Does it mean he likes you if he remembers your birthday and is the first one to wish you a happy birthday?

[HoneySpiceSugar]

My crush was the first person to wish me a happy birthday, just after midnight, he sent me a message on Facebook.

Also, I had university lectures that day, so the whole day he was watching me in class from the back of the room, everyone was coming up to me and hugging me, giving me their wishes...he waited til they had all gone and I was alone...he came up to me and said happy brithday, smiled at me.

I asked him how he was and he seemed really nice and pleasant, he walked off and we didn't chat for very long. It really meant a lot to me that he made the effort to come and speak to me and give me his wishes :).

[FastAndFurious27]

Awwww that's cute.

Been in his position, and I had a crush on that girl :)

Yes I'm pretty sure he has a crush on you :)

[HoneySpiceSugar]

:) thanks for your answer. Can I just ask please...about your crush...how did you act around her...were you the same around her compared to other girls? x x

[FastAndFurious27]

No problem sweetie.

Well I was WAAAAAY more shy with her than with any other girl, I would try to compliment her but couldn't get the words out -.-

Also, I would flirt when I had the chance, I was contacting via phone mostly because I was too shy to do it in person, I would also try to keep a conversation alive :)

I would flex my muscles and even my jaws for her to notice my masculin side xD

And I would be a nice gentleman when around her <333

Feel free to keep asking, I'd like to help :)

[HoneySpiceSugar]

Awww that's so sweet, I wish my crush was more like you, trust me, if my crush did half of the things you did, I would have been so happy :)! My crush would sometimes ignore me, give me the hot and cold treatment, talk to my friends in front of me, flirt with other girls and try to make me jealous but the whole time he would be looking at me while he was doing it. Sometimes, he would smile and stare deeply into my eyes. Could you help explain his behavior plz? Did you ever do this to your crush? xxxx

[FastAndFurious27]

While I had my crush, I don't think I flirted with other girls, well not intentionally.

But I know some people flirt with others to see if the crush gets jealous, and know if she has a crush.

Hmm I never EVER ignored my crush, I wouldn't say I stalked her but I would be super jealous when she was talking to other guys xD

What do you mean with "the hot cold treatment"?

Also maybe he's not the romantic gentleman kind of guy?

I can give you some tips if you'd like it?

And thank you :)

[HoneySpiceSugar]

Oh by hot and cold treatment, I mean that one day he's nice and the next he ignores me. That's true, I think you're right he could just not be the romantic type. Aww yes please, that would be great if you could give me some tips. Thank you so much! <3

[FastAndFurious27]

No problem :)

I may be sending lots of comments if there's not room for letters in the previous ones :)

[FastAndFurious27]

Umm first how old are you guys? And how old we're you guys when this occurred ?

[HoneySpiceSugar]

Ok kl, no problem ;) I was 21 and he was 22.

[FastAndFurious27]

Alright.

1.) So if you guys are hanging out, or just seeing each other notice if he's changing his position and if he's flexing his muscles, I assure you that almost every guy does this.

[FastAndFurious27]

2.) When you guys talk, does he seem more shy? If yes, ask him about something personal that he wouldn't share with anybody, if he just gives a short answer he's holding back, but if he shares it means that he trusts you, which obviously is good :)

[HoneySpiceSugar]

Ok kl, tnx, wow I didn't really think of those things before...tnx;)!

[FastAndFurious27]

3.) Make sure to compliment him sometimes, like "hey nice shirt" "wow you look good in those jeans" or anything like that, if he's a gentleman he should reply with like, "thank you, you look really good too" or "thank you, I like the way you've sat up your hair" etc lol

I really like to compliment my GF, I do almost every minute LOL.

But yeah let him take a good look at you :)

And when you leave let him die for you to return, my Girlfriend does that -.- xD

[FastAndFurious27]

4.) This ones a killer.

Tell him or give some hints that you are dating someone, if he replies with all sorts of questions he is MOST LIKELY, jealous, if he's just like meh he probably doesn't really care, but don't take this as fact, he could be like meh but is dying inside.

Remember if he doesn't appreciate you or like you for who you are, there's someone out there who will, trust me, that's what happened to me, she didn't like me at all.

[HoneySpiceSugar]

Thanks for all the tips and aww you areally are a sweetheart, your girlfriend is lucky :) you sound like a really nice guy. Glad you found someone who likes you for you. :) x x

[HoneySpiceSugar]

Your tips are really good, thanks :) and you sound like a real gentleman. I'm sure your girlfriend is very happy she founda a good guy like you...now all I need to do is be lucky in love myself lol. x x

[FastAndFurious27]

Aww thank you sweetheart, really appreciate it :D <333

I'm pretty sure that you'll find the right one very soon, if that guy doesn't like you he must have like a d*** shoved in his ear that's affecting his brain :/

But no seriously you seem like a sweetheart, keep it up.

And if he doesn't treat you well, tell me, and I'll beat him up :D

If you need any other advice any time, feel free to ask/contact me :)

[HoneySpiceSugar]

You're welcome :D <3 Aww ha ha thanks! Cool, yeah I will do and if you need any advice from me feel free to ask/ contact me too :). <3

[FastAndFurious27]

Sure will do :D thank you :] <333

Can I add you as friend here on GaG?

[HoneySpiceSugar]

Aww yeah suer you can add me :)! <3

[HoneySpiceSugar]

*sure...typo lol...yeah I think I sent you a friend request already, just check, if not just add me :) *hugs* <333

[FastAndFurious27]

Ohh alright cool tnx sweetheart :)

*hugs* <333