If you could change anything about yourself what would it be?

[DonkeyDan]

Everyone has something even just minor that they don't like about themselves.
It could be anything from your weight to something about your face. Maybe its something about your personality.
So for me it was that extra half a stone I could never drop. I'm a well built guy 6'1" and very broad shoulders and quite muscular, was always into weight training when I was younger and continued with fitness. But I could never achieve my target weight. It's just trivial and it doesn't bother me anymore but it used to.

[MCheetah]

My height and physical appearance, obviously. Me being the garbage, shit-tier height I am is literally the thing I DESPISE the most about myself, among the endless flaws. I don't like being a fucking short-shit, and no, I DON'T CARE if some other guys out there are shorter. I'm still a little fucking manlet of a dude. Still down here in the women's category of size. I fucking hate being in the women's section of human beings, especially when plenty of women are even my height or taller than I am. And most tall women don't want anything to do with little flea guys.

I talked to @JosyJosy about it and she said her six foot tall friend wouldn't have a problem with someone my height. There's another female GAGer, @Suburbugirl who said she married a small man. But those women are the exception; most women don't want males the same size or smaller than women.) I would feel so complete as a guy if I was actually fully grown and not the size of a fucking Dutch teenage girl. I would even be married by now. But because I don't want to have to plead and beg for some 4'11"/150 cm girl to be with me despite being flawed and broken, and the size of a woman, despite not being one, it means I will likely end up alone. That, or maybe find one of those rare women who are into feminine-sized men under six feet tall.

I mean, I know technically, most men in the world are small and dainty like I am. But it still doesn't make it right because scientifically, all grown men are *supposed* to be 184 cm, or nearly 6'1" tall. Talking to that one GAGer I mentioned though, at least there's a small glimmer of hope that a girl might be willing to except an ungrown manlet like myself, so close to passing the six foot minimum, but still failing and still in the Girl Zone of humanity. But I'll still always hate being a short-shit little runt. I was supposed to be a T-Rex, not a mouse. That's hard to move past in life. Or what's left of it.

[MCheetah]

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@Subarugirl

[DonkeyDan]

It's clearly a very big bone of contention for you and that makes me wonder if it breaks out into your personality. Do you have the classic short guy syndrome, as in you show that you are angry about your height and adapt your behaviour because of it? I'm not looking to wind you up or cause offense at all. It's just that I used to work in an office and there were 2 shorter guys that worked there too. One had short guy syndrome and never got any dates, yet the other guy didn't have an issue about his height and was very outgoing, and was pretty successful with the ladies. I could see that this affected the first guy as well, and he hated the second guy for it, which actually seemed to make it worse for him. It was almost as if the first guy exuded this angry short guy energy and attitude and I think that turned the women off of him.

[Pj1981]

I think I would start with the hair on my body from head to toe. Less body hair and more hair on top without the gray. With that done if I could change something else it would be more muscle tone all over but especially upper arms and stomach. When that's done if I still have my change power I'm going to add just a little to the size of my penis. It's OK but it could gain an inch in length and circumference. If I can change health issues as well I have a huge freaking list to work on but physically ill stop there.

[CuriousLady42]

I'd definitely get rid of the acne scars on my upper back. Used to have a terrible problem with acne a few years ago and I have a ton of small scars left on my back. I've had people tell me that it looks like someone puts out cigarettes on my back which made them really worried for my safety... Plus it's not really a pretty thing and they are so bad that I'll probably have them for the rest of my life

[DonkeyDan]

Have you ever looked into having them taken care of?

[CuriousLady42]

Yeah but everything I've tried so far didn't work. And I'm not sure if I wanna try anything extreme like laser or some stronger chemicals. I tried a lot of skincare stuff that claims to help with the scars but none of it has worked so far

[loves2learn]

I lost a bunch of weight a couple years ago and I gained some back. Wish that didn’t happen. 😬
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I would also be more assertive, stand up for myself more and be better about putting myself first sometimes.

[DonkeyDan]

It's hard to be assertive sometimes, it is something I struggle with too at times.

[loves2learn]

Very hard. But I have learned I have to stand up sometimes even when I want to run.

[loves2learn]

Thank you for the mho! :)

[Cherry234]

I'm not sure if this is considered a personality flaw but I would change my shyness. My aunt and her daughter think I'm too shy. I can speak to other people; it's just that I'm not outgoing. What I would change about my face is my acne issue. It may be genetic but I'm trying to take care of it now

[DonkeyDan]

I wouldn't call anything a personality flaw but if it is something you are not happy with then it's something you can work in if you want. You should never change just because others thing you should, the only person that needs to be completely happy with you is yourself.

[Cherry234]

thank you

[TexasRed95]

My mental health is in shambles. Abused for my entire childhood almost, never having anyone there for me, my mother so high she didn't know my name half the time. Physically I am fantastic but I am in constant fear when I try to socialize even though I want to.

[DonkeyDan]

Have you ever got some therapy for this?

[TexasRed95]

I don't have time or energy. I work 18 hours a day mounting the wheels and tires for Semis. As in the huge trucks that carry trailers.

[DonkeyDan]

You might want to make some time to get some help to deal with your problems and past. It's not something that will fix itself.

[Mollynotgemma]

The want to change myself… as everyone knows… changing yourself doesn’t make anything better. I just wish people could stop thinking change is needed…. It’s more a slight adjustment… don’t change…
What you want to change should be what you focus on making a change with!

[FinalFantasyBro]

To be really jacked with big pecs!

[DonkeyDan]

Hey, where did you get my pictures from? 🤣

[IAMNathanael]

I wish I were smarter. I need to earn some more college credits but I'm nervous, particularly about the math classes I'm going to have to take.

