Because it isn't always about looks. Shocker, I know! There have been a couple guys I have dated that I was not that attracted to when I first met them but I got to know them and they had confidence and were funny and we got along great and they became extremely attractive to me. Everyone also has different types, even if based on just looks alone I have known women that like bigger guys or a certain race or short guys, etc. I really don't understand why it has to be so shocking if someone has a certain type that might not fit other people's expectations and it doesn't make it right or wrong. That guy she is with probably will treat her better than a super cocky, conceited "attractive" guy.
I dated a guy last year who played on our college rugby team. He wasn't fat but more like what I would call burly, like he was big with muscle and a decent amount of fat, too, but tall and handsome facially. This little guy in my dorm saw us together and actually had the temerity to ask me why I was with a fat guy. I was like, yeah, he's 6'3" with muscle and confidence, but he's nothing compared to your scrawny 140-lb ass. Guys have such fragile egos that they never will admit when another guy has something on them.
This guy no more deserves her than the man in the moon ! Clearly he does nothing to better himself. Shit, any hot guy with a minimal amount game ought to be able to blow his ass out of the water. He's such a fucking pig ! But I have seen this and I don't understand it.
Why would a person be less deserving of a woman simply because he does not have a model's physique? He could be an incredibly intelligent, accomplished, articulate, loyal and honest person. Many such people like mathematicians, physicists or other scientists are known to be less aesthetically oriented and put a lot less effort into their physical appearance.
On the other hand, a hot woman/man who's career is based solely physical attractiveness, probably isn't going to be as well educated since most of their time and effort go into looking nice. Hence the stereotype that models are dumb, which is largely true.
I would think she is attracted to this guy for his brain and loyalty. Many men who are naturally handsome end up exploiting this trait by sleeping/cheating on multiple women. They may be hot, but they are not trustworthy. He may have game for the first few dates when trying to wow a woman, but the douchebaggery shines through after that.
That dude has a cute face he is just a big boy. The girl would be average too without makeup she is wearing a lot. The fat tranny mermaid part made me giggle.
Oh and thay couple om the last pic didn't they marry? I remember seeing them a few years ago im not gonna like i was shocked she meet him at her heaviest
A lot of women aren't visual like men are. Yes I agree there has to be attraction but sometimes that happens after their personality captures your heart. All of a sudden you become so attracted to them and everything about them is beautiful to you.
The picture with the guy with the overweight woman is a more common couple than the one with the girl, (I see overweight women with men of all sizes, but rarely the other way around) who I would say is slightly above average not hot, and that guy is also not seriously overweight like the woman was.
To this I only have one thing to say. Haters gonna hate. I mean there's always gonna be that one ugly guy that has the insanely hot girl and to be honest the only people that have a problem with this are those that have insecurities about their own love lives.
That's easy. There is no such thing as an "ugly guy". Women usually don't agree on what is attractive or unattractive in a guy. Some women like long hair, others short hair. Some like tattoos, others not. Some want a guy with facial hair, and others not. No matter what you look like as a guy, there are a fixed number of women who will find you attractive, and a number that won't. if you change your appearance, you'll lose women and gain others. So, advice for men: Don't change; there are women out there who want you just as you are. On the other hand, guys pretty much all agree on what is attractive. Women tend to be more empirically beautiful to all/most guys. That's just how it seams to me, anyway. :)
Good mytake! People value looks waay too much. But hey, if they do only care about looks, you at least know they're superficial and you better not bother with them! Win :)
I see this a lot too, and honestly he probably has a 10/10 personality. Made her feel really special unlike any other guy ^_^ That's just my guess/opinion though.
Usually the ones complaining like the YouTube comments, they're just jealous and have issues, pretty much everything they say means: "why is she with this ugly dude instead of my ugly ass?". And stupid shit like he must have money. Things like this always piss me off and what makes me angrier is that relationships end because they can't handle the harassment they get from everyone😠
lol LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL !!! XD Yeaah their all right ! She needs to dump him like right now !!! :D ooh and since we gonna make her dump him... can I have his number? :D He looks hot...
She still has makeup on lmao just not the full amount, but yeah keyboard warriors who have never woken up next to a girl have NO idea what one looks like with literally nothing on. If i showed you a pic of my girlfriend with makeup + filters you'd be surprised (@chintita knows rite xD)
Look at him in the first pic, he's a handsome guy the difference between them is not that great tbh.
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Because it isn't always about looks. Shocker, I know! There have been a couple guys I have dated that I was not that attracted to when I first met them but I got to know them and they had confidence and were funny and we got along great and they became extremely attractive to me. Everyone also has different types, even if based on just looks alone I have known women that like bigger guys or a certain race or short guys, etc. I really don't understand why it has to be so shocking if someone has a certain type that might not fit other people's expectations and it doesn't make it right or wrong. That guy she is with probably will treat her better than a super cocky, conceited "attractive" guy.
I dated a guy last year who played on our college rugby team. He wasn't fat but more like what I would call burly, like he was big with muscle and a decent amount of fat, too, but tall and handsome facially. This little guy in my dorm saw us together and actually had the temerity to ask me why I was with a fat guy. I was like, yeah, he's 6'3" with muscle and confidence, but he's nothing compared to your scrawny 140-lb ass. Guys have such fragile egos that they never will admit when another guy has something on them.
Preach it girl <3 awesome take!
I don't see a problem with him either? We need to stop judging solely based on looks.
Thank you! Looks aren't everything.
Welcome and so true.
