The Reasons Why 'Men Looking at Other Women When Accompanied by Their SO' Remains an Issue (Page 2)
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Either way its a rude behavior to do infront of your partner and personaly I think its stupid to act like that around your significant other.
But if your single or not with your partner then whatever who cares who looks at who, but there should be enough respect in the relationship.
There's only one legitimate problem that women have with their men looking at other women - these women have shitty parents who didn't do their job right and brought up an insecure as fuck daughter.
I agree and disagree.
I mean woman do it too.
And a lot of it is insecurities.
I mean should they just ignore half the population just in case they find them attractive? People are allowed to look. Its when they touch/flirt which is crossing the line...
Me and my boyfriend have got to the point where we'll point out attractive people for the others opinions as its me he's with.
Lady i have countless hot women eyeing me and checking me out often and i know they have a boyfriend, its not even weird to see a girl smiling at me and eyeing me with her boyfriend right beside her, its frustrating knowing you can never have her but they still do it, get over it.
Looking at someone and even finding him/her attractive is fine different than ogling which is plain disrespectful towards your partner. And hey men who are throwing words like "evolution" and biology wanna hear something? Biologically women also want to be protected and mate with the best alpha male so why do you men whine and cry when women acting purely on their instincts go for rich and tall studs?
looking is just looking. i look at everyone but i dont stare. i only check out random women when im single but if im busy and in a rush i dont care. when im in a relationship idgaf about what other women look like.
'We're men, we look'
End of story. Stop trying to make men into something they aren't. Just because you don't want to accept it doesn't make it not true.
And, once again, GAG proves itself to be the home ground for women who know less about men than any other forum on the planet!
Usually I catch my SO looking at other women, and when I tell him about that he says that he doesn't do it and don't have any reason to do so. He kinda gets angry now if I tell him when he does. He says that I only see that cause I want to see that. I don't know anymore...
I think your concerns are fair and it makes sense why it can be hurtful, especially if you yourself make a point to avoid blantantly checking out other people in front of your partner.
Well, I guess men should apologize for not being able resist thousands of years of evolution which programmed us to constantly be searching for multiple partners. Your expectations of having men completely remove that biological instinct within 2 or 3 generations of society is perfectly reasonable.
There, feel better now that men agree with you?
Again... this is not an anti-men take. It is just an attempt to gather some ideas on how to manage this kind of situation in order to better communication within relationships, and so no one gets gurt. Hope I cleared things up a bit.
communicate*
True I agree that doing something like that while with the SO is is wrong. But then I think to the countless times my SO has told me to my face how so and so actor is so hot or so cute.
I think actors and actresses are different tho, I couldn't give a damn if he said such and such about some actress. But if he said such and such about some woman he met earlier that's really different.
I jus read read the beginning and I'll give a complex explanation. Biologically, men are supposed to spread their genes. This means that men have a high sex drive since their "role" is to fuck as much women as possible. So we are being hard wired to be constantly interested in women. We are also very visual because we see traits in a woman that are supposed to turn on. Traits that showcase fertility and youth in a woman thus maken us very prone to looking at other women.
You're problem is that you can't accept the human condition.
Maybe your desire to be in control all the time is what drives your partners away from you. It's annoying and kind of psycho.
damn son i haven't been out in a while i haven't had the chance to look at women
We are humans and animals. Women do it too.
It seems to me, that you are insecure and that is a turn off.
If women can't understand, that occasionally glancing is no big deal, then those women really don't deserve to be in a relationship.
There is nothing to "communicate about".
You are insecure as fuck and you have to do something about it, because frankly I would literally dump you right about now for how horribly unattractive your insecurities make you sound.
What if he's thinking about the girl he was staring at in the coffee shop while having sex with you?🙈🙈
I dont think many guys can do that.
Do you know how hard it is to do inverse hip thrusts while in the pushup or plank position, while thinking of anything else?
@lord_chilled do you know how easy it is to be laying on your back and thinking about the hottie from work is? 😂😂
Yeah, i can only imagine 😁😅
It is like me driving my WRX STI and would still stare at the GTR as it drove by. That doesn't mean my STI isn't good enough. Same difference.
So you are equating women to inanimate objects.
@candyaurora don't take it personally? lol
@BertMacklinFBI personally? LOL you did just make the comparison!!
Against my gender!
@candyaurora i didn't do shit lady :P
@candyaurora Now, now, chill out lol. my point is merely saying just because you are looking at something (OR SOMEONE... omg...) else, doesn't mean what you have now is inferior. dont be so sensitive now.
@FaithfulGuardian You make a good point
@BertMacklinFBI sorry did not notice the heat 😆. And yeah somehow this topic irks me very much I do tend to get sensitive.. my bad 😯
😂😂😂
@candyaurora it's ok, but I wouldn't advise being such a hot head and jumping to conclusion so fast in real life because that would scare men away very quickly.
Yeah I know good advice 😊😀
My simple solution to this is to secretly record other women when my SO isn't looking. Then, I go to the bathroom and check them out.