When should I ask why I wasn't invited? (Page 2)

Question

So my roommate and his cousin are throwing their "biggest bannger of the summer" tomorrow and my roommate didn't even invite me. We were talking about what we've got going on this weekend and he mentioned that last night and was telling me about one person that's supposed to maybe be there, then this morning I heard about another person I kinda know. I'm sure his excuse for not inviting me is going to be that he knows I'm not a fan of that type of environment. Being that we're roommates and I'm supposedly his bestfriend and he knows I don't have friends around / have trouble socializing I'd hope he'd at least think about inviting me. So whatever his reasoning is I'd really like to hear it. Not sure if I should ask him before it happens, or after it has happened when I ask how it went?

Anonymous · Answer

From my experience all I can say is you never ask why you were not invited, if they forgot to then they will tell you and say sorry, if they don't that means they didn't want to. For good or bad reason whatever.. they didn't want to.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Well, they are missing out! Their food is gonna SUCK! 🤷

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Maybe he just assumed that you know you are invited.

Iron_Man · Answer

Because you’re introverted

Shihab91 · Answer

I don't ask i don't care.

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