Number 7 is what all women need to remember. Modern Feminism frowns upon women and girls who embrace their femininity. Doing that is not doing any favors for women.
The same can be said for men. The concept of "toxic masculinity" is such bullshit. Little boys are being stripped of their masculinity.
Cooking is not something women have to do though. Some women don't like cooking, which is completely fine, and she just needs to find a man who likes cooking so he can do it for her
Well, well, this makes a whole lot of sense. Too bad a lot of women these days have a problem with it, especially no. 7! How many women would be happier with the men in their lives if they heeded no. 7!
Sometimes it doesn't depend on you. Simply put the other person doesn't have the right predisposition for having a relationship.
For example I dated a girl that just wanted to be with as many guys as possible. That is her choice, and not something I would change by being nicer to her.
So just search a person with the right predisposition upfront. Then it will be simple.
Let's just hope that a girl who is willing to put up an effort from her side doesn't end up with a scumbag lol. There are girls who do all of that and still end up getting messed up by their retarded boyfriends.
Yay, you got it :D I for one don't recognize the words femininity and masculinity but other than that, you are spot on! :D
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I'll just add that you remain his "girlfriend." Meet him at the door dressed to the nines or in sexually suggestive clothes occasionally. Give him a surprise BJ now and then (my girl does when I'm trying to watch sports, ha). Many posts use the word bitch. The positive way of saying don't be a bitch is to just remain respectful.
please ladies especially take #2 seriously. i want to hear your feelings and concerns but you should ask me before you give advice and you should offer solutions not just point out problems
the way you keep a man is not only to keep him satisfied sexually but you also got to satisfy his mind but the main way to satisfy a guy the way to his heart is through his stomach
Yeah except women are still legal liabilities that will fuck you over on a whim either falsely accusing you of rape or sexual assault or divorcing you arbitrarily and taking half your shit and kids who she will manipulate to hate you.
The fact that this take exists shows how little women actually care about us and how little they respect us. Women are not worth the effort or time.
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You can't keep a man that doesn't want to be kept. Simple as that. If he's not putting in any effort then he's not looking to settle down. Dont waste time trying to keep someone but use that time to find someone that'll love you regardless of these things. A good relationship involves two people growing together.
If you find one that you like for something other than his dick, then you won't be able to replace him within a week or a lifetime. Same things with us when we find that girl that we want for more than sex.
Thanks I guess. Apparently common sense isn't that common and people would rather put in tons of effort pretending to be decent rather than actually being decent.
that's not too bad for a start. You forgot that we have feelings LOL and also the most important thing communication. Now if I could only find a woman like that 🤣🤣🤣
Unfortunately honey, you are completely clueless. But here you are spouting off like you know something. Absolutely incredible. My best guess is that you only know how to project - cuz you don't have a clue about men.
@hahahmm - Of course. Cuz they just don't know. But here they are, purporting to have it all figured out, and making all manner of bogus claims and statements.
Feminism claims to want men to be just like women. Some guys buy into it, and then find out the women loathe him for it. Guys need to understand that women don't really know what they want - they simply verbalize their FEELINGS. Afterall, that's what their brain runs on, and those feelings are likely to change at any given moment - just ask them! They'll tell you it is their god-given right.
So a real man has to know better, has to be THE REAL MAN, and provide for his woman what she needs and protect her. You don't go all in buying into all those feelings. It is ALWAYS about the FEELZ.
And IF he does, she is just as likely to shut down sexually - the most scary thing to any man is the simple fact that she can actually do this, or they cheat or bail, or any combination. Any which way, HE LOSES. And she things he's a weak-suck beta-cuck.
Same for crying. Women will say they want to see their man in weakness. Dear god, she immediately loses respect. The LAST THING any woman wants is her man breaking down into tears every time she does. No, she's looking for him to be HER lighthouse in her stormy seas of feelings and emotions.
@hahahmm - Yes, it's why I'm here. If we can save just a few of them from themselves we've done our job. Rollo Tomassi does a good job explaining things in his blog. And there are other good resources for men to learn about women, and men, and why they do what they do. www.therationalmale.com
The problem is that young men refuse to accept the truth, they're still under the influence of their mom, grandmother, dad, sisters, even a new girlfriend. Everything they've seen and heard is a lie. It generally takes some bimbo ripping his heart out and stomping on it before they come to their senses. Or they get married, she gets bored, fucks around, files for divorce, he loses half his shit, and then sits their crying in his beer saying 'I thought I did everything right. I gave her everything she wanted.' No you didn't son, you cow-towed and caved, and she lost respect.
