This is funny. In the past when you see images for a interracial couple its either black men with white women or Asian women white men. Now the new image is black women with white men as the go to interracial image. You never see American media or society or anyone in the world promoting interracial relationships unless its black/white or non white women/ white men
Those interracial romance movies always suck really bad. Romances usually suck, but man those are awful. Maybe that's why people have a problem dating outside their race, because it's always terrible in the movies.
#natured Thank you so much for that. I did a long time ago and the girl I loved hurt me to a point where i had no tears left. thank you, but i have worked hard for my career and my life.
I'm honestly tired of it. I'm happy without someone :)
I'm sorry that you had to go through that, obviously, it's your choice, and clearly that person did not deserve you. But I'm sure you will meet someday somebody who will treat you amazingly right, I've also been through a dramatic heartbreak and it took me years to recover and to gain trust again. But all I can say is that everything is possible... just don't loose trust completely, because there are women out there who would give everything to love the hell out of you, don't let them wait :P
You are right. Dating someone whose ethnicity is different is not bad. For instance, my cousin married an Anglo Saxon American woman in US and they are very happy now.
Culture and race aren't necessarily the same thing. If you go to a HS you may find that the black and white jocks have more in common with each other than they do with, say, black and white gamers, or skateboarders.
Most people from many races still don't like people dating out side there race usely parents or grand parents me I'm fine with it but that cuz I'm younger than my parents
complex issue, so im not gonna comment, but congrats on passing the exams
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This take is a bit racist and sounds like your advertising interracial relationships as a lifestyle choice or fashionably trend. Kind of like those white women who date black guys so they can show off to their friends as if they were showing off a new handbag. Most folks wouldn't make an issue out of dating a different race instead focusing on the person not the color of their skin.
What is so racist about my MyTake when I am actually just advertising interracial relationship as something NOT WRONG and as something acceptable... what is wrong with you?
And how do you know this? Looks like you know me so well :D this has nothing to do with fashion or trend, did I say it's IN? Why do people like you ADD WORDS in my writings that i didn't even THINK OF USING... let alone USE THEM DIRECTLY... Just don't complain please...
Because you make out that dating someone of another race is extra special rather than just normal as any non interracial relationship. I mean you could have also wrote "dating a person of another race means that if your a white girl you can say you can't be racist because you dated a black guy in college".
Where in the hell are you pulling this extra bull shit out of my writing? Are you serious? Interracial dating has nothing more or less than dating between the same race. But since interracial dating faces MORE HATE than "normal" dating i thought i would gave it some love !!! I never said dating somebody from your own race is BAD or STUPID... Are you seriously trying to debate with me a bout this?
NO AGAIN NO !!! Because of the way you see things, and it's completely wrong... I wish you could understand. It has nothing to do with skin color, NOTHING !!! GET IT !!!
You can't find anything else in my ANTI RACIST MyTake that is triggering your feelings? When my whole point was that if YOU are black and I'm WHITE we could make an amazing couple and learn from one another? WHAT in the hell is wrong? You are BLACK and you should be proud of it !! HONESTLY to me the BLACK race is a winner and it will always be, and i'm WHITE, do you want me to write this to the sky or what? Seriously, if you want to be RIGHT because you just want to be RIGHT ok i let you win. But again, I'm not RACIST, this MY TAKE is not RACIST, and interracial dating is NORMAL...
11 Ways White America Avoids Taking Responsibility for its Racism. 1. Do not give me feedback on my racism under any circumstances. If you break the cardinal rule: 2. Proper tone is crucial – feedback must be given calmly. If there is any emotion in the feedback, the feedback is invalid and does not have to be considered. 3. There must be trust between us. You must trust that I am in no way racist before you can give me feedback on my racism. 4. Our relationship must be issue-free. If there are issues between us, you cannot give me feedback on racism. 5. Feedback must be given immediately. Otherwise it will be discounted because it was not given sooner.