This guy no more deserves her than the man in the moon ! Clearly he does nothing to better himself. Shit, any hot guy with a minimal amount game ought to be able to blow his ass out of the water. He's such a fucking pig ! But I have seen this and I don't understand it.
Guess she has a thing for chubby guys.
Why would a person be less deserving of a woman simply because he does not have a model's physique? He could be an incredibly intelligent, accomplished, articulate, loyal and honest person. Many such people like mathematicians, physicists or other scientists are known to be less aesthetically oriented and put a lot less effort into their physical appearance.
On the other hand, a hot woman/man who's career is based solely physical attractiveness, probably isn't going to be as well educated since most of their time and effort go into looking nice. Hence the stereotype that models are dumb, which is largely true.
I would think she is attracted to this guy for his brain and loyalty.
Many men who are naturally handsome end up exploiting this trait by sleeping/cheating on multiple women. They may be hot, but they are not trustworthy. He may have game for the first few dates when trying to wow a woman, but the douchebaggery shines through after that.
Maybe so.
That dude has a cute face he is just a big boy. The girl would be average too without makeup she is wearing a lot. The fat tranny mermaid part made me giggle.
Yeah he's just chubby that's all. People are idiots lol.
Here she is without makeup
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/By8FdkBIcAAxxWl.jpg
She has eye lash extensions though and that no makeup selfie is always some makeup. She is cute but definitely not beautiful thats a commom face.
Oh and thay couple om the last pic didn't they marry? I remember seeing them a few years ago im not gonna like i was shocked she meet him at her heaviest
Yes they did ;:)
She has makeup on...
A lot of women aren't visual like men are. Yes I agree there has to be attraction but sometimes that happens after their personality captures your heart. All of a sudden you become so attracted to them and everything about them is beautiful to you.
Personality is what draws you in. :)
Yes it does! Then once it does you become attracted =)
The picture with the guy with the overweight woman is a more common couple than the one with the girl, (I see overweight women with men of all sizes, but rarely the other way around) who I would say is slightly above average not hot, and that guy is also not seriously overweight like the woman was.
Really? Cool, I see more hot girls with average guys. Hmm.
To this I only have one thing to say. Haters gonna hate. I mean there's always gonna be that one ugly guy that has the insanely hot girl and to be honest the only people that have a problem with this are those that have insecurities about their own love lives.
Exactly. You get it.
I definitely think a good personality goes long way and I agree it's annoying when people talk like this
Yes. Thanks for reading :)
That's easy. There is no such thing as an "ugly guy". Women usually don't agree on what is attractive or unattractive in a guy. Some women like long hair, others short hair. Some like tattoos, others not. Some want a guy with facial hair, and others not. No matter what you look like as a guy, there are a fixed number of women who will find you attractive, and a number that won't. if you change your appearance, you'll lose women and gain others. So, advice for men: Don't change; there are women out there who want you just as you are.
On the other hand, guys pretty much all agree on what is attractive. Women tend to be more empirically beautiful to all/most guys.
That's just how it seams to me, anyway. :)
Most stupid comment ever lol.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder 😁
Good mytake! People value looks waay too much. But hey, if they do only care about looks, you at least know they're superficial and you better not bother with them! Win :)
Thank you!
Like the old saying goes, looks attract but personality is what keeps.
Plus, I totally agree with @archiz. 🙋
Yes! And that's what people don't get.
thanks !
I see this a lot too, and honestly he probably has a 10/10 personality. Made her feel really special unlike any other guy ^_^ That's just my guess/opinion though.
Exactly. A good personality is what makes it last
Very true cx
Usually the ones complaining like the YouTube comments, they're just jealous and have issues, pretty much everything they say means: "why is she with this ugly dude instead of my ugly ass?". And stupid shit like he must have money. Things like this always piss me off and what makes me angrier is that relationships end because they can't handle the harassment they get from everyone😠
Ali is hot, I watched a few of her videos :)
And the top guy isn't bad looking at all, he just needs to dress better (sweats and messy hair do no one justice-skinny or otherwise)
Yeah. He doesn't look bad at all. :) He's cute and chubby.
lol LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL !!! XD Yeaah their all right ! She needs to dump him like right now !!! :D ooh and since we gonna make her dump him... can I have his number? :D He looks hot...
He's very good looking! :)
yeaah can't believe most people are saying his average LOL !!!
- Personality, his is probably quite magnetic.
- Makeup, take hers off and she's not that far above him.
Yes exactly my point.
Also, here's a picture of her without makeup
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/By8FdkBIcAAxxWl.jpg
She still has makeup on lmao just not the full amount, but yeah keyboard warriors who have never woken up next to a girl have NO idea what one looks like with literally nothing on. If i showed you a pic of my girlfriend with makeup + filters you'd be surprised (@chintita knows rite xD)
Look at him in the first pic, he's a handsome guy the difference between them is not that great tbh.
Yeah. I don't know why they call him ugly.
it s mainly his body since he s fat.
but I liked his face, especially in the first pic.
she has a great body
when u find a failed tag to u lmfao and ya she's wearing eyebrows, mascara, eyeliner, something on her lips and most likely concealer/foundation.
Huh! Reminds me of my relationship. I always thought i was the only ugly guy with a hot girlfriend. I suddenly don't feel so alone anymore.
You're personality is what really counts. :)
I think he's good looking actually. People are allowed to love whoever they want. I don't see a problem with this at all.
Yeah he's chubby. She likes chubby guys. No problem.
Some people can get really jealous they cannot handle it ;)
+ as you said, beauty lies in the eye of the beholder.
Overall good take RainbowDashGirl :]
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My favourite pony is Twilight Sparkle :]