Man that’s deep I’m sorry to hear you’ve been through so much.
the only comparable thing I can think of for myself is there was a woman I used to work with who bullied other colleagues until they would quit. The manager did nothing to solve it, and eventually the bully woman died suddenly - she was about 68. I wasn’t glad she was dead but I was definitely glad I didn’t have to interact with her anymore. At first I felt guilty for not feeling sad, but me and some other people she had treated badly met up and talked about everything horrible she had done over the years kinda like a informal group therapy session and it actually really helped me to come to terms with it,, and I didn’t feel guilty for not caring anymore
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Your history is sad and you have my sympathy. To answer your question, from my point of view the death of someone who has wronged me without reconciliation is a source of pain and remorse. The pain gets worse, not better and it blackened with remorse.
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No but I can say I didn't cry about their early passing.
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