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Do You Think Being Charismatic Is Something People Are Born With Or Can It Be Learned? (Page 3)
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We are all pretty much blank slates at birth. We learn how to respond to the world, and it is pretty much a hit or miss process. Those apparently born charismatic just learned it early.
As an aside, those who assert charisma requires good looks should examine pictures of Adolf Hitler, Benito Mussolini, Mao Zedong, Stalin, ...
If you have half a brain you can learn it if yur ass don't have any
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I think it's something you either have it you don't... So disagree here
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It’s more natural than something that can be learned in my opinion
I think so as well
What about the actors of the world plenty of them around
That would be called more fake charm tho which can be more easily detected
No lol
Nearly everyone is acting like someone they are not
That's still acting... And some just act like themselves and people are just drawn to them
Is that what you think yeah 80% of men are acting to have sex, they get good unless your male you wouldn't notice lol
You can't tell your being stupid everyone even you acts untill you know someone well enough you int good at reading I see lol
I'm not only good at reading, I'm good at comprehending. Anyone can try to learn something, but some just have the natural ability... Anyone can learn sports but not all are a natural athlete. Anyone can sing or learn to play an instrument not all have the natural talent... And if you think, I don't know a lot of men fake charm just to get sex, well... Why the hell you think I don't date...
And no, I'm real from the start. I don't pretend to be something I'm not.
Some people are naturals but like most things it can absolutely be learned.
it is definitely not a case of "I wasn't born with it, I'm screwed..."
I think that both can be true. A lot of people are just born with it, but you can also learn it. You just have to figure out what could make you charming and play with that until you find the right way to be charming in your own way.
I feel everyone of us is born with this, ever seen a babe flirt with you? I feel its a behavior that is encouraged or pushed down by or peers and parents growing up.
It can be learned , first thing is need to be confident , and to be confident make sure there is no mistake on what you say , and to avoid mistake learn about everything you are dealing with
Look i guess charismatic like a comedian like a leadership all of this in my opinion people was born have it in gain but for example part of charismatic is the beauty so nowadays anyone can looks beautiful by sergon by make up by anything
I believe charisma can be learned in the anything can be learned. It must be practiced: what's charming today perhaps wasn't charming 20 years ago nor will it be charming in another 20 years. By that reasoning I believe charisma is a learned trait.
I think it can be. You just have to watch someone that is or learn from someone that does it a lot. But I think you have to learn it both by head knowledge and by doing it without even thinking about it and both can be learned
it bothers me a lot when people call it a skillset or learnable skill, its a long difficult story to explain.
I think it's more something your born with you either have it or you don't. People can try to fake it, but that's more"fake charm" and eventually people will see that... Charisma can't be faked and won't disappear like fake charm will
its more because of me speaking of my resentment how men always have to take the lead
? What does that have to do with Charismatic people 🤔
because guys need charisma in order to attract women
No that's not true. Just need to be themselves their real selves and not fake something just to attract someone.. Cuz that won't last long term...
and nobody gives a fuck about a womans confidence, thats not how men are attracted to women
I beg to differ: I care a lot about a woman’s confidence. Sure, a woman’s physical beauty gets my attention but it’s her confidence in herself & what she has to offer—which I consider to be the definition of “sexiness”—that really attracts me to her.
ANON, Well maybe that's your problem... Women are more than just available p*ssy...
And they care about a man's real character, not fake charm just to get them in bed.
@Gagname I agree 💯
i was speaking of my life-long hatred and resentment how guys, men, have to make the first move and ask the woman out first
Maybe women would more, but with the fucked up views, the bashing, the bias, the mgtow, why would they 🤔🤔 and men say that... But then in reality, they have to be the one calling all the shots, so kinda damned if you do, damned if you don't
You can’t learn to be funny. Either you’re funny or not. Practice can’t get you into comedy
It can be either. I think it is like perfect pitch. While it can be learned if you are young enough, some people have it naturally.
I think it's learned but it's learned at an early age. By the time you start attending school you either have charisma or you don't.
A mix of both. Everyone is born with more potential in certain fields than others, but you can learn anything even with little potential.
Hopefully it can be learned. I believe it can, at least partly.
It's both, but even those who are naturally inclined towards it have to learn the skills.
That can go both ways either you're born with it or you can learn to be charismatic
I feel either you are born with it or you learn how to get it. It refers to most everything in life. Must remember some never do