And these poor wrecks of guys don't generally find their way here, it is after all, GIRLS ASK GUYS. :)
I would only take serious advice fron someone like you not a clueless young 19 year old who thinks she knows everything in life when the reality she doesn't.
By saying keeping his stomach full you were saying if tge food has to be cooked then she is the one to cook it. If it is to ve delivered, picked up or ate at the restaurant she has to pay for it. She would have to go pick up the food or take you out tobthe restaurant on top of paying for it for her to keep your stomach full. That's hiw it would have to be.
@joeldalton Looks like you can not handle when a man comes at you with real talk. With thst said calling me a white knight simp makes me laugh. All I did was kept it real and it did not go along with your chauvinistic point of view so for that you felt the need to call me what you did. Just so you know I am in a very happy, loving, caring, supportive etc relationship. If you keep on being immature and treating women like a slave and see how long a strong intelligent woman sticks around which won't be long. The only ones who would stay with you are those who are so desperate to be with someone that they do not care how they are treated. It's either that or you will end up bouncing around from person to person and end throwing them out to the curb like trash to be picked up after you feel like the honeymoon phase is starting to fade away.
@joeldalton You keep telling yourself that when you think they are only good for sex and cooking or anything else that mainly benefits your selfish needs.
@joeldalton It is selfish expecting the woman to do all the cooking or buying a the food. It is sfish to expect her to help you sexually whenever you want it. In other words you are saying it's her job to feed you when you are hungry not yours. You make it seem as if she doesn't feed you or help you release sex tention you can't be happy.
@MysteriousDarkness the op asked how to make a man happy, dolt. I told her how to keep a man happy. If there’s a question on how to keep a woman happy the answer would be different. You should really take a minute to reflect on how you got so butthurt over advice that boils down to ‘do things to make the other person in the relationship happy’.
@joeldalton Now you wanto believe that I am butthurt. Thats funny. Keep his belly full and valks empty means she (not you) would have to feed you whenever you are hungry and she (not you) would have to make sure you get your sexual tension released. What I mean is for you to be happy she has to be helping you instead of you masterbating when she is not around, is around foing something else or is just watching you. Sad that you can not be happy if you have to make the food or buy the good. Sad that you can never be happy if dhe doesn't sexually satisfy you every single time you want her to. You might as well not reply because whether you admit to it or not we both know I am right.
You still thinking I am butthurt nakes me laugh. You should just stop because you are not on my level since I am smarter and more of a man in one quark than you ever will be in your entire existence.
@MysteriousDarkness ooh you used a science word. I’m really in awe of your knowledge. And much like a quark, your manhood hasn’t been actually observed.
Funny that you thought that was going to hurt me but you failed. You just need to quit because everytime you respond you make yourself a bigger idiotic failure. Thats not a surprise since you are a chromosome deficient test tube experiment gone wrong.
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Number 7 is what all women need to remember. Modern Feminism frowns upon women and girls who embrace their femininity. Doing that is not doing any favors for women.
The same can be said for men. The concept of "toxic masculinity" is such bullshit. Little boys are being stripped of their masculinity.
Cooking is not something women have to do though. Some women don't like cooking, which is completely fine, and she just needs to find a man who likes cooking so he can do it for her
@elisa_0 No point trying to logic with someone who thinks Toxic Masculinity don't exist lol
@Kaneki05 I guess you are right
@Kaneki05 I guess your mind is warped. I'm sure you believe the myth of white privilege too. Please grow a pair.
Elisa you are correct. What real man is incapable of cooking for his wife or girlfriend?
Feminism wants men to be women and women to be gorillas
Yep No doubt
So if a woman doesn’t cook she’s a gorilla. Damn. Makes pErFeCT sense.
I'll sum it up in one sentence, here I go: Don't be a bitch. There, done
Well, well, this makes a whole lot of sense. Too bad a lot of women these days have a problem with it, especially no. 7! How many women would be happier with the men in their lives if they heeded no. 7!
Sometimes it doesn't depend on you. Simply put the other person doesn't have the right predisposition for having a relationship.
For example I dated a girl that just wanted to be with as many guys as possible. That is her choice, and not something I would change by being nicer to her.
So just search a person with the right predisposition upfront. Then it will be simple.
Beautifully written!
Let's just hope that a girl who is willing to put up an effort from her side doesn't end up with a scumbag lol. There are girls who do all of that and still end up getting messed up by their retarded boyfriends.