[DonkeyDan]

Do it as soon as you can the old you get the harder learning is.

[TheUniqueOne96]

The way I deal with things.

I've have a ton of problems with mental health and the way I hold onto things and let them bother me, is simply not good.

There's a ton of other issues too, this is the main one.

[TwistedSukuna]

As much as I'd like to say my stomach, it's 100% my anxiety.

[DonkeyDan]

Is it a particular anxiety or just general? I've have some anxiety issues in the past, still have them from time to time, but they are very specific for me.

[TwistedSukuna]

Tends to be social. Like whether it's trying to approach a girl I'm interested in or a teacher/supervisor calling on me, I just kinda freeze up.

[DonkeyDan]

I think it's more common in your age group these days, so much is expected of you in the modern world, things do get easier as you get old though.

[TwistedSukuna]

Yeah, a lot of my friends also have some form of anxiety so it definitely seems more common for us. I'm probably the worst out of our group though lol. Hopefully it gets better with time.

[DonkeyDan]

I know this sounds easy to say this but try not to focus on it, anxiety feeds on itself. Being anxious causes you to become more anxious, it's a vicious circle.

[Davidhk]

To get rid of my stress when working on projects that have a short deadlines.

[DonkeyDan]

Have you ever looked into meditation?

[Davidhk]

Yes, I tried, helps only with negative thoughts.

[DonkeyDan]

Well at least thats something I guess.

[Davidhk]

I think I need to put the of thr stress into a good adrenalin to get more focused.

[Davidhk]

My biggest hobby is wildlife photography, after I get back from the army, I always/sometimes go to shoot some birds outdoors, walking for a couple of hours.

I think hobbies are great for stress relief in general.

[DonkeyDan]

Yeah definitely outdoor hobbies and being in nature. I was pretty big into photography, but having done much over the last few years.

[DonkeyDan]

I see your profile pic, is that one of yours?

[Davidhk]

Yes, one of mine ofc 😝

[FlynnSchaffer]

I wanna change my hair color because i have orange hair i dont really like it but meh other people might

[DonkeyDan]

Yeah I had a phase like that, I'm blond, well used to be before loosing it lol. I went through a stage of dying mine but it's really hard to dye blond and orange hair so be careful if you think of trying it. I first did it when I was 14, it went badly wrong and I had to go to school for 3 weeks with "peach" coloured hair until it finally washed out 😭. I know some people with your hair colour can get a really hard time about it, but personally I really like it.

[Hmmmsomething]

I would remove the ability to be mad at people who I feel have an illogical or stupid view. Because a lot of things YouTubers say piss me off lately. I feel everyone's retardrd except from me

[DonkeyDan]

I'm with you on that. I'm not a hater but I don't suffer fools gladly.

[Hmmmsomething]

Yes. Especially people like that vegan teacher with their extremist views really winds me up lol

[River1234]

I am really clumsy and reckless ,
because of that i need to always watch my actions, i wish i can change that about me.

[Charliefretz329]

I wish I had a toggle switch for my sex drive. That or a detachable penis... 🙄

[humanearth]

Maybe have some big hairy tits

[DonkeyDan]

A pie a day should sort that out in no time 😂

[humanearth]

Oh I would be so sick of pies

[DonkeyDan]

But you'd have lovely big hairy tits 😂😂

[humanearth]

This no I dont want

[DonkeyDan]

🤣🤣🤣

[humanearth]

But this would be funny as hell, plus I like tits
So why not have my own (Dam its hard to find tits on a man pictures)

[DonkeyDan]

Oh man they are some real man titties

[JosyJosy]

To be stronger that's all

[Avcfhcic]

I think your boyfriend thinks you're strong enough 😏

[DonkeyDan]

What is it for you about being stronger, is it so you can defend yourself better or just to do it for you?

[JosyJosy]

just for me, it's a nice feeling when you realize you've become stronger than last time. More explosiveness, more endurance, more flexible etc.

[Avcfhcic]

More smother lol

[JosyJosy]

@Avcfhcic ;) that too

[DonkeyDan]

Sounds like a good enough reason as any.

[JosyJosy]

A friend of mine has me wondering what it'd be like. Imagine a hand stand, but with the whole body leaning back parallel to the floor. She can do that no problem. I just admire that level of discipline and control they have over their body like that

[DonkeyDan]

That's quite a challenge, I'd like to be able to do that.

[JosyJosy]

Right? :)

[Rangers]

Go back down to 185 and muscular again

[DonkeyDan]

Is that something you're working towards now or need to start on?

[Rangers]

I'm trying to get there, but my body is extremely stubborn

[DonkeyDan]

Haha, you think it's hard now, wait till you get to my age 🤣🤣

[rjroy3]

Cut the last 5 lbs faster.

[the_kisses_of_sun]

I don't know where to begin.

[DonkeyDan]

Ah, you're only 26 surly it can't be that bad?

[the_kisses_of_sun]

I have a lot to fix.

[Jack_osal]

I wish I could get rid of my sexual urges.

[DonkeyDan]

At your age it's completely normal, as you get older they will be less of a problem.

[Relux47]

A lot of things so I don’t know where to start

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Maybe be 2 inches taller to 6 feet.

[jimmy2]

Age.

[DonkeyDan]

Oh yeah if we could only turn back the clock. What age would you go back to?

[jimmy2]

40. I giess

[karaspara]

My Temper

[misterCage4]

My procrastination

[Anonymous]

Jealousy

[Fuentes]

Nothing

[Anonymous]

Nothing