How often do guys realize they've screwed up and lost a good girl? How often do they go after her? (Page 3)

[MMM369]

Messaged this girl... co worker told me something ‘great to say’ it would only work if she was a hoe... she wasn’t a hoe which is what I was looking for... Yepp she said “why does every guy have such a dirty approach “ LOL fml

[Anonymous]

It depends on your definition of "good girl". If a guy is dating a girl and he decides she's not a good girl, regardless of what she thinks of herself, what would change his mind later when she's no longer around? He;s still going to see her the same way.

[MikkiM]

I believe there are still good girl out there, and if she is special enough for her, i think he would think twice to chase her again

[Trey0209]

1. Most guys.
2. Depends on the guy some are to shy or to overly confident.
3. There bravery to not just spectate and engage.
4. Drop hints and hope they aren't an idiot other then that I can't help just follow with trial and error ( oh and watch anime 😇😈😉)

[torwulf]

Never. I don't screw up and lose good girls. All the girls i lose, i lose for good reason, if for nothing more than an opportunity to upgrade to a superior model.

[bubble_tea]

"Most importantly, what kinds of things make him decide to go after her? Is there anything the girl can do to encourage this?"
No, there isn't. Life is not a soap opera.

[BrownBratzDoll]

They will not be going back but to use u. If a man had u and didn't value u, he never wanted u in the first place u were just something to do, consistent pussy until he got somebody that he really wants

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Most are of the more reasonable mentality that if you ended it’s inappropriate to “fight for you.”

If you want them to fight for you then they should be letting it go even more so. Those games are for big poopyheads.

[Anonymous]

all these people sound good but here is the issue
the majority of you are stupid

men and women a like
a new relationship will change nothing lol
look im just telling you from experience

the only thing I learned is that you women are a huge issue
and I want nothing to do with you literally
sex is the only thing I want at this point

cause I finally understand how you women think
and its horrible no wonder you women hate each other

[Deanbeams87]

1. You're anon so expressing yourself in this capacity makes you a coward.
2. You're not so bright and I'll ecplain why in 3...
3. Any man who thinks he's summed up how women are based on a few limited experiences (and spare me, I know you had limited experiences. You absolutely did talking the way you do) can't possibly be smart.

[Opinion Owner]

@Deanbeams87

hahaha see this guy is dumb
he believes a core exist

[Deanbeams87]

To be honest, I don't know what you mean. I only said what I said because this dude literally sounds stupid as shit.

[Logorithim]

It's usually too late when you realize it. When I did and tried to resume the relationship, she was only interested in friendship.

[achezc]

It happened once to me… a million for time ago when I was an idiot and before I started working on myself

[achezc]

Long time ago*

[Anonymous]

Many guys realize when they lost a good girl and develope what I dub "The I Fucked Up Syndrome" Where they are torn betwwen going after her or move one. Some may refuse to start another relation to avoid it happening again

[peachblossomluck]

They usually do but by the time they return and try to get her back she's disgusted, over him, and not interested any longer.

[CluelesslyClueless]

There was a girl I liked I never caught, if I thought there was still a chance I'd try, unfortunately I'm 95% sure there is none.

[Factshurt90]

thank you for this question. these responses have reminded me why I'm single. lol

[crazy8000]

That's mutual 😉

[TayTay21]

If it's over, why would he beat his head against a brick wall that way?

[Konnour]

Um.. what about 'never'? I don't regret anything, what is done is done, there's absolutely no point of beating yourself regardless of reason.

[Ayer93]

If the girl leaves me then I say fuck it... they can't appreciate me. I'm over it. If I leave them, I've already decided that I don't see myself with them, so... either way... No.

[Benedek38]

Only happened once so far. There was no option to go after her.

[fenixx0083]

I wouldn't know, I've never lost a good girl, only stuck around far too long time after time waiting for the girl she was pretending to be in the beginning to come back