Isn't it crazy how people have different versions of us in their head?

[CoolCatMar1]

[jennifer_bloom]

A lot of guys judge girls by their visual behaviour and not just their natural and personal qualities. I’ve had guys kick me out of their social circle over minor etiquette issues like poor hand eye coordination while eating dinner, or not showing enough accommodating behaviours at lunch, like fixating too much on the food and not the dialogue by not having enough frequent and high priority eye contact and body language that demonstrates attention and care etc…

[Siri137]

God yes. I'm often really surprised at some of the things people say about me, even those who apparently know me well (or at least should know me, like my sister and brothers). And I'm left wondering, "Where on earth did they get that idea about me?"

[Siri137]

Thanks for the MHO! :*

[Sevenpointfive]

i only have one version of you in my bead.

*bed

*i meant giving me head

*i meant giving me head on my bed

*i'm quitting this question

*i hope you got the joke

[CoolCatMar1]

🥹🤣🤣

[Drew-1990]

Well it makes sense I don't know you so I have to picture you somehow and others will do the same and they will have a different picture than me.

[CoolCatMar1]

Yeah this is exactly what i mean

[Drew-1990]

Yea it's a little crazy but not weird everyone thinks differently because we all have different thought processes and different experiences that effect that.

[Flatmanlewis]

Yes. It is. It’s particularly difficult when people you love deeply and are close to you voice opinions about you, or perceptions of who you are, that do not align with the person we think, know, or desire to be.

[PIMH-PK]

It's fascinating how perceptions of us vary among individuals based on their interactions, experiences, and perspectives. Each person constructs their unique version of us, influenced by their own biases, memories, and interpretations. This diversity in perception adds complexity to human relationships and underscores the subjectivity of understanding others.

[BCRanger10]

Not at all. It's not uncommon for people to perceive themselves differently than others do, or for us to be able to adapt to different situations.

[RebelinSteel]

Yes and no

i have different versions of me, the one my parents see, the one my friends see, the one my work mates see, and the darker version of me

[Hanrej]

Not at all. Very few people behave the same way with everyone but make adaptation in their behavior to fit their at-the-moment-hangouts. This causes people to have different ways to view the same person.

[electromagnetic]

A little bit. Just like I know no one will ever feel the same way about something like I do.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Yes, people change their avatars on GAG so often, we can sometimes seem like whole new people from better angles or facial clarity 👀😅

[DJB72]

I love the movie "Vantage Point". Demonstrates this perfectly

[elaphe]

Yes, it is interesting how different people can have different views about the same person.

[Jerre]

I sure many people on this site has different views on who I am.

[Jerre]

@coolcatmar1 Thank you for the Like

[ALLURING24]

Yes. If I see myself 10 years ago, I will be like how is that person

[ALLURING24]

Who*

[NathanDavis]

I think it's crazy cool...

[KostasKouvalis]

What do you mean?

[CoolCatMar1]

Not that hard to understand 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[KostasKouvalis]

Clearly it is. Do you know how many ways that can be interperoted

[Siri137]

Like how? It's pretty obvious to me.

[KostasKouvalis]

@Siri137 It's because she used the word "US". If she'd used "YOU", I would have understood it.

[KostasKouvalis]

Or maybe I wouldn't have because "versions" is open ended too. Like the way YOU explained it in your answer was SO much clearer

[CubaPirate]

Strange but true

[Nice222]

Yes people miss judge me all the time.

[strateguy632]

no..