kids to be even whiter so the only interracial would be with whits not even brown people Asians r ok

gaganmane18 · Answer

it wouldn't matter to me personally which race they would date because honestly we are all the same. I am of east indian decent, and have had many relationships with white females, I personalyl don't think it is a big deal because universally we are all so diverse and many people are in interracial relationships. I can understand you wanting to keep your culture and bloodline only white, but honestly it shouldn't matter which race they date because honestly love is love at the end of the day

Juker · Answer

These race questions make me want to punch a whole through my laptop screen -_-

just_the_way_you_are · Answer

I would trust my child to date the best PERSON for them.  Regardless of RACE.

Anonymous · Answer

your attitude is disgusting and makes me sick. I'ts 2011. seriously?

Jonny_ · Answer

Doesn't bother me, race isn't an issue... So long as they're nice people it's fine with me. I don't give a sh*t where they're from or what they look like and why the hell should I it's got nothing to do with me...

colombo21 · Answer

question asker= racist f***  best answer=racist f*** racist f***+racist f***= best buddies  and why the f*** this question is still here?

Anonymous · Answer

doesn't matter to me at all, it's more about the persons personality and ambitions. And I think it's racism to say your child can't date X race, extremely narrow minded and bullsh*t.

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