Generally speaking, do you consider yourself to be an inquisitive person? Also, do you find yourself hanging out with people that are similar to you?

[Anonymous]

Do you consider yourself to be an inquisitive person?

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[SuperManiac]

I'd say "curious" for sure, but I am not sure about inquisitive. Inquisitive is polite. I aspire to be inquisitive. Curious isn't always polite. Sometimes I'm tempted to be provocative and push people a bit to try to figure them out, test their limits, really see what makes them tick. I have a bit of a button-pusher side to me and it's not a very good side. But I am always trying to figure out how people work, how I work, that sort of thing.

As for hanging out with people similar to me, I'd find that dull probably even if I could find them. I hang out with people with some small overlap in interests, often basic things like drinking or traveling, but they're quite an eclectic and varied group -- a wide range of ages, from various parts of the world. Some of my friends seriously dislike each other, and that's one of the downsides to having such an eclectic group of friends. But I like all of them.

[Asker]

😂 I never thought about it that way. In what ways do you test the people?

I wish I had a friend group of 4 or more that just enjoyed each other's company :') Similar to he stuff you see on the movies

[SuperManiac]

It depends on my sobriety level. Hopefully, I can switch more to inquisitive mode now that I'm really determined to quit drinking. :-D But especially for types I perceive as uptight, I sometimes get this mischievous desire to see what sort of things I can say, and how close I can move next to them before they get uncomfortable. It's a very rude habit, although my intent usually is not to make them feel uncomfortable, more to learn like how their mind works. I think it's a curiosity that extended from being biracial and growing up across cultures. I never quite understood proper etiquette anywhere -- I moved too much to ever become fully integrated into any particular society. So I'm often trying things, exploring the boundaries of what is appropriate and inappropriate... and sometimes to the point of becoming a vulgar lunatic (only when extremely drunk).

[SuperManiac]

But I used to, as a moderate example, be the guy who'd enter a train and find only one person inside. Then sit right next to them, ask them what they're reading, is it any good? Try to switch to deep-cutting questions about life, and how they perceive it, their goals, sharing mine, and all while half of me is saying this is so rude and inappropriate and knowing I'm making the person uncomfortable, but the other half not understanding why we construct these barriers in society of what's proper that distance us apart, and perhaps halfway hoping that the rare one, maybe a lonely one, will appreciate such a gesture... or that's kind of a guess since I'm usually under the influence in these scenarios. :-D

[SuperManiac]

Every now and then it works, so I don't have like 0% success and keep doing something that never reveals any fruit. For example, one time I asked a police officer about his gun, and whether he has fired it and switched to idle chit-chat, and talking about life, and he actually liked it and invited me to drink with him off-duty. I also met a very close friend this way. But probably 90% of the time, I think, I just scare people away. :-D

[Asker]

😂 Dang! I like that though. It's bold! I wish I could be like that. I do find it easier to be like that than to try to be liked by everyone though. For instance, when I was in high school, I used to have 2 main personas. The one that would interact with everyone and wouldn't care if I was annoying, and the type to be so reserved that other people had to initiate the conversation to get even the simplest remark from me.

It felt so much easier to just interact with everyone and not care about how they saw me rather than to keep up a personality that made everyone indifferent about me.

Do you look sketchy when you're drunk? Because I probably wouldn't want to get too close either 😂

[SuperManiac]

>> Do you look sketchy when you're drunk?

I don't think so but some people might be put off by a bumblebee dress and ski mask if you recall my Halloween pic. :-D

>> I do find it easier to be like that than to try to be liked by everyone though.

I used to be more reserved as well but it's like the bolder I became, the more I was scaring some people off, maybe even most, but also drawing others closer to me. It is easier to make friends and lovers that way for me at least to be bold and risk scaring people away than to be reserved. Also, I find them more comfortable friends and lovers since they've seen you "fully exposed" in a way, and so you don't have to worry about scaring them off saying and doing what you want since they've already seen the extremities right from the start.

