Nice people finish. Nice people get the girl as a wife. Nice people have longer relationships. Nice people get girls that don't want to leave them. Not nice people flit from relationship to relationship without the ability to settle down and have a meaningful connection.
Can't say I agree with that statement. Being nice is a choice not a handicap. Nice people are often seen as people who can be pushed around and manipulated. Nice kids need to learn not to let themselves be taken advantage of. I've always been labeled as a nice guy. But I have no issues standing my ground if needed. And I never finish last.
There's an equilibrium between bad and good types. Too many of the latter, and it becomes too rewarding to cheat. Too many of the former, and everyone struggles to get by.
Better to marry later in life then to fail at it upfront. Better to only have one good marriage then 3 failed miserable divorces. Better to have 1 or 2 functional children or none at all over mentally damaged ones that get into bad situations as a result of your screw ups. Do it right or not all all.
Genuinely nice people, no. Pushovers with no backbones, who kindly think of themselves as "nice" people, serving only their self delusion in pleasing others to win acceptance, yes.
I think it's more perception words like "nice" are subjective. What you're really saying is why do people I consider evil constantly get ahead? What you should probably be doing is learning more about what actions people had to take to appear to get ahead.
Everyone should start out life positively and find out for themselves about other people. Being successful does not equate to being content or happy so I don't think about bad people unless they do something that bothers me.
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I think you ought to teach them to be street smart too.. There should be a balance. Too much either way is no good.
Oh for sure
It seem like that sometimes, but I still believe in being kind to people, even it puts me at a disadvantage.
That's good.
Nice people finish. Nice people get the girl as a wife. Nice people have longer relationships. Nice people get girls that don't want to leave them. Not nice people flit from relationship to relationship without the ability to settle down and have a meaningful connection.
Accurate.
Not true because we manifest energy. That negative energy will be reciprocated just being you don't see it doesn't mean it does not happen.
You make a good point
Can't say I agree with that statement. Being nice is a choice not a handicap. Nice people are often seen as people who can be pushed around and manipulated. Nice kids need to learn not to let themselves be taken advantage of. I've always been labeled as a nice guy. But I have no issues standing my ground if needed. And I never finish last.
I sometimes think so. I shared my knowledge with someone to make an interview more level and they gave it to her
Oh wow. Sorry to hear that
Yes , because they're too focused on being nice, not rocking the boat. Plus nice isn't a personality traits. Anyone could be nice
Anyone can pretend to be nice.
Exactly
There's an equilibrium between bad and good types. Too many of the latter, and it becomes too rewarding to cheat. Too many of the former, and everyone struggles to get by.
Better to marry later in life then to fail at it upfront. Better to only have one good marriage then 3 failed miserable divorces. Better to have 1 or 2 functional children or none at all over mentally damaged ones that get into bad situations as a result of your screw ups. Do it right or not all all.
Kindness is certainly an overrated virtue.
Hard work, discipline, and assertiveness are much better.
Genuinely nice people, no. Pushovers with no backbones, who kindly think of themselves as "nice" people, serving only their self delusion in pleasing others to win acceptance, yes.
Yes, nice people do finish last. It's important to get your partner off first.
Lmaoooo
I have seen many nasty or bad people fail or get caught doing what they shouldn't be.
Yeah I haven't lol
Unpopular opinion: No
People who are driven and take risks succeed in life , wheather they are good or bad.
I don't disagree with this. But it's not always the case
Agreed.
Being an asshole only gets a person ahead in life because they rely on nice people.
The mistake is when a nice person thinks it's bad to ask for help.
Yeah, they get walked over and to quote Nancy Sinatra
'these boots are made for walkin and that's what they will do, onea these days these boots are gonna walk all over you'
I think it's more perception words like "nice" are subjective. What you're really saying is why do people I consider evil constantly get ahead? What you should probably be doing is learning more about what actions people had to take to appear to get ahead.
Quite often, yes. But nice people need to know when they are being used for their kindness.
For sure.
Everyone should start out life positively and find out for themselves about other people. Being successful does not equate to being content or happy so I don't think about bad people unless they do something that bothers me.
Bieng nice often coincides with bieng weak. It's weakness that gets people into bad situations.
This is true.