Is it normal my girlfriend to hit me? (Page 2)

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Hey! My girlfriend hits me really hard. I'm Brazilian, she is an American black girl and she hits really hard for her her size lol I know.  You shouldn't hit women. Yet, my girlfriend is hitting me and this gets annoying. Every time I attempt to hit her back she gets all scared and says  "sorry sorry please don't I'm sorry baby don't hit me" She knows I'll never hit her back. I've been with her for 2 years. I don't wanna break up, I love her so much and she's a great girl.  Should I just hit her back just one time so she will be too scared to hit me again? How can I put fear in her so she won't hit me again?

harveykinkle · Answer

You're in an abusive relationship!  That's not love!

Guccigabbana18 · Answer

Leave. her. She's not worth it. She doesn't love you if she hits you, I'm sorry. No matter what she says, she doesn't love you like that.

summiter · Answer

It is not normal for a good relationship. Why hit? Kiss, cuddle and of course have tons of sex and give each other orgasms instead of hitting.

RasmusAiken · Answer

No, don't hit her back. And don't try to control her with fear because that makes you the bully.  If you find her abusive, DUMP her.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Is it aggressive or playful? Have a talk with her either way

why-makoto-kun · Answer

Dump her! Abuse is abuse. Btw you shouldn't be hitting her back, especially because you can cause so much more damage than she can, most likely.

SnowedIn · Answer

No it's not but I really wish the question would stop being featured; I'm sick of seeing it.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Absolutely not, you shouldn't have to deal with that. Unless it is in self defense, no partner should ever strike the other.

Leave asap, people who care about you don't go out of their way to harm you.

KaiidiraX · Answer

No it isn't normal for people to hit each other.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Brutal love affair...  I've heard of those.  I think you're masochist too.

whirled_up_girl · Answer

I think intimate partner violence is wrong no matter which gender does it.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

These comments would be very different if it was the other way around. Bloody ridiculous.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, punch her right in the fucking mouth. Tell her if she ever hits you again that you lay her fucking ass out. You might need to find a new girlfriend

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I can tell you just from who raised me, black women hit like a dude 30 pounds heavier than them.

Elaine1 · Answer

Not hit her back but you have to talk to her that you can't bear her if she still hits you again!

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope. I'm a fairly big dude and even if she were half my size I'd not put up with violence. I wouldn't beat her up, but I'd end the relationship.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Why does she keep hitting you? Do you do stuff to piss her off or does she have anger issues and everything makes her mad?  Personally I would just leave her if you're not provoking her

DermalPunch · Answer

If you can't solve this issue with words there is a problem.

Himebsny · Answer

Had a girlfriend who hit me once. I slapped her back and she never did it again. Some people are just bullies and they'll abuse you if you are weak enough to let them. Either slap her back or dump her. Or both.

Massageman · Answer

If you are looking for a girlfriend, leave. ( You have already found a whiny little kid who wants her own way. )

RockyHammock · Answer

Sounds like she doesn't respect you. It would probably be faster to find a new girl than to regain lost respect

es20490446e · Answer

If I was in that situation I would:

Anonymous · Answer

Unfortunately American women are unusually aggressive. Some will do this until they eventually meet the guy who isn't opposed to hitting back. Then after she gets rocked by him she's a little less quick to go on the offense 😆😆😆.

genericname85 · Answer

no that's not normal. i'd ditch her. this is actually straight up domestic abuse by the way. just saying.

douride2 · Answer

If she was a great girl she wouldn't be hitting you. I don't know why anyone would stay with an abuser?

MikeInHawaii · Answer

Break up! Run like hell! The day you hit her back she will think she’s an innocent victim and people will believe her!

OddBeMe · Answer

Women do feel they can hit us men without backlash. I think it’s the media, our culture…even our idea of manliness is about being tough. So really it’s men’s fault.

chronic22 · Answer

You don't gotta hit her just grab her by the arm and knock her on the ground and tell her if you want to spar like a spartan then that's exactly what we're going to do

driven159 · Answer

She is not a great girl if she hits you, she is an abuser see the big red flag waving get the hell out before she does something worse and we all know she will so move the hell on

exitseven · Answer

Just take your punishment like a man. She is only playing.

Dtate · Answer

Here's the best advice "Break her back." Which means next time you have sex pound her cheeks into oblivion until she begs for mercy. That's how you get even. This won't work if you're a doormat of a boyfriend though.

johari · Answer

maybe she's play fighting ? I have friends that do that :/

kia58 · Answer

Slap her. You don't need much pain, the fear is what will do the trick.

Sasha0426 · Answer

My guy, that would be a terrible idea. You know what’s gonna happen if you hit her? She’ll report you and your ass will be in jail.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

End it. Enough with the "I love her, so I won't leave her", she assaulted you. End it.

ItsMykolaJenkins · Answer

How can a great girl hit you? Why you love somebody who hurts you? Whats wrong with you? What kind of love is this Its not normal its assault!!!

smile-day22 · Answer

never hit a girl if you love her you will not hit her just tell her everything you wrote in your description tell her how you feel about her hitting you don't be such a puss

awkwardddgirl · Answer

you have to break up hitting and physical abuse is not ok no matter who is doing it

sadgirl0210 · Answer

Hellno dump her fucking ass she is a very disrespectful brat and she assault u.

strlb · Answer

Fuck that bro. Leave her. I experienced this with my ex never a good situation. Leave while you can still think straight

Idk20 · Answer

That is totally unacceptable if you where to hit her she would dump you and have you arrested! So In the spirit of equality you should dump her and press charges.

Anonymous · Answer

That is a very toxic situation you have going.

Anonymous · Answer

Sweetie, unless it's some sort of consensual play, and it doesn't sound like it, not only is that not normal, that's assault.

Anonymous · Answer

You're being abused. It's a toxic relationship. It's not normal.

Anonymous · Answer

Yoke her up by the shoulders and tell her she better not ever hit you again. Yoke up means grab...

Anonymous · Answer

You should just dump her. She's physically abusing you.

Anonymous · Answer

No. You need to leave before she kills you or puts you in jail for false accusations. Society ignores abusive females but 71% of all non-reciprocal violence is female to male.

Randalama · Answer

Difficult question! Strike her with all your might. Perhaps that will improve the situation.

Stevefiveo · Answer

Yes, it is totally normal. Stop making her mad and obey her.

EaterPeter · Answer

Not normal, leave her, give her three warnings and then break up

dragoblack · Answer

No, it's not normal for any kind of relationship. That is just straight up abuse.

In_Trance · Answer

If that's what you've allowed her to do, it's normal. It's not how others function though

Twalli · Answer

I hit back. A girl isn't special enough to avoid being hit if she hits me.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If you live in the U. S., leave her immediately. If you live in Brazil, hit her back.

Anonymous · Answer

Dude… I’m sorry. You need to give her an ultimatum or something though. You can’t keep going like that

Anonymous · Answer

Well, not hitting her is still the right thing to do but maybe you need to have a serious talk with her about her anger

Amur8711 · Answer

It's normal but its more common than it ever has been

krin_m · Answer

Why does she hit you? There is something wrong here.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope that's definitely not normal and what did you do when she hit you

Anonymous · Answer

It's normal for some black girls to beat on their guys. My girl does, but I like it.

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