But of course, it's a bit of a balancing act, and I don't always or necessarily even often get it right, and especially when I'm not sober. :-D

I always found it helpful though to look at reality like a simulation.. like some video game. You can do whatever you want. It's like a mental exercise to avoid that feeling of worrying about not pleasing others or being rude (either deliberately or inadvertently), etc. Then you can move about unshackled. Of course -- hopefully not to the extent where you're committing crimes. I never got that far. It was just a way to get me out of the desire to be reserved, and to take bolder risks in making others disapprove to better find those who do.

[SuperManiac]

[...] It was just a way to get me out of the desire to be reserved, and to take bolder risks [that could risk making some disapprove to better find those who do approve -- like you gotta part the audience, divide it, to find the ones who get along with your most exposed self].

[Asker]

😂 Who could forget that!

I don't know if I'll ever be like that though. Maybe once my anxiety stops being so bad. :') But yeah I hate that there's a mold of "normality" that people are told to stay in. And that "there must be something mentally wrong with the person" if they exceed it 😂 I do like people that test those limits. Like this guy:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LIVjYzUI9XI&t=16s

[SuperManiac]

I'm not sure if he's testing the limits or if he's living in there. :-D There is sometimes a risk I feel though if we push the limits too often that we'll get stuck there. But I do like to move close to people -- not just physically but try to probe a bit deeper than what might be considered polite.

Have you ever seen the show, Curb Your Enthusiasm? Some people seem to perceive the main character as a complete asshole but I don't know. From my perspective, it's like more often he's the one behaving the way he should while everyone else around him has something stuck up their ass. :-D

https://youtu.be/JB5m2EJG88I

[Asker]

Yeah, I think he's living there! 😅 but I agree, people will start associating and shit 😂

Nah I've never seen it before. But now I wanna find more clips though!

[SuperManiac]

My favorite one:
https://youtu.be/0S5-Vx4hlr4

[SuperManiac]

And this:
https://youtu.be/M8X-JLga8l8

[Asker]

😂 Would your wife ever be upset with you for saying that another woman?

[SuperManiac]

Like, "I'd know that tush anywhere?" I don't think I'd ever say that or find myself in any situation remotely like Larry's. She's very tolerant of my quirks. :-D I think she'd find it funny more than anything else, especially if the girl got offended. She'd probably comfort her and tell her, "You know, it's him. He's like that." And the girl might be like, "How do you put up with that?" And wife might be like, "Well, he has some good points... but sometimes I wonder the same thing."

[SuperManiac]

[...] situation remotely like Larry's, [but she's] very tolerant of my quirks.

[SuperManiac]

I did get into a slightly awkward situation one time where I was at the beach with my friends, and my friend brought a new girlfriend and while we were sitting, her top slipped a bit revealing nipple. Then an acquaintance (not so close friend) had his hand in his face ogling her tits.

And I wasn't quite sure what to do. Cause it's like I don't ruin the guy's enjoyment but it's also my friend's new girlfriend. It was like a moral dilemma. So I gave the guy a minute to ogle and then jumped up and shouted, "BOOBIES! I see nipple! I'm so excittteeddd!" And I was sitting next to my wife.

But that was my way to try to help her notice and cover-up, which she did. Then to try to make the situation feel less awkward, I said I'm keeping that memory for the masturbation archives.

Then my wife kind of elbowed me and seemed a little bit annoyed. But I explained to her why I did that later and she was like, "Ohhh!" And you know, it's been like that over the years and now she gets my motivations.

[SuperManiac]

[...] Then an acquaintance (not so close friend) had his [face in his hand] ogling her tits. [...]

So by doing that, I was able to avoid seeming proper, I got a laugh out of the guy who was ogling while he immediately stopped looking, and also a laugh out of my friend and the girl. I only seemed to irritate my wife in that situation who didn't know what I was trying to do, but later I talked to her and she got it and laughed as well.

