Does the "Manosphere" irritate you?

[MaybeTony]

Initially, I thought it caught my attention because it's a pretty rare circumstance in which society discusses men's issues. Having said that, through time, it seemed like a sphere in which to partake in a victimhood club. For example, a popular mantra is that women are all gold diggers. Well, women are taking a big risk when they decide to settle down with you, so they ought to be picky. There's also a high correlation between wealth and competence. Women of course want a competent man. I've been really trying to get this manoshpere shit off my feed lol

[mandyfire98]

There's nothing wrong with focusing on men's issues and problems but the main problem wirh all of the manosphere and redpill stuff is it just became overall a club for men to completely hate women and generalize everything about women. It really did become one big "women bad" club. That's all that it is now is just talking shit about all women. It's all negativity.

[MaybeTony]

But women are bad...

[mandyfire98]

All women are? 🧐

[SolitarySolace]

When did it become wrong for men to be victims while women can and expect to be victims? That's another aspect that created the whole manosphere thing. A place where men can discuss their issues without criticism from both men and women. While women can discuss their issues openly. So to answer your question, no, the Manosphere does not irritate me. What irritates me is all of the hate directed at men just because men have issues that they want to have dealt with that they can't deal with themselves.

[normalice]

Yeah, a victimhood club is a good way to describe it. I've been advocating for this site to create a manosphere Topic for a while so we can move all of those questions there - allowing anyone who isn't interested to ignore it. But that is usually met with stiff resistance from manosphere occupants as the whole point of their "questions" isn't because they want an answer but because they want access to eyeballs to push their premise of grievance in front of.

[msmissydc]

I mostly agree with you. Most parts is a victimhood club that also often spread hate against women. That being said they have real issues but their circle seem like the furthest point where help can come from. In my opinion some problems are real butmthex look at the wrong people for help and especially the wrong people to help them.

[Anonymous]

It irritates me because they rarely speak on men's issues. Real issues like boys falling behind in school because the education system is catered to girls, the biases against fathers in court etc etc. The focus is on bashing women and complaining about things they could easily fix if they worked on themselves.

[MaybeTony]

I agree 100

[Anonymous]

Look at all the typical leftist feminist responses. They're just upset men are finally having a voice. Women have been bitching about men forever. Finally men can call out repugnant female behavior.

[MaybeTony]

I think you're caught in a bit of a cycle bro. This mindset acts like a trap, turning into a self-fulfilling prophecy because of confirmation bias. Essentially, you start to look for information that backs up what you already believe, dismissing anything that contradicts it. Questioning opposing evidence through such a lens isn't logical. It's not accurate to blame an entire gender for these issues. I do acknowledge that there are aspects of Western culture that are deteriorating. However, it's also true that personal success can lead to meeting higher-quality women, reducing the chances of encountering those negative examples you see online in your own life.

[SolitarySolace]

Why would a man want to become successful and find a woman who just want his money and resources? She'll recieve all of that in a divorce.

[SolitarySolace]

If a man wants to become successful, don't do it because you want a woman do it for yourself. Sure they'll be more interested. Reject them or you'll just end up inadvertently handing all of that success over to her when she never worked for it

[MaybeTony]

@SolitarySolace Men are better equipped to make more money and provide. It's our role. Women are better nurturers and keepers of the homes. There are varying roles in parenting as well. It's a trade-off of yin and yang. When combined, it's a beautiful man. Why are you offended by your masculine role in society? I love providing for my family

[MaybeTony]

@SolitarySolace Also, what kind of woman do you think you're going to attract with that mindset. "I don't want to provide for your gold-digging ass." Well, you're going to attract the exact opposite of what you want. I'll bet you anything that you want a submissive woman who cooks and cleans and assists you in your mission in life. A woman like this wants a traditional man. You'll end up attracting masculine feminists with this mindset.

[Opinion Owner]

Men are realizing that many women are simply bad and that they're past behavior does matter. Women that had friends with benefits situationships and ONS, unfaithful cheaters and women that sext or have done onlyfans/Snapchat or hookup apps like Tinder are all unacceptable as a relationship material woman.

[MaybeTony]

Why assign those women value? Avoid them. By neglecting your masculine role, traditional good feminine women won't even look your way. My wife isn't like that. My sister is a traditional Christian woman who has no shame in saying she lives to serve her husband and his needs. You can say it's luck, or just trust me with what I'm saying. Saying women are like this is illogical.

[MaybeTony]

Saying *all* women are like this is illogical

[SolitarySolace]

If a masculine role is society is catering to a bitch I'd rather not take up that fucked up role.

Well I'm not seeking women. I'm asexual and aromantic and am happy being single as opposed to in a relationshit. So if that's what I attract they're just gonna be rejected. I'll reject submissive family oriented women all the same. They're all the same to me. I have no mission in life except fend for myself. I don't need a woman for that. @MaybeTony

[DryGermanGuy]

I ignore it, like I ignore all silly forms of extremism. Fighting political extremism is more important for my time.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I have seen videos and short clips of the manosphere on YouTube and Tiktok and they show a credible reason why women don't desire them.

Those men are repugnant and stupid.

[Akam93]

I've neve heard of that word. Lol

[MaybeTony]

It's like Andrew Tate and his brother (I call them the tater tots) talking about what it means to be a man lol. There are so many influencers on this sphere right now.