If you’ve ever question, if you’re doing the right things in life, then you’re in the same boat that I am.
This natural progression of life that were supposed to do things a certain way, who says
then people come back around and say it’s your choice
Your choices are up to you, but every choice you make will have consequences, and history and experience tells us that certain choices usually have good outcomes, and others usually have bad, even deadly outcomes. Not everything is that critical, but many things are, which is why they have become norms.
Many of these things are tied to biology or physics or financial realities, and in most cases, choosing to go against those norms is going to have very bad outcomes. It's still your choice, but don't assume that you'll escape the consequences.
If it was easy, we'd all be billionaires doing whatever we wanted with no consequences, but that's not how the world works. It's easy to run up a credit card, and usually difficult and painful to pay it off. It's easy to choose a college major that's easy and fun, but it's very difficult to make that degree pay for itself on the job market. It's very easy to drive your car 120 MPH on the freeway, but not so fun if you go to jail, or crash and give yourself a severe injury.
As I said, some rules you can bend, or even ignore, and the consequences are minor, while others are far more serious. Part of becoming an adult is accepting those truths and making smart decisions - and educating yourself so that you know when you CAN bend or break a rule and what the consequences are likely to be, so that you can decide if the potential negatives are worth it to you.
That's not always a fun or comfortable process, but it's a vital skill if you hope to navigate your life successfully.
Culture and tradition and social norms, as well as experience with what works and what does not.
a long time ago some people with a bit of power said we had to do things this way, and seeing as most people are like sheep and folow them, as for me I will stick to rules mostly for safety reasons, and not to upset or make a nusence of myself, but no one is going to tell me with whom I can have sex with for example, only my husband,
I have no idea, but along the same lines as your post..."No" is a compete sentence in my opinion.
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Gravity
The Coulomb Force (that governs electromagnetism)
The Weak Interaction Force
The Strong Nuclear Force
Dark Energy
u mostly, ourselves and our choices... we just do not realize it right away
Screw people man. You have to do what's best for you and put yourself first always.
No one is going to help you anyways nor put a hot plate on the table for you.
Society. I fought this most of my life now over 40 a really don't care much about society's judgements anymore. You have to be your true authentic self if you want to live your best life.
Three guys living in Brooklyn that are in charge of everything apparently.
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