[Asker]

Duuuuuuuuuuuude, I'd be wayyyy too afraid to say something like that. 😂 I'd probably just say in the most casual way "Oh yeah, your nipple is showing" while pointing towards her. 😂 Then try and continue the conversation in as normal of a way as possible to avoid awkwardness.

Did you say "BOOBIES! I see nipple! I'm so excittteeddd!" in a Matthew Silver kinda way? Like did you get up and start jumping around? Or was it just more of a verbal thing¿ 🤔

(optional watch) This guy is really testing limits:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3SPsOysARQ

[SuperManiac]

I think the closest I can think of is like a Steve Carrell way when he's playing a character who seems kind of lacking in IQ points and blurts out obvious things in front of him. But I did get up out of my chair.

>> Duuuuuuuuuuuude, I'd be wayyyy too afraid to say something like that.

I think it's just a matter of execution and also I had a bit of a rep (or notoriety) among my friends for saying over-the-top things out of the blue so it wasn't entirely unexpected. But I used to flirt with making sort of creepy sexual jokes with girls as another way to find limits, and I didn't actually ever find any when using a humorous tone. I think girls get creeped out when it's serious.

When it's humorous and it's kind of hinted that you're poking fun at yourself, you turn the "threat level" down to the minimum. And then it's really fun to joke around in a perverted way with girls at that point when you know how to do it without offending.

As for that guy in the vid, I'm not sure I like that sort of testing of limits so much since it doesn't seem so geared towards a goal of connecting more deeply to people. Well, I need to watch more but it seems kind of "cold and dry" to me, and I at least try to be "warm" and often "affectionate", like there's a huge difference between warm sarcasm and dry/cold -- the latter can be mistaken as an insult, the former usually comes off very friendly.

[Asker]

"I think the closest I can think of is like a Steve Carrell"

- Ahh yeah, I can definitely picture that 😂 I don't think I could do that and make it funny.

Do you think certain people are more physically cut out for certain types of comedy? Like some people's execution mixed with their nature are just more cut out for it?

[SuperManiac]

>> Do you think certain people are more physically cut out for certain types of comedy? Like some people's execution mixed with their nature are just more cut out for it?

I don't know about cut out but I think it does heavily impact what sort of jokes and humor can get the biggest laughs out of people for rather obvious reasons -- like if two comedians with completely different physical statures, presence, voice, body language tried to deliver identical punchlines, the effect would almost certainly not be identical on their audiences. But I think a lot of developing a comedic style boils down to being very acutely aware of this and embracing it rather than fighting against it and just working with what you have.

I used to resent advice like "Just be yourself and everything will be fine" for social environments since I didn't get such a good reaction as an awkward teenager struggling to adapt to American culture and mannerisms while thinking I followed it. I bored people thinking I was doing that. But in retrospect, it's like I didn't realize how much of myself I was holding back out of fear of saying the wrong thing, or not being perceived as cool, or scaring off a girl I liked, and things of this sort.

[SuperManiac]

Then by the time I was in university, I got invited to a drinking party, tried alcohol for the first time, and then it's like I fully unleashed myself with that liquid courage. I wasn't trying to do that but being tipsy for the first time in my life had that effect on me -- all sorts of things spilled out, and I found myself talkative when I never thought of myself as talkative. Then I got all these laughs, a girl came up to me and brought me a drink and started french kissing me, lost my virginity that night, and then I kind of realized how much of myself I was always holding back, and I started unleashing myself more and more even when I was sober. On the downside, my brain started associating alcohol with awesome things (I've been struggling to quit ever since). :-D

So I started interpreting that saying as not like, "Just be yourself" so much as like, "Totally unleash yourself" which is probably also not what girls intended by the saying. But I found I got the best social outcomes doing just that -- best as in I got the most positive reactions, even though I had more negative ones as well.