😂😂 That's it, I'm a boy for sure that likes her looking good. Well I'd probably do my part in dressing her up the way I like it too.
I love how most of this can be summed up with the phrase "minimize the amount of time you spend being unpleasant to be around."
Yay, you got it :D
I for one don't recognize the words femininity and masculinity but other than that, you are spot on! :D
I'll just add that you remain his "girlfriend." Meet him at the door dressed to the nines or in sexually suggestive clothes occasionally. Give him a surprise BJ now and then (my girl does when I'm trying to watch sports, ha). Many posts use the word bitch. The positive way of saying don't be a bitch is to just remain respectful.
Meanwhile guys can’t even give a woman a simple orgasm or a nice tongue lashing and your asking for all that? Bitch fuck you😂😂😂😂
please ladies especially take #2 seriously. i want to hear your feelings and concerns but you should ask me before you give advice and you should offer solutions not just point out problems
the way you keep a man is not only to keep him satisfied sexually but you also got to satisfy his mind but the main way to satisfy a guy the way to his heart is through his stomach
Yeah except women are still legal liabilities that will fuck you over on a whim either falsely accusing you of rape or sexual assault or divorcing you arbitrarily and taking half your shit and kids who she will manipulate to hate you.
The fact that this take exists shows how little women actually care about us and how little they respect us. Women are not worth the effort or time.
You can't keep a man that doesn't want to be kept. Simple as that. If he's not putting in any effort then he's not looking to settle down. Dont waste time trying to keep someone but use that time to find someone that'll love you regardless of these things. A good relationship involves two people growing together.
Yup that’s pretty solid and I feel that advice at least some of it is universal as well for both sexes.
Dick is nothing and too readily available to hope jump for an idiot man. Why fight to keep something you can replace within a week!
If you find one that you like for something other than his dick, then you won't be able to replace him within a week or a lifetime.
Same things with us when we find that girl that we want for more than sex.
Didn't read the whole things but maybe the trick is
Don't 'strategize'
Be an actual good human, there saved you hundreds of words... Probably...
Agreed nice opinion
@sensible27
That’s a nice thing to say
Thanks I guess. Apparently common sense isn't that common and people would rather put in tons of effort pretending to be decent rather than actually being decent.
@robotgirl27 if it isn't too intrusive to ask, why's your name that?
that's not too bad for a start. You forgot that we have feelings LOL and also the most important thing communication. Now if I could only find a woman like that 🤣🤣🤣
Unfortunately honey, you are completely clueless. But here you are spouting off like you know something. Absolutely incredible.
My best guess is that you only know how to project - cuz you don't have a clue about men.
All the soy boys & desperate white knights negged you
@hahahmm - Of course. Cuz they just don't know. But here they are, purporting to have it all figured out, and making all manner of bogus claims and statements.
Feminism claims to want men to be just like women. Some guys buy into it, and then find out the women loathe him for it. Guys need to understand that women don't really know what they want - they simply verbalize their FEELINGS. Afterall, that's what their brain runs on, and those feelings are likely to change at any given moment - just ask them! They'll tell you it is their god-given right.
So a real man has to know better, has to be THE REAL MAN, and provide for his woman what she needs and protect her. You don't go all in buying into all those feelings. It is ALWAYS about the FEELZ.
And IF he does, she is just as likely to shut down sexually - the most scary thing to any man is the simple fact that she can actually do this, or they cheat or bail, or any combination. Any which way, HE LOSES. And she things he's a weak-suck beta-cuck.
Same for crying. Women will say they want to see their man in weakness. Dear god, she immediately loses respect. The LAST THING any woman wants is her man breaking down into tears every time she does. No, she's looking for him to be HER lighthouse in her stormy seas of feelings and emotions.
100% true. I hope you put your knowledge out there elsewhere online or in a book. Guys like us need to spread the message.
@hahahmm - Yes, it's why I'm here. If we can save just a few of them from themselves we've done our job.
Rollo Tomassi does a good job explaining things in his blog. And there are other good resources for men to learn about women, and men, and why they do what they do. www.therationalmale.com
The problem is that young men refuse to accept the truth, they're still under the influence of their mom, grandmother, dad, sisters, even a new girlfriend. Everything they've seen and heard is a lie. It generally takes some bimbo ripping his heart out and stomping on it before they come to their senses. Or they get married, she gets bored, fucks around, files for divorce, he loses half his shit, and then sits their crying in his beer saying 'I thought I did everything right. I gave her everything she wanted.' No you didn't son, you cow-towed and caved, and she lost respect.
