Do you think overgeneralization of the genders is unfair?

[Anonymous]

Just like not men are players, rapists nor child molesters, isn't it unfair if some guy rapidly assumes I want a family to screw him over and take his money; that's I'm an evil witch hungry for money and power.

Whatever changes happened, I'm still innocent in all this. Imagine, if I were spreading my hatred towards other women, telling them to stay single for life because they will rape you or leave you for a younger woman, that they are monsters. Those INCELS are doing the same thing, spreading hatred towards other young men, putting all of us in one bag.

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**Just like not all men are players, rapists nor child molesters

[dovendyret]

I do try my best not to generalize anything - I sometimes fail but do my best.

I myself, I don't bother with getting offended by it or take it to heart. It isn't about me - it's not towards me. If the poor soul has had to many bad experiences with the opposite gender, if they're just venting - or if they're just outright shit people: I don't care and simply don't understand why others care as much as they do.

[Anonymous]

If you don't like being generalized as a woman, then stand up like an adult and say no to the feminists who are waging war against males. You women are getting a taste of your own medicine and you don't like the way it tastes.

There's no reason men and women can't get along and fight together on the same side to end sexism. But as long as feminism wages war on men, you're not going to get any support from us. Until then, go fuck yourselves.

[Opinion Owner]

And no, you as a woman are not innocent. Unless you are speaking our against today's feminist movement, you are complicit.

[Asker]

Things were ok when I graduated from HS in 2005. I didn't realize relations between the gender have gotten this bad. I've been single for a long time and wasn't involved in politics nor marches, none of it. I fell asleep for the longest and it's only been 3 years since learning new terms such as social justice warrior (SJW), red pill, blue pill, karen, etc. Basically I've been in hibernation stage and woke up nearly a decade later when I got back into the dating world just this Oct.

I've already posted elsewhere online (here and other forums) about my disagreements towards things both genders do to each other. I don't agree with someone wasting your time, whether it's a player that lies about wanting a family but strings her along or a girl that refuses to help out with the bills and expects everything to be given to her. I suppose laws can change but it's a process.

[Opinion Owner]

You wrote a lot of words there but nothing really addressing the core issue.

[Asker]

I don't know too much about political nor legal manners but I suppose there needs to be some modifications and here are some proposals I can think of:
- The one filing for divorce (man or woman) should only get compensated if it's proven they suffered from abuse or there was adultery... valid reasons. Otherwise get nothing.
- The joint custody process is made easier and more fathers (esp if they aren't abusive) can have access to their children
- If prove with enough evidence that a woman indeed is a gold digger, that married for money... jail time, a fine for emotional/psychological and publically exposed on all social medias
- If there is mutual abuse (they both hit each other), both of them face the same jail time. Same sentencing for crimes, regardless of the gender of the offender.
- Players stringing along women and lying about having kids (making her live together with him and make her believe he'll marry her one day) should be publically exposed on all social medias and fine too for emotional/psychological damage
- Paternity fraud... jail time and a fine for emotional/psychological damage

I suppose that would be fair.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree with most of that. But what do you think of feminism and the fact they are so toxic, divisive and anti-male today?

[Asker]

It had a purpose long time ago (just like other movements; Civil Rights, Gay rights, etc) but unfortunately there will always be radicals that overdo it. Anything done in extremes is going too far. I don't care about women's international day; only my mother made a big deal because we didn't celebrate it. It felt like a normal, busy Tuesday to me.

[Asker]

It was for having fair opportunities for an education, working, owning a house and voting. If that has already been accomplished, I fail to understand what those radicals are fighting for. There is nothing to fight for.

[Opinion Owner]

Agreed, but they are not just fighting, they are dividing the sexes and creating hostility and resentment between men and women. If I were a woman I would be fighting as hard as I could to shut down modern feminism. Yet I rarely see any woman who has the courage or honesty to actually stand up against these "women" who are speaking for them. In my opinion any woman who won't is a coward and complicit in what feminism is doing today.

[Cherry234]

Yes, absolutely. There are always going to be those people who demonize a whole gender just because they had one or a few bad experiences with people of that gender. And incels are annoying too. They get on my nerves.

[sirderpsalot123]

I agree