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Whodini - Friends lol classic
Anyways welcome to my first myTake today. We are going to talk about getting guy friends. I always hear about a guy falling for a girl who only sees him as a friend. Confusion runs through his mind he starts getting cold and then the beautiful friendship falls apart. The reason it happens is because this guy thinks that your the only girl for him and he expects to much out of you.
1. Understanding guys
We want a girl that could please us. We want a girl that could save us from the sausage fest. Some of us are surrounded by men all the time its hard. Some of us don't have as many girlfriends. So when some girl out of nowhere comes we think she's the one and in most cases it doesn't end very well which creates confusion.
2. Confusion
Once you meet a guy you guys talk get to know eachother a little bit whatever. A couple of days pass now this bastard starts falling "in love" with you. Like god please noo! D:<
3. How to handle the situation
You have a concious, I know. We get it. Sucks to be you but your gonna have to be real with him and tell him what you feel. Don't sugar coat it.
4. Fading friendship
Now the guy is all booty hurt because you dumped him. He doesn't want to talk to you. This happens to a lot of girls and what you don't understand he wants a girlfriend but he doesn't know how to get her. Tell him your still going to be his friend.
5. Wing Woman
This guy doesn't know what to do anymore. He feels useless because you dumped him. This is were you come in. Talk to him and make a deal with him. Tell him "I know you hate me but im still going to be your friend and im going to help you find a girlfriend" its gonna make him happy to be your friend because your gonna help him find what he's looking for.
Your gonna hook him up but under your terms you have the advantage and who knows? You scratch his back He'll scratch yours. Ahh yesss... This is the beginning of a beautiful friendship. xD
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My advice is that when you break up, cut all ties. Someone will always secretly stay hurt unless the breakup was done in mutual agreement and respect.
Personally I stayed friends for about 2 years after we broke up. It was a rollercoaster ride of fun but also tears. I really don't wish it on anyone.
That's just my perspective though.
@Remonster You got it right. The dumpee has hurt feelings because. . . they've been dumped! The dumper may have hurt feelings because of the things that happened that led to the breakup (like discovering someone being unfaithful) or maybe because the dumpee isn't as devastated as the dumper anticipated. So you play this game of trying to remain friends because one of you feels guilty about the breakup and the other one is trying to keep connected because they are secretly hoping to reunite. So then maybe the dumpee starts taking out their anger on the dumper, or they start acting jealous when dumper gets a new love interest, etc. I have never seen anyone successfully transition from a romantic relationship to a platonic relationship (except on TV and movies.)
And that's the way that people have been for thousands of years.
Then I have to ask... Why did you write a MyTake on mending it?
I mean, it doesn't seem to align to your own experience and opinion.
If a girl helps you try to find the right women is she worth being friends with?
Oh I'm sorry for the comments @OlderAndWiser. Obviously I thought you were the Take Owner when you weren't!
@micheal727jovanie Maybe. If she genuinely cares for you to be in a relationship with another woman. I'm a little bit skeptical about this because woman *generally* get jealous easier than men. Also it may be hard for you to keep giving the female friend attention while you're already in a committed relationship.
I have made the same mistake on another occasion.
Its possible but the only reason you think its not because you see the negative in everything and really no friend has ever done that for you.
I just wanted to say I love that song. Also not sugar coating things is difficult, but better in the long run.
Yup so there won't be any miscommunication
Oh, perfect advice, mike! thanks :)
No problems :3