Many people wonder how can you keep a relationship . I mean like me . All I saw was bad shit from my step dad cheating , and lying to my mom assaulting him and lying to him and much more . So yeah I saw and heard a lot of crap that no preteen has to hear .
Here is my idea how to keep a relationship and a love one :
communication:
u need to communicate with your partner. About anything and everything . Dont hide anything at all . U shouldn't be afraid to hide anything as well . Be completely open . Even if it is hard . If u can't physically talk .. write a letter , note , email , or a text. Explain how u feel . And etc .. communication should never die . If it does die then that is not good . When communicating dont yell or scream, but talk calmly yes it can be hard but if u raise ur voice it can lead to miscommunication and it can lead to fights and arguments .
trust :
trust is a big one . Because if u can't trust then u can't have a relationship. And if u can't trust then u can't love your. Love one. Yes I know trust is a hard one as well because it takes time trust is build up not earned . Once trust is broken it is hard time to build it back up . When you trust your partner then your trusting him or her with your life and everything else .
listening :
often times we dont want to listen what our love one is telling us . Or we do want to listen fully or we just want go listen half way and then stop . But listening comes with communication. When you listen and really listen u will show your partner that u do care about what he or she is saying . Listen fully what he or she is saying . Pay fully attention even if ur multitasking ( if ur multitasking let ur love one know that ur listening but dont let ur mind wonder off) .
respect:
respect ... u will realize that your partner is a whole person and not just what u want . You accept your love one just the way he or she is and even if the opinions are different . So here are some ways to respect your love one : apologize .. even if it just a little apology but truly ,mean it . , give him or her space ,trust, forgive , and etc . Your love one will definitely see if u respect him or her .
forgive :
forgive ... if your love one did so,nothing wrong weather it is a little thing as misplacing something or a big thing as a huge argument or a fight . Forgive. When you forgive your love one will know that you are truly sorry and you didn't mean to and you will try your best that it won't happen again .
honesty :
you need to be honest 100 percent no matter what . Why lie? Even if it just a little lie . It hurts your love one . If u truly love your love one you would be honest no matter what .. u wouldn't lie nor keep secrets either . U will always be be open and faithful .
makinglove :
well I probably not really have anything to say about that.. all I can say about it is : have fun lol and dont cheat on your love one either .
This is all I got for now I will be making a part 2 .
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Thats the basis there. You saw what not to do. Go out and make you and the world better. Enjoy