Disclaimer: These are my thoughts, views and beliefs about why there's so many issues with relationships whether it be between couples, gender, or race related... You don't have to see it my way, you can disagree, but please remember we're meant to be adults, so keep it respectful, Thanks 😘...
I'm human, so I get it. I get it's easier to place the blame on others, than to think it's something you did/or are doing wrong... But easier doesn't always mean the better way. By blaming others, you'll never get to the real problem, the real truth, the real solution....
I've seen so much blame being thrown about on this site. About why people cheat, about why men/women treat each other so disrespectfully. The blaming others itself is bad, but when it's done with such hypocrisy it just makes it all that much worse.
Maybe before people try to point fingers, they should remember a few things:
*Don't hold people to standards you yourself don't keep....
I've seen people blame the person being cheated on/divorced for picking the wrong person or liking the bad boys/bad girls UNTIL/UNLESS it happens to them...So which is it? Either we're all capable of being fooled, or we're all to blame for our choices, not just one gender or the other...
*Practice what you preach...
Don't expect people to respect you just for being a man or a woman. Earn that respect by being a decent, respectful person. Don't say people judge you unfairly and then turn around and do the same to someone else.
Don't use being hurt, used, mistreated as an excuse to hurt, use, mistreat others, use it as a reason why you wouldn't treat someone else as horribly as you yourself were because you should remember how you felt when someone did that to you. It shouldn't be a justification to do it to others. Why punish an innocent person for what someone else put you through?
And lastly,....
*Take the blinders off...
People, stop trying to fit everything in just one category or another and realize people come in all different sizes, shapes, and colors. And what might not be "your thing" doesn't have to mean "wrong" just "wrong for you".
Open your eyes, ears and hearts to the differences in others. Let others decide what/who they want to be in life. Worry more about what you yourself want in your life and remember, we all have differences we all have flaws. Don't reject or shame others for theirs but expect people to accept all yours.
In a world riddled with chaos,a little compassion for our fellow mankind..
Peace ✌🏻 and love ❤️
"Brainsbeforebeauty"😘🤗
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