6. You must give feedback privately, regardless of whether the incident occurred in front of other people. To give feedback in front of anyone else—even those involved in the situation—is to commit a serious social transgression. The feedback is thus invalid. You must be as indirect as possible. To be direct is to be insensitive and will invalidate the feedback and require repair. 7. As a white person I must feel completely safe during any discussion of race. Giving me any feedback on my racism will cause me to feel unsafe, so you will need to rebuild my trust by never giving me feedback again. Point of clarification: when I say “safe” what I really mean is “comfortable.” 8. Giving me feedback on my racial privilege invalidates the form of oppression that I experience. (i. e. classism, sexism, heterosexism). We will then need to focus on how you oppressed me. 9. You must focus on my intentions. Which cancel out the impact of my behavior.
10 To suggest my behavior had a racist impact is to have misunderstood me. You will need to allow me to explain until you can acknowledge that it was your misunderstanding.
Why do you feel the need to put another race down? It's fine to have a preference in the sense that you know what you're attracted to, but you don't always need to say it. This MyTake isn't about putting down "normal" relationships.
@existing_not_living how is that putting them down? I didn't say I hate white girls they're pretty too, just not my fave that's all. R u one of those drama queens that always try's to misconstrue what others say as insults?
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This is funny. In the past when you see images for a interracial couple its either black men with white women or Asian women white men. Now the new image is black women with white men as the go to interracial image. You never see American media or society or anyone in the world promoting interracial relationships unless its black/white or non white women/ white men
Those interracial romance movies always suck really bad. Romances usually suck, but man those are awful. Maybe that's why people have a problem dating outside their race, because it's always terrible in the movies.
True enough.
I can't agree with you more! This MyTake is perfect people should date no matter what their race is! (: Perfect MyTake!
You always seem to write perfect mytakes (:
The guys who disliked my opinion have serious mental problems
Good take.
Never understood why people get so hung up on this.
I'm so glad i got out of dating years ago. good riddance. I never want to be with a girl again. No thank you
But you still watch porn, no?
#YourFutureEx Nah. I'm tired of that stuff
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hahaha... so many girls say that. thanks takeowner
You should go out and date though !! JUST GO HAVE FUN MAN WHO CARES !!!
#natured Thank you so much for that. I did a long time ago and the girl I loved hurt me to a point where i had no tears left. thank you, but i have worked hard for my career and my life.
I'm honestly tired of it. I'm happy without someone :)
That's the saddest thing ever! Hugs sweetheart! 🤗
I'm sorry that you had to go through that, obviously, it's your choice, and clearly that person did not deserve you.
But I'm sure you will meet someday somebody who will treat you amazingly right, I've also been through a dramatic heartbreak and it took me years to recover and to gain trust again.
But all I can say is that everything is possible... just don't loose trust completely, because there are women out there who would give everything to love the hell out of you, don't let them wait :P
@natured amen to that!
Congrats on finishing exams. I hope you get all A's.
Nice and interesting mytake.
I have to agree. We are not obligated to not love people just because they are from another culture or race.
In short:
Because we're all human and it doesn't matter.
Good take nonetheless though.
You are right. Dating someone whose ethnicity is different is not bad. For instance, my cousin married an Anglo Saxon American woman in US and they are very happy now.
Culture and race aren't necessarily the same thing. If you go to a HS you may find that the black and white jocks have more in common with each other than they do with, say, black and white gamers, or skateboarders.
for me its whatever the race they are, i just dont und the obsession to date someone who is not the same race as you.
Heeeey how are you people :)!
and it's only the true :) ^^ hahaha just listen your hearts (:
and by the way ( we are the same RACE) we are all humans ;) (;
have great day friends :)
Let's not forget "BABY MAMMAS"
"Black guys will drop you like a hot potato after you tell them your pregnant "
I don't really think so :) but HEY it's your opinion...
Funny as hell, you get a couple racists posting craziness, then they claim they are being victimized.
Hilarious!
LOLx10!!!
Most people from many races still don't like people dating out side there race usely parents or grand parents me I'm fine with it but that cuz I'm younger than my parents
complex issue, so im not gonna comment, but congrats on passing the exams
This take is a bit racist and sounds like your advertising interracial relationships as a lifestyle choice or fashionably trend. Kind of like those white women who date black guys so they can show off to their friends as if they were showing off a new handbag. Most folks wouldn't make an issue out of dating a different race instead focusing on the person not the color of their skin.
A downvote because I'm black.
What is so racist about my MyTake when I am actually just advertising interracial relationship as something NOT WRONG and as something acceptable... what is wrong with you?
