I don't get it. I am not ugly (wasn''t), nor am I mean (wasn't either),?

[Anonymous]

So why can't I get the guy I wanted? ! He went up and married and had a child with someone else. Why can't I get the things I truly want in this life? ! ! =( Sorry it's just my birthday (and I just turn the big 3 . 9. ...) so many things in this life is so hard to get!

Even a job is hard to get and keep!

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1 y

I'm seriuos people. I HATE seeing their facebook profile. It's my birthday today. and he liked it. That didn't help. I don't want to see him or even be reminded of him. He didn't need to wish me happy birthday. He's not HELPING me and my life.

[Finchie40]

Same reason most people can’t get what they want , it’s a tough pill to swallow when we really
Like someone and they don’t like us back the same , Best thing for you to do is take yourself off of Facebook , and try not to spend to much time on Social media , Social media will easily fuck your head up because you tend to start comparing your life or wish you were in someone else’s shoes making you feel like grass is greener on the other side , when really most of it , is a bunch of bullshit , When you learn to value yourself as a person and be who you truly are, and focus on the ones that are already part of your life , that’s when positive energy starts to surround you , and that’s when people start to notice you , When you start to not give a fuck about useless things that isn’t really important to you , and not really an important part of your life , you will learn to be content and grateful for what you have in front of you , stop comparing yourself to others and be grateful for the people that do accept you for who you are , and not this fake fantasy world you are putting yourself in , you will never be happy with yourself , if your main focus is comparing your life to others , I know it sucks not getting someone you really like and you wish that person will see you and notice you cuz they take your breathe away and you wish they will be your everything but the truth of the matter is that person probably doesn’t have that much in common with you and does nt see you that way , that’s why they choose someone else , you don’t want to be. In a relationship with someone based off your imagination of them , you want to be with someone that shares a lot of the same qualities and interests as you do , someone that has a lot in common with you , I see so many beautiful girls that In my mind I think damn she is beautiful , How nice it would be if she came into my arms , To find out , her and I really have nothing in common , she either thinks her shit don’t stink or she is selfish , or she is just a whore that has no moral values , or I am just not her type and I I don’t fit her preferences on what she is looking for. So I don’t care how hot she looks on the outside , her heart on the inside is what really matters. Someone that has great chemistry and connection with you. Sadly finding that person that looks at you the same way you look at them is hard to come by, because everyone thinks differently and everyone has their own preferences on what they are attracted to , Why it’s hard to find true love , especially these days , I feel social media played a big part on how people look at each other and it’s sad because most people are in a fantasy world instead of living in reality.

[Finchie40]

Thank you for MHO

[strlb]

Don't fret, he wasn't worth your time and effort anyway. Keep your head up, things will get better with someone that truly cares and loves you. Stay of social media posts FB and IG, those are a false sense of reality. Best of luck! DM always open.

[Ben487]

Well, look at the woman he picked. What does she bring to the table that you don't? It could be anything.

It could be that you set your standards too high or it could be that you aren't going to the right places to secure the man you want, or it could be something else that's bringing you down... ie kids, age, income, attitude, attractiveness, etc etc...

High class dudes have a lot of women hitting them up all the time.

[Asker]

Thanks. I don't have any "baggage" in terms of children. He picked someone that looked "similar" to me. ... I mean, we are both light skinned Asian from the Philippines but the difference is I grew up in America, and she's light skinned Asian from the province! Ah well, it's okay. Can't control others hehe, and yeah, thank goodness I'm not too sad about it anymore, and found someone else that MAY be a good prospect!

[Asker]

Oh and that lady already had two kids before him so he basically got with someone WITH baggage lol.

[jennifer_bloom]

I’m not buying you shoes so why do you care how much I earn, are you thinking of asking me for free dumplings?

[alexking2]

Wait, what?

[Monalisa77]

No hope for me Then🤣

[Monalisa77]

Block him?