[Asker]

Yeah I don't like the saying "Just be yourself" when applied to situations where you don't wanna be yourself. When you wanna be something more! Then it's like. To be one's self, do you have to stay the same? Can I change to another version of myself so long as I'm trying to better myself? But then would I be "being myself¿" Or wouldn't I¿ 😅

Have you tried to totally unleash yourself when not drunk? Has it worked out as well? I don't think I could do that when sober.

[SuperManiac]

In some ways, I think I "unleash myself" more when I'm sober than drunk nowadays. That ability to make friends and dates more easily when drunk than sober soon started reversing as I got the hang of opening myself up more sober, and these incidents I described above like where I tried to diffuse awkward situations were done sober. :-D

I slow down and open up a lot more, although "unleash" is maybe too aggressive of a term for the nature I take on when sober. I actually lower my guard more when sober, like I'm more okay with being "exposed" than when I'm drunk since I'm in better control of the emotions. When I'm drunk the emotions are kind of fluctuating wildly, so in some way, I'm more provocative then but also raising my guard in some way. My stance tends to be more aggressive when I'm drunk. It shows up in my body language in a somewhat overbearing and arrogant way.

[SuperManiac]

>> Can I change to another version of myself so long as I'm trying to better myself? But then would I be "being myself¿" Or wouldn't I¿

From my standpoint, it's like we have many facets. You discover more the more you test the limits of how much you can open up to people. And there were times I was surprised to see sides of me, and my interests expanded exponentially as I started doing it (I have a tendency to assimilate the interests of those I talk to, and I was talking to many).

And I do remember feeling the slightest bit of an identity crisis creeping on there, but I never felt like anything I was doing was a deception. It's like I just have many facets. I think we all do. It's like I got a decent academic background and career, so I'm supposedly bright (although I never felt like I was, and actually I feel more disingenuous when I participate in a scholarly way without making jokes about it). Yet I adore stupid things like South Park and Beavis and Butthead humor and stoner humor. And I certainly have a stupid side, so that feels *extremely* genuine, but I might exaggerate it at times for humorous effect.

And I have a sort of analytical side required for my job and a love of things, but I think I'm more interested in people. I also have a bit of a jock side (more interest than ability). And definitely a nerd side, some musical side (but also interest more than ability), artistic side (same). And I'm definitely like a social abnormality with my weird upbringing and often tight roping the type of existential crisis that wants to view everything as absurd. So I'm fond of absurdities and non-sequiturs because they actually make as much sense as the things which aren't supposed to be.

[SuperManiac]

I think if you practice you figure out similar things about yourself like that -- there are so many facets. And no one person can see them all. And so you can start to feel some sort of identity crisis creeping on if you really open up and unleash, but I'd counter and say all those sides of you are still you.

[SuperManiac]

I think my curious nature and weird upbringing also gave me the widest range of eclectic interests that keep expanding, and I think that also sort of tempts an identity crisis... since people tend to want to form cliques and identify with their interests. If I tried to do that, I'd just find one giant mess and blur of an identity that doesn't make any sense. So I've had to try to find ways to figure out who I am beside my interests like my memories, experiences, people I care about.

[Asker]

"And so you can start to feel some sort of identity crisis creeping on if you really open up and unleash, but I'd counter and say all those sides of you are still you."

^ Like if someone were a doctor but also wanted to be an assassin? 😂

- Of the very few and pointless facets I have, I've never really thought about them like that. I definitely have moments where I'll be thinking about something and then my philosophical side will come in and tell me that everything is meaningless and that I shouldn't care so much. 😂 I wanna care about things but It's just so hard for me to unless they are in my comfort zone/benefit me in the here and now.

[SuperManiac]

The identity crisis thing might be something I deal with a bit more than usual with the biracial thing and bouncing between three countries growing up. But there was a strong question always while growing up like, "Who am I?" I can't identify with a culture, or racial group, or anything like that. I'll always be seen as a foreigner no matter where I go. So then it's like, is it my interests? But then I was the weird one that had so many interests that I bounced between cliques in school. And then with the temporary shyness all this cultural shifting brought about and then overcoming it again (initially with some liquid courage), it's like am I some reserved, quiet type, or chatterbox, a loud one, a quiet one, or what?

