Internal Racism in the Black Community - Dating and Relationships (Page 2)
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Font take this the wrong way, but I totally thought this was going to be about someone in the black community being called an uncle tom.
Very enlightening, great read, hope it works out for you man, keep pushing, don't let anyone stop you!
Hi. Sounds like you're in-between a rock and a hard place, like being stuck between two cultures. But you're important because people like you can make things better. I appreciate that and I wish you luck.
A lot of black women feel like that all the time. Have you ever seen some of the shit black men would post about black women... Some fucked up shit.
Honestly, this really sucks. Sorry you have to deal with this.
The media has total control of you from your prejudice to what you consider good looking even to your racial preference. It all tied back into social programming that you experience as a kid.
Also another reason BLACK woman are going for WHITE MEN is because women these days are more militant about power and finances and are willing to do everything to get the "good" life. White men tend to have more money often than not than black men so their just looking out for their future.
Similar pattern can be seen in my country where many non-Indian woman are dating Indian men because well they have mot of the wealth distributed to them.
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Relationship these days is all about power, status and looks.
You should try to looksmax to a tyrone, maybe that'll improve your chances with an educated black women. Either that are thugmax and improve your game.
Or just take a shower, get a haircut, improve your're personality, and respect women/become a femenist, women love guys with good personalities who respect women.
I read the title finding this an interesting topic. I read the rest of the article, and I still find it interesting. Great take, I usually dont enjoy takes as much as I did with this one.
Why you dont date the blacks from africa continent? (Fob)
Because Africans who come here also treat African Americans like horse shit. I sat next to a girl who said 'Omg Slavery wasn't even that bad' and she was From Nigeria. Not to mention the off handed comments an African teacher made about our people while my mom was taking an IT class there. I'd say Africans hate us almost as much as white people do. You're free to correct me if I'm wrong.
@TokyoGhoulLover well this guy can't find An American raised black lady for a long term relationship, he should look elsewhere.
good point, *shrugs* bon chance then
Asker, here is an article by a black woman where she uses tinder to date and to travel over seas. She has similar opinions too. www.thisisinsider.com/i-tindered-my-way-through-europe-2016-10
Don't be stubborn, listen to your dad's advice. Also, seems you yourself are racist to an extent, insisting to be with a black wmn, you obviously SEE color when you date
Are you mixed? Because you said that your dad married a black woman.
No he's not, he's just black. He said he's black immediately after that statement. The only reason he says he dad married a black woman is because he also wants to date a black woman.
We need unity amongst the races man. I hate it when agendas are pushed in the media.
It was a nice read.
Yo man I can definitely feel you, but in my case it's Asian girls because a good majority of them prefer white guys over Asian guys.
I'm surprised to hear your experience.
Why are your surprised?
Partly because I remember seeing the okcupid statistic, and I assume that black women tend to prefer black men.
Maybe if you had the more stereotypical hip hop style, they would like you more. I don't know though.
I hope you find a nice lady. Dont give up.
Well said
I hope black and white women can get along
good topic0*
I LOVE BLACK GIRLSSS