Do I tell my wife’s sister or just hold it back?

[thatguy6787]

So I’ve developed feelings for my wife’s sister, obviously I don’t want to ruin my relationship with my wife. But the sister in law tends to sleep over a lot. And we all usually have a great time as she’s really good company. Well should I tell the sister in law that she shouldn’t come over as much because I’m starting to develop feelings and a lot of sexual thoughts? Or should I just keep my mouth shut and try and hold back these feelings and thoughts? It’s so tough to hold all of it back.

[WhiteSteve]

That’s a big “DON’T DO IT” from me. What is the upside of telling her? There’s not really a scenario where that ends well for you. Do some push-ups, take a cold shower, hump a damn pillow, lmao, I don’t know what to do, but DO NOT express this out loud to her or anyone you know personally. Don’t feel too bad, it’s not outrageous to feel attraction to someone you spend a lot of time with or even just plain old physical attraction. The only thing that makes it “wrong” is who she is in relation to your marriage, but it’s not like you feel it willfully. Normal as hell just in a vacuum, but in actual reality you just gotta keep this one top secret.

[thatguy6787]

Yeah might be best to hold it back. I’ve just always been one to express my feelings and just feel like if I hold it back I’ll just keep having these thoughts and feelings. And that’s not fair to my wife either. You don’t think telling her I’m starting to develop feelings and telling her to kinda keep her distance from me so nothing comes from it is a good idea? I feel like she already knows and does certain things that would make me have these feelings. It’s just weird lol

[Anonymous]

Don't say anything, it will only complicate things more. It is normal for this type of attraction but by letting her know could actually have things spiral out of control. My wife's sister told me that she was starting to develop feelings for me, one night when just her and I were alone together, after getting stranded out of town after my car broke down. Long story. Anyway, I was also attracted to her, in just a innocent crush way but when she told me she had feelings for me, my crush turned into desire... Don't say anything! Nothing good will come from telling her.

[alytaylor]

For the love of god, if you don't want to lose them both, keep your mouth shut!!! Females stick together. If you make the mistake of opening your mouth, you'll have two of them pissed as hell AND a divorce to contend with.

[thatguy6787]

It’s just so hard to hold something like this back but I get what you are saying.

[alytaylor]

For sure! Unless you find yourself physically incapable of holding back to the point where it could be potentially dangerous to the wife's sister, don't say anything.

[Andres77]

You'd better grow the hell up.
Love your wife.
Stop thinking about her sister.
Just get over it.
Think it through.
You'll lose your wife and have no chance with the sister anyway.
If you're so easily tempted then don't even have kids because you're going to fuck up in a big way.

[megabamse]

Sometimes in life too meet atractiv people, and interesting people like that while you dating someone. The trick is to think about what you will lose if you try anything. Is it worth it? Now if you try this you will lose your wife and the relationship you have there, the whole history between you two will be for nothing. And she will hate you for it. But you might also create hate between two sisters. So you will potentially destroy several life's in one sweap.

[DarkWinterNights]

You better find a way to not be attracted to her or you will lose everything. Maybe you should try spicing things up with your wife. If you have a healthy relationship you shouldn’t be getting a wandering eye.

[Anonymous]

Kinda depends how lucky you are feeling i guess?

Which guy is the fickle hand of fate going to decide that you are?

The one in a million who gets to fuck his wife and her sister too with absolutely no consequences or the other 99.9% who destroy the lives of all involved?

[OddBeMe]

1) is it real feelings, or just infatuation?
2) has anything happened with the sister?
3) does the sister have any feelings for you? Because you would prob wind up with no one.

Therapists would say the source of these “feelings” is your relationship with your wife. And you’re just living vicariously in daydreams with the sister.

[jshm2]

Probably testng you, kiddo.

This sort of shit is usually design.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Keep your mouth shut and quit looking at your sister in law in such a way.

[Guido]

I once told my wife I thought her sister was hot and I was up for a threesome with both if them. She considered it but it never happened.

[noohair]

29 and you are thinking like a boy?

[thatguy6787]

67 and you know how to use a computer?

[exitseven]

I would see if they would like a three way.,

[In_Trance]

Ask your wife; she'll tell you what to do