Your advertising it as a novelty or fashion trend and virtue signalling about it.
And how do you know this?
Looks like you know me so well :D this has nothing to do with fashion or trend, did I say it's IN?
Why do people like you ADD WORDS in my writings that i didn't even THINK OF USING... let alone USE THEM DIRECTLY...
Just don't complain please...
Because you make out that dating someone of another race is extra special rather than just normal as any non interracial relationship. I mean you could have also wrote "dating a person of another race means that if your a white girl you can say you can't be racist because you dated a black guy in college".
Where in the hell are you pulling this extra bull shit out of my writing?
Are you serious?
Interracial dating has nothing more or less than dating between the same race.
But since interracial dating faces MORE HATE than "normal" dating i thought i would gave it some love !!! I never said dating somebody from your own race is BAD or STUPID...
Are you seriously trying to debate with me a bout this?
Just stop trivializing it and FYI us black guys are not a fashion accessorie we are real human beings.
You have serious problems ...
Because I'm black?
NO AGAIN NO !!! Because of the way you see things, and it's completely wrong...
I wish you could understand.
It has nothing to do with skin color, NOTHING !!!
GET IT !!!
Black men are not there to make white girls feel better about white privledge and slavery
WHO IN THE HECK SAID THAT? Who is DOING THAT?
AND WHAT DOES IT HAVE TO DO WITH MY INNOCENT MYTAKE?
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Black men are not dancing monkeys or there to skool privledged white women how to hood we are people.
You can't find anything else in my ANTI RACIST MyTake that is triggering your feelings?
When my whole point was that if YOU are black and I'm WHITE we could make an amazing couple and learn from one another?
WHAT in the hell is wrong?
You are BLACK and you should be proud of it !! HONESTLY to me the BLACK race is a winner and it will always be, and i'm WHITE, do you want me to write this to the sky or what?
Seriously, if you want to be RIGHT because you just want to be RIGHT ok i let you win.
But again, I'm not RACIST, this MY TAKE is not RACIST, and interracial dating is NORMAL...
11 Ways White America Avoids Taking Responsibility for its Racism.
1. Do not give me feedback on my racism under any circumstances. If you break the cardinal rule:
2. Proper tone is crucial – feedback must be given calmly. If there is any emotion in the feedback, the feedback is invalid and does not have to be considered.
3. There must be trust between us. You must trust that I am in no way racist before you can give me feedback on my racism.
4. Our relationship must be issue-free. If there are issues between us, you cannot give me feedback on racism.
5. Feedback must be given immediately. Otherwise it will be discounted because it was not given sooner.
6. You must give feedback privately, regardless of whether the incident occurred in front of other people. To give feedback in front of anyone else—even those involved in the situation—is to commit a serious social transgression. The feedback is thus invalid.
You must be as indirect as possible. To be direct is to be insensitive and will invalidate the feedback and require repair.
7. As a white person I must feel completely safe during any discussion of race. Giving me any feedback on my racism will cause me to feel unsafe, so you will need to rebuild my trust by never giving me feedback again. Point of clarification: when I say “safe” what I really mean is “comfortable.”
8. Giving me feedback on my racial privilege invalidates the form of oppression that I experience. (i. e. classism, sexism, heterosexism). We will then need to focus on how you oppressed me.
9. You must focus on my intentions. Which cancel out the impact of my behavior.
Great ;)
Have a nice day
P. s. I'm not American
10 To suggest my behavior had a racist impact is to have misunderstood me. You will need to allow me to explain until you can acknowledge that it was your misunderstanding.
Again,
have a nice day
Again educate yourself. Ignorance is no excuse for rascism.
I agree with the this opinion owner.
amen, white girls are my least favorite tbh :P If i had to marry a girl she'd def be another race
Why do you feel the need to put another race down? It's fine to have a preference in the sense that you know what you're attracted to, but you don't always need to say it. This MyTake isn't about putting down "normal" relationships.
@existing_not_living how is that putting them down? I didn't say I hate white girls they're pretty too, just not my fave that's all. R u one of those drama queens that always try's to misconstrue what others say as insults?
One of your best commentator is back too. Good job but I'd rather stick to Indian women. It's my tradition.
if you dont know what you're doing dont mix random colours in your father's painting room. You'll get yourself in trouble.