And if you saw my mixi page (Japanese social media), there's a feature there where your friends can describe you. And their descriptions (from real-life friends I've spent ages with) are all over the place and even contradictory (brilliant in one description while the next reads the "biggest idiot I've ever met, but fun" the next). But its like all of them seem genuine -- just facets of my character.

[SuperManiac]

Also maybe even my job. Because I'm in the nerdiest job imaginable as a software engineer, and I'm surrounded by technical types of people interested in things. But I was always more interested in people. I just excelled at the software engineering thing because I started as a child designing video games (I had a weird hobby where I enjoyed drawing and designing imaginary games until my grandfather noticed and got me a computer and books to program it). So in my workplace, it's like I don't feel at all like any of the engineers -- I'm much closer to the designers in terms of how we talk, think about things, etc. But I'm an engineer, and that surrounds me more often with people completely unlike me, with interests completely unlike mine. So anyway, I'm always an outsider. to put it briefly :-D

[Asker]

"I'll always be seen as a foreigner no matter where I go."

^ I had a similar experience. I'm black but I was raised a certain way so I have the demeanor of a "white person." So to the white people, I was the "black guy white guy." And to the blacks, I was "the white black guy" 😂

I haven't really interacted with a lot of people these days. I'm kinda a shut in now. But when I was younger, I think people had a lot of different opinions about my personality. 😂 My teachers thought I was a saint but my sisters would call me a demon. Now, people would probably agree that I'm a calm person. I don't really have a very extraordinary or loud personality. And that may be due to my hyperacusis and anxiety. But who knows. 😂 Guess I'll find out when I get fixed.

I tried learning how to code like 2 years ago and didn't even get through the beginner scripting languages 😂 props to anyone that can actually write complex code. My brain would just get way too bored.

[Asker]

So to the white people, I was the "black* white guy."

[SuperManiac]

Do you feel kind of isolated and lonely because of it? I have found, in my case, that I can milk my biracial foreigner thing on the plus side -- and get some eager "tour guides". That might be my most disingenuous side though, since I exaggerate the foreigner aspect sometimes to the point where it's arguably a deception. :-D

[Asker]

Yeah, But I don't know if it's because of the race thing though. Could have been the other aspects. Like how I'm an introvert, never really been rich, didn't have designer clothes, never played sports, wasn't exceptionally smart, etc.

"I have found, in my case, that I can milk my biracial foreigner thing on the plus side -- and get some eager "tour guides". That might be my most disingenuous side though, since I exaggerate the foreigner aspect sometimes to the point where it's arguably a deception."

😂 Did you ever get outed? Reminds me of this YouTuber named "Kei" who faked not knowing English for a whole school year.

[SuperManiac]

I never went to those extremities and never got outed. I do it in much more subtle ways, like just remarking how tasty something is as though I tried the food for the first time when I'm in a country, even though I tried it before. :-D Then people immediately assume I never tried it even though I have, and they're like, "You like this? You should come to our barbecue. We make amazing barbecue." Awesome -- new friends! But I suppose I was fibbing a bit indirectly with my mannerisms

I usually don't initiate that kind of mannerism -- it's when people treat me like a foreigner, asking me where I'm from, and showing great curiosity in my answers, that I feel almost pressured to play the part. Initially I started exaggerating that not to milk it but to just play the part since it seemed to make them happy to be treating me like a foreigner and telling me things I already know, only to reap so many rewards from it that I started doing it for less noble reasons.

[SuperManiac]

I got some WTF moments though along the way. Like one time these people introduced me to this Vietnamese guy with the implication like, "Y'all have so much in common! We always wanted to introduce you two!" And then I'm sitting with this Vietnamese guy and I'm like... so... uhhh... you like rice or something? Know martial arts?

