Expectations VS Reality: For better or for worse

GamingDragomachina
Expectations VS Reality: For better or for worse

So, i'm a straight male. Just like anyone else, i have a specific "type" that i am naturally attracted to.

Some of you, may know of the female i have in my life currently. I met her online, and i only knew what she told me. Everything else she said nothing on, was left to my imagination. I viewed this girl's personality as "perfect" for me, and so my imagining of what she looked like followed what i viewed as my "type".

My type, because anime, is white girls with larger chests. That's just what i'm more attracted to.

So, when i imagined my girlfriend... i assumed she fit both the anime-esque images she used for her ocs and my own type to fabricate this dream girl.

But, she isn't white. She's black.

Now, i know quite a few people in my real life who would react to this situation by running away.

However, this is a girl that has always been there. Through all my mess ups, sad moments, and sucky nerdy life.. she has been there. She has been the best girlfriend i could ask for. So, this lead me to a decision.

Leave the best relationship i have to find a girl that fits my "type"

or

Stay in the best relationship i have ever had and be happy

Let's just say, it wasn't hard to make the choice.

Let this be a lesson to all of you daters out there: Don't be afraid of girls who aren't your "Type". What matters is who they are as a person, not the DNA features they display.

That's all for this post. See you all, next time.

have a splendid day.

Expectations VS Reality: For better or for worse
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