No. You know why? Because if a girl sees you're making a real effort to improve yourself, she's going to want you regardless of your looks-
... no really, it's true.
Take it from someone that used to be overweight and is now in shape. I've been attracted to, and dated guys that were overweight. I know some people on here will disagree with me, but there are still people out there that value personality just as much, if not more, than looks.
My point is, if you see a girl you're attracted to, yeah, talk to her. Let her know that yes, you're working to actively improve yourself- heck, even ask her would she like to workout with you (if she's a gymrat like myself, I bet she will say yes). You'll have a partner to keep you accountable and motivate you to keep going. Plus once you get in shape, think about it- you'll know she likes you for you, not not just your "fit" appearance.
You don't want a girl that is only dating you because you look good. Because guess what- if you gain the weight back, or something happens to where you're unable to stay in shape, that same superficial woman will leave you.
You should not be worry to lose weight so you can get a girlfriend. You don't want to have a girlfriend that thinks you're fat and make you feel worthless about yourself. You should focus more on your self-worth, happiness, and over all health. I think its attractive when a guy takes care of himself physically and mentally. One of my ex's did not took care of himself and it reflected on me too. I gained 10 pounds while I was with him and was not happy with him. After the breakup I went back to eating healthy and working out again to get the old happy me back again.
No, life’s short. Working on yourself is such a turn on so that alone should be enough if she’s the right one. I like to see a man improving before my eyes, I can support him and all that. It’s a lot better than being the absolute best version of himself before we started dating. It’s like he’s blossoming right in front of me lol it’s hard to explain but yeah don’t wait.
I don’t think a guy should wait. Girls are different some are into the physical appearance and are picky. Some, aren’t. Just be yourself, you’ll know when a girl likes you and when a girl doesn’t. My advice to you is, Continue working on yourself and bettering yourself not just physically, but mentally as well. The dating scene nowadays is a pain in the ass. Guys and girls have a lot of options these days like dating apps. So don’t get your hopes up with the 1st girl who finds you intriguing. Make sure she’s honest, genuine and isn’t toying with your feelings, Because if she is, that type of shit can mess with your head and it’ll result in heartbreak. Don’t pursuit love or chase it. Allow it to come to you on its own good timing. I hope the best to you and good luck! Hope this help! You’re not really missing out on anything good, everyone is whack and forgotten about morals and other peoples feelings. Dating isn’t the same as before, there are new rules new cruel people.
No, girls (the right ones) are more willing to see past appearances. Focus on taking care of your mind in addition to your body health. Being a kind and respectful person is more of an attractor than a nice body to me
You should continue approaching girls because not everyone is superficial. I saw fit girls dating chubby guys too. Not all women value appearance. My ex got chubbier when we were in a relationship. I still didn't lose any kind of attraction towards him. After all, it is life. We can't stay same always. By the way, you're still doing a great job working on your self.
Being fat has nothing to do with being approachable its all about your personality. I dated a guy who was 300 lbs at one point the guy was fun and funny. I didn't care he was big. I knew him when he was smaller too.
No. Personally speaking your weight has nothing to do with your character, how you'll treat her or what you can offer. Only a superficial female will care and is that the type you really want or think you deserve?
Definitely do not wait! If a girl only likes you when you’ve lost weight she definitely doesn’t like you for the right reasons. If she likes you it should be exactly the way you are, regardless of your weight
No they should talk to to girls regardless if they are looking. You wouldn't want someone who only likes you for your body.
Not precisely, some girls are into dad bods and some fall hard for a guy with a charming personality.
It’s your decision if you want to lose weight go for it and if you don’t that’s fine too. Me personally I prefer guys who have an athletic or slim build. But everyone has a preference and likes different things.
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