It is best that if you love a person, you allow the person enjoy personal space so he can find expression and not feel suffocated but then, from the moment you decide to enter into a relationship, you lose full right to ‘personal space’.
Too many guys complain that their girlfriends are nosy. They always want to know where they are, what they are doing and with whom. However, except in cases where it gets out of hand, it is actually her right to know. You decided to date her so you should know that that also means you have ceded a part of yourself to her, promising to be somewhat accountable to her. It is just the way it works and just as she has a right to know what you are up to most of the time, so do you also have the same right.
Thus, ladies, his business is your business. We tend to shy away from asking about stuff because we are scared that he may think we are being busy bodies but how else would we express our concern?
At times, we see our men in sour moods and you know what some of us do? We look the other way, saying, “He will talk when he is ready. I don’t want to pry.” My dear, you received the right to pry when you became his girlfriend. If he does not understand that yet, make him.
Do you know that sometimes, when he is going through a rough patch, he may say he does not want to talk about it but even he is unaware that deep down, he needs you to insist?
Make his business your business and it will assure him that he is not alone, no matter the problems confronting him.
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Very true. There is a fine like between being possessive and controlling and being concerned, caring and having somebodys back. I think if you have the balance right it is perfect.
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