Newsflash: Cheating Is NOT A Mistake! (Page 2)

[Rpf1918]

Yes we should always communicate. No we should not cheat because it hurts our partner and breaks our trust. That's just good sense and logic. But guess what, people are not sensible or logical when it comes to sex. So besides getting this off your chest, your effort in writing it was wasted.

[CHARismatic110]

Not really. Didn't take much effort. Thanks tho.

[Randomguy8182]

I don't know about the getting another persons number thing tbh, I talk to this girl and she got a boyfriend and we text a lot still and flirt a bit but it's cause we are friends, we haven't been friends that long tho just became friends through mutual friends and we have been talking since just as friends and having a laugh

[Randomguy8182]

By ur view of it and not saying your wrong just depends on how you look at it we r emotionally cheating cause we go to the gym together sometimes too

[CHARismatic110]

Does her boyfriend know about you?

[Randomguy8182]

I don't think so

[CHARismatic110]

Well then that's a problem.

[Randomguy8182]

Meh matter of opinion really isn't it, I don't think it's cheating nor a problem. Don't think she does either, it's not like we r doing anything physical

[CHARismatic110]

Mhm.

[stubbsy]

Some people don't understand betrayal even if it slapped them in the face. These people should be avoided at all costs.

[Randomguy8182]

I that aimed at me or a general opinion lol

[AngelLove85]

Thats not your friend. Thats a girl you're waiting to hookup with. Id be weary as her boyfriend but some men trust their women. But the line has been crossed with your flirting. Its only a matter of time before it goes further.

[genuinlysensitive]

Well said, a newsflash indeed. The only problem is a lot of people don't wonder weather or not they should be doing these things. Those are the ones you need to worry about.

[CHARismatic110]

Thank you.

[Maverickj]

Great take. I'm assuming this is a response to a certain earlier myTake that was posted, about some girl who said "I cheated, but I'm not a cheater"?

[CHARismatic110]

Lol yes and no. I'd been wanting to write about it for awhile. That just pushed me into it.

[InconspicuousBox]

I hated that myTake! Would you not call someone who murdered a murderer? Would you not call someone who stole a thief? Why the hell does she think that she is magically not a cheater despite cheating? I wanted to leave a comment but figured it wouldn't be worth the fight I knew that would pursue. Arguing with idiots is always pointless and she clearly was one.

[ThisDudeHere]

Afuckingmen. I have been saying this myself for quite some time now.

[CHARismatic110]

Thanks dude

[Kuraj]

Everything that is a conscious decision is not a mistake.
Mistake is just a word people use to feel better about making shitty decisions.

[CHARismatic110]

Yupppp

[Pedantic]

I believe emotional cheating exists. Every man has different levels of 'friendship' he can go to. It is kind of like playing with fire, and you can get burnt. My advice though is know your limits and don't try to push them.

[CHARismatic110]

I agree

[GirlsLie]

Complete agree.

"if you have to think about if you should be doing it, then you shouldn't be."

That's exactly how I feel about everything. All of these people who come on here and ask if what they're doing is wrong should already know.

[CHARismatic110]

Thank you.

[Starfishlover]

Amazing take. Look, I am pretty promiscuous. Even in havethe decency to let people know that I want to have sex with other people if I am not in a rwlatuon

[Starfishlover]

Bloody hell it sent without my permission. What I wanted to say was that I let people know that I only want them for sex and if I'm in a relationship, I break up with the person first and then hoe around hahhahaha

[CHARismatic110]

Lol fair enough. Thanks.

[Dargil]

Cheating is not a mistake or accident. It is a willful violation of a relationship revealing a lack of respect for the "injured" party by the perp. Its not an "oops". It is a fatal flaw.

[CHARismatic110]

Well said.

[MissPoirot]

I agree. Great take!

A FRIENDS quote popped in my mind when I read the title: "A mistake? What were you trying to put it in, her purse?"

[CHARismatic110]

Lmao exactly. Thanks!

[ImNotCreativeEither]

I agree that emotional cheating can be dangerous, but I'd be more upset if my girlfriend cheated physically than if she cheated emotionally.

[CHARismatic110]

I'd like to think that most guys would be more upset by the physical

[ras144]

I would also be more upset about the physical cheating.

[DivaMonae]

Well yeah that's pretty obvious girls just can't "accidentally" fall onto a guys d*xk or a guy into a girls vagina... But anyeaya good MyTake.

[CHARismatic110]

Mhm.

[Tycwep]

Pay very close attention when you hear people use the word "mistake". It is very often used in any situation when somebody doesn't want to take responsibility for their actions not just with cheating.

[CHARismatic110]

This has some truth to it.

[JustinTheGreat]

"I didn't mean to cheat! I just tripped and my penis fell into her vagina"

[CHARismatic110]

Indeed

[Byakuyarko]

emotional cheating? What? That's the epitome of insecurity... If your partner only thinks about cheating on you yet still remains faithful, you can rest assured of your value to him... No point in creating more problems than you actually have

[CHARismatic110]

Emotional cheating is sometimes a precursor to physical cheating.

[Byakuyarko]

sometimes. Hardly always.

[DaniaMQ]

I. LOVE. THIS!!! You are totally right and I agree with what you wrote!! Good MyTake 😌👌😊

[CHARismatic110]

Thanks!

[DaniaMQ]

Welcome 😊

[princesssangre]

Great mytake. No one's genitals can accidentally fall into someone else's penis or vagina and no one's mouth can accidentally fall onto some one's vagina or dick

[princesssangre]

I would like to also add "oh na na na look what you dun started!" Lol

[thisdudejimmy]

If only there was a Share button

[CHARismatic110]

Lmao thanks girl

[Dessertfox]

My recent ex cheated on me with her ex boyfriend... That's emotional and physical cheating. :/

[CHARismatic110]

That's horrible. Sorry you had to deal with that.

[teawrecks]

I enjoyed this. And I agree with everything you've said.

[CHARismatic110]

Thanks love.

[teawrecks]

Welcome!

I acknowledge how hypocritical it is of me to agree with everything in this, but I mean... solid points. Solid logic. Solid reasoning.

[CHARismatic110]

And I appreciate your acknowledgement.

[CHARismatic110]

Although the circumstances are... tricky.