And these poor wrecks of guys don't generally find their way here, it is after all, GIRLS ASK GUYS. :)
This is true. Fuck keeping anyone. We have to be solid within ourselves. You can do everything Right & people will still leave.
@Clayaya - Or cheat. There are no guarantees in life - only death and taxes. :)
EXACTLY
I would only take serious advice fron someone like you not a clueless young 19 year old who thinks she knows everything in life when the reality she doesn't.
@Alwayreckles93 - Thank you. You're wise beyond your years. :)
That was a lot of words. An easier piece of advice is “keep his stomach full and his balls empty”
@joeldalton
You want her to do all the cooking or pay for the food if from a restaurant. You want her to fulfill your sexual needs whenever you want.
@MysteriousDarkness perfect.
@joeldalton
Why can't you ever do the cooking or paying for the neal from a restaurant be it pick up, delivery or at the restaurant?
@MysteriousDarkness Who says I couldn’t. She’s asking how to keep a man, and I’m telling women how.
By saying keeping his stomach full you were saying if tge food has to be cooked then she is the one to cook it. If it is to ve delivered, picked up or ate at the restaurant she has to pay for it. She would have to go pick up the food or take you out tobthe restaurant on top of paying for it for her to keep your stomach full. That's hiw it would have to be.
@MysteriousDarkness so what is your point?
@joeldalton
Seems like you only think of yourself.
@MysteriousDarkness dipshit, the topic is how to keep a man happy. Quit being such a white knight simp.
@joeldalton
Looks like you can not handle when a man comes at you with real talk. With thst said calling me a white knight simp makes me laugh. All I did was kept it real and it did not go along with your chauvinistic point of view so for that you felt the need to call me what you did. Just so you know I am in a very happy, loving, caring, supportive etc relationship. If you keep on being immature and treating women like a slave and see how long a strong intelligent woman sticks around which won't be long. The only ones who would stay with you are those who are so desperate to be with someone that they do not care how they are treated. It's either that or you will end up bouncing around from person to person and end throwing them out to the curb like trash to be picked up after you feel like the honeymoon phase is starting to fade away.
@MysteriousDarkness yeah, I’ve had no problem keeping women around. Nice try, though.
@joeldalton
You keep telling yourself that when you think they are only good for sex and cooking or anything else that mainly benefits your selfish needs.
@MysteriousDarkness you’re projecting, dummy.
@joeldalton
Since you believe that I am projecting then please tell me what it is you think I am projecting.
@MysteriousDarkness you calling me selfish. How stupid can you get?
@joeldalton
It is selfish expecting the woman to do all the cooking or buying a the food. It is sfish to expect her to help you sexually whenever you want it. In other words you are saying it's her job to feed you when you are hungry not yours. You make it seem as if she doesn't feed you or help you release sex tention you can't be happy.
@MysteriousDarkness the op asked how to make a man happy, dolt. I told her how to keep a man happy. If there’s a question on how to keep a woman happy the answer would be different. You should really take a minute to reflect on how you got so butthurt over advice that boils down to ‘do things to make the other person in the relationship happy’.
@joeldalton
Now you wanto believe that I am butthurt. Thats funny. Keep his belly full and valks empty means she (not you) would have to feed you whenever you are hungry and she (not you) would have to make sure you get your sexual tension released. What I mean is for you to be happy she has to be helping you instead of you masterbating when she is not around, is around foing something else or is just watching you. Sad that you can not be happy if you have to make the food or buy the good. Sad that you can never be happy if dhe doesn't sexually satisfy you every single time you want her to. You might as well not reply because whether you admit to it or not we both know I am right.
@MysteriousDarkness I can tell you’re butthurt because you won’t shut the fuck up about it.
You still thinking I am butthurt nakes me laugh. You should just stop because you are not on my level since I am smarter and more of a man in one quark than you ever will be in your entire existence.
@MysteriousDarkness ooh you used a science word. I’m really in awe of your knowledge. And much like a quark, your manhood hasn’t been actually observed.
Funny that you thought that was going to hurt me but you failed. You just need to quit because everytime you respond you make yourself a bigger idiotic failure. Thats not a surprise since you are a chromosome deficient test tube experiment gone wrong.
@MysteriousDarkness now you’re using the big words. Where exactly on the autism spectrum are you?
@joeldalton
Now you think I am autistic. Hahahaha. Wonder what next you will think I am. 🤔💭
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