[SuperManiac]

... you bad at driving? I'm bad at driving. I failed my driving test three times before I passed even though I aced the written test cause I kept bumping into things when I was parallel parking... like that sort of awkwardness -- and I'm starting to sound like I'm racist (but I'm being humorous) -- but it's like where am I supposed to go from there with that sort of introduction? :-D

[Asker]

😂 Ohh okay, I know what you mean. I think I used to do something similar when trying to be polite to strangers. I sometimes end up diminishing the things I'm good at to not make it seem like I'm bragging.

[SuperManiac]

I like to do it both ways to confuse people. For example, at a bar once, I was in a borderline trollish mood so I told these groups of girls sitting next to me, "I'm very popular with the ladies!" And then they laughed and one teasingly said like, "I'm sure you are!" Then I'm like, "Just give me a minute and you all will be all over me!" Then they started seeming a little put-off (maybe a bit too arrogant and starting to sound serious), so I was like, "I'm sorry, I just said I'm popular with the ladies to try to impress you all." Then they started laughing again, but then I was like, "But I really am popular with the ladies!" And this went on and I got to dancing with some of them while bragging the whole time. I like this way! :-D Cause it's not really in my nature to be arrogant, I think, but I enjoy it... or maybe it is. I am not sure. I found being overly humble just makes people put you aside.

[SuperManiac]

My favorite way is like that -- brag but make it constantly ambiguous whether I believe what I say or not and even throw in more doubt about my seriousness, then try to cancel that extra doubt. And I find that lets me sort of blurt out my most inner, egotistical kind of thoughts -- and get away with it.

[SuperManiac]

I don't necessarily believe those innermost egotistical thoughts, mind you. Some I can identify as clearly delusional. :-D But it's like maybe our hopes and aspirations makes all these little egotistical thoughts pop up, however absurd, and in my case, also self-defeating... and both are sort of comedy material for me.

[Asker]

"I found being overly humble just makes people put you aside."

^What are some examples? I may have experienced this before. 😅

"My favorite way is like that -- brag but make it constantly ambiguous whether I believe what I say or not and even throw in more doubt about my seriousness, then try to cancel that extra doubt. And I find that lets me sort of blurt out my most inner, egotistical kind of thoughts -- and get away with it."

^What do you think the appeal is? Why does that formula work so well?

[SuperManiac]

>> ^What do you think the appeal is? Why does that formula work so well?

I'm not sure it always works so well. I haven't actually tried it that often. That night I was kind of in a silly mood and I was only in that city for a couple of days, so I wasn't seriously trying to meet girls. I just wanted to have some fun with the group of girls next to me -- ended up being a blast.

I think that situation also kind of set it up for them to be more tolerant of me -- them being American, me being half-Japanese -- and I think there's an Asian stereotype that we're (if I can use "we're") kind of goofy socially, and I think the combo lets me get away with saying more absurd things. On top of that, they were very tall girls -- I'm a measly 5'7, and most were taller, a couple over 6 feet, -- and they were also wide (not fat but broad-framed, truly curvy -- not lumpy but assets and thick waist and hips and thighs). So my relatively small stature to them helped a lot, I think.

As for the appeal, I'm not sure either. One thing I do find though is that I find genuinely arrogant people appealing when they're very confident -- there's that kind of royal/noble/conceited flare they have which I find to be appealing even if they're so egotistical -- like some of the most appealing characters to me in fiction were all very arrogant (but also amazingly competent). Perhaps like a type of arrogance that makes people constantly wonder if they truly are arrogant has some of that appeal of real arrogance but balances the more unsavory aspect of it along with injecting humor into the situation.

[SuperManiac]

^What are some examples? I may have experienced this before.

Pretty much most of my high school experience. It's like being very humble about my athletic abilities made me chosen last on divided sports teams in classes until they saw me run and kick balls and the like. In workplaces, I often saw a flare of arrogance favored for higher positions -- the humble and quiet workhorses are very solid but tend to stay where they are. People are drawn to arrogance to some degree even if it's not exactly an admirable quality -- when there's competence behind it. Of course, an incompetent arrogant person will quickly be hated.

[SuperManiac]

[...] One thing I do find though is that I find genuinely arrogant people appealing when they're very [*competent] [...]

[SuperManiac]

Like given two guys very similar and both extremely competent at the same thing, I'd bet on the arrogant to attract quicker and wider attention. The humble one might be deeply appreciated by a small few who really pay attention, but the arrogant one doesn't need people paying close attention. He walks in the room like a bar and motions to the waiter without saying a word to escort him to his special table. He exudes a sense that he's above everybody, and people notice, and some will hate, but I think a lot will admire -- maybe even secretly -- assuming he is extremely competent.

Arrogance is the more attractive quality as I see it. Humility is a virtue. I think more often than not, in the eyes of many, to be humble is sacrificing attractiveness in favor of a moral code. Of course, some small number who pay close attention will find that humility most admirable and attractive -- but very often the humble one will be overlooked -- because there's a boss who commands this room -- an emperor, nobility, aristocrat, a star, an elite.

I always valued humility as a virtue. But it's like it requires too many sacrifices to be truly humble. So I like to balance it out with arrogant humor and such.

[Asker]

I had a friend once that carried himself in a humble way and would often boast about it. 😂 But he could easily switch to a competently arrogant state. And he garnered a lot of followers. I was one of them. 😂 We all viewed him as a leader figure and he's still got followers to this day. I think what you're describing was the major appeal!

[razelove]

I am extremely inquisitive, I've worked at my casino 3 weeks now and just asking around on break I feel confident in working 3 other jobs there, cage, and equipment repair. It kills me to not know how something works, a system, a device, a chemical reaction, a relation in physics. How clearing a house in urban combat works smoothly to minimize friendly casualties. I have to know and work at it and practice.

I don't often get to hang out with other people like me as we're wanderers chasing the next mystery.

[mvpverona]

Some of my friends are like me and some aren’t. I have a balance of friends. My closest friends are similar to me though. We have compatible personalities based on our zodiac sign.

[gabi25]

Do you really believe in zodiac signs?

[mvpverona]

Sometimes yes

[gabi25]

Well that's good but you can't just judge someone on the basis of their zodiac sing girl. I'm tauras you're cancer. That doesn't matter in real world

[Asker]

@gabi25 - how u goin crush her dreams like that 😂

[gabi25]

@Sonorous gotta do what i gotta do😂😂

[SirLancelot123]

I am an intellectual friendly humanitarian and female devotee, to the extent that l learned to serve women when introduced to the BDSM community in Newcastle. I love the intellectual conversations (I have a health professional background), and find men stupid one-tracked imbeciles, so my 'inquisition' is what attracts you gorgeous females to the opposite gender? Is it just the need for sexual aversive, or do you dream of finding your 'white knight'... From Steve, a lover of equality and faithful lover of strong and feminist females.

[ChiTown33]

Yes i've always been inquisitive, especially when it comes to the human condition. People are far from logical. And it's in my nature to try to make order out of things.
But i never want to overstep my bounds so i usually have about a dozen questions i'm curious about but don't ask because i don't want to come off as prying.

[Eagle_93]

Yes, I am a very inquisitive/curious person.

I feel like a lot of people lose their curiosity for life after they complete school.

I don't always hang out with like-minded people.

[Phoenix98]

I like to think so since I am always asking questions and looking into things, reading up on stuff, etc.

[gabi25]

definitely i am an inquisitive person i love observing new things and meeting new people, learning new things and all. I hang out with all kinds of people but on top that all i am the kind of guy everyone wanna hangout with

[Mezius]

Im a very inquisitive person, but the people I generally spend time with only share a few interests. I find it difficult to find friends since I don't really have much in common with most people.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Based on my name lol, I would say yes.. I usually just keep to myself when I have the option.

[ecfresh]

Yes and yes. Conversations rock

[jamesgoldman]

To an extent and definitely

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Yes and yes