It depends, I've done a lot of sexual things when I was younger but I've long sense settled down and I don't do hookups I want something serious. I regret what I did when I was younger but I was struggling with some things. If my partner has a higher body count for a similar reason I understand but If they have a high body count because they still like to sleep around its a problem because I have matured a lot.
I wonder if guys who say women don't like sex as much realize that in order for a man to have a high sex count, that many women need to have slept with him 🤔
I like it when my SO has been with at least a few other people, and I've been more than fine with it when it's been a lot. If I was lied to about it, that I would have problems with.
The hang ups and insecurities that usually come with sexual inexperience is tedious. It's not 1950 and I'm not so insecure that I need some chaste partner to sooth my ego. I enjoy sex, why would I want to be with someone who doesn't?
There is a massive double standard , no doubt about it. But yeah , it matters , and it matters a lot , like it or not , if you have a female partner and you ask the question and she comes back quickly with " 155 , you were my 155 th " , lets me honest , no one is going to think anything other than " man , Im outta here , full stop " , hence women will often delate the number , whereas men tend to inflate. But , yeah , it certainly makes a MASSIVE difference.
I get I'm late to the party on this one but to me. a persons sexual history matters to some degree. because regardless of if they think about it regularly or not. it can still effects how might handle future encounters.
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I've lost count how many times i've talked to different girls in the last 15 years and admitted I am a virgin. Girl usually says, aww, I respect that, not a lot of guys are they just want sex like a fuck boy would. But seems to me like the same girls who say chase the guys who are bad boys dealing with multiple girls on the side. I don't get life man.
I've only slept with one person before and would want my prospective girlfriends to also have a low body count just so we can have raw intercourse without worry as much
It absolutely does not matter at all and should not no matter what
i am not so sure how many exactly i have had but for sure i have had around 1700 or so sexual partners and thankfully people around me who matter are ok with it
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At the end of the day people are very , very picky when it comes to dating & marriage and there are things some people just can't overlook. Sexual history is one of many things that are stumbling blocks when it comes to relationships. But you like what you like.
One's number of partners is none of anyone else's buisness. Obviously, disclose if you have an STD/STI, but that still doesn't have anything to do with the amount of partners
They are both history in the past though, sounds the same.
How can you say some history is unimportant but the other is, isn't all of it important as all of it relates to who you or they are.
Seems some people pick and choose what is important and what is not.
Which is kind of the point of the mytake, it only matters if it matters to the people involved and if they are on the same page as to what matters, there won't be an issue.
It’s not really a double standard. You can’t apply the same rule when Women have all the power in relationships or hookups when it comes to sex. Most Women can have sex whenever they want, but most Men can’t. Women like Men who have had a good amount of sexual partners because it means they are experienced and they have qualities that other Women like.
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Double standards exist for both men and women. Look, I want a virgin simple. You have to understand it’s much harder for a guy to find sex which is why he’s seen as a respectable man if he has multiple partners. It’s different. Ugly sex find sex easier than attractive men. How’s that for fair?
No, it does not, and the topic shouldn’t even be brought up, as it’s predictive of absolutely nothing whatsoever. Much less is it something that you can expect either person to be honest about. An STI test should be more than enough to alleviate any valid concerns in that area.
Nice Mytake, never feel down by your whats done is done you can't change it, what matters to me is girl is loyal and honest and doesn't have feelings for any of her ex's
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It depends, I've done a lot of sexual things when I was younger but I've long sense settled down and I don't do hookups I want something serious. I regret what I did when I was younger but I was struggling with some things. If my partner has a higher body count for a similar reason I understand but If they have a high body count because they still like to sleep around its a problem because I have matured a lot.
Women: "We want to be loved, cherished, respected, and treated like a princess every day."
Guys: "Whatever you want my love."
Guys: "We prefer women with low body counts"
Women: "We don't give a flying toss in hell what you want you disgusting pigs."
I wonder if guys who say women don't like sex as much realize that in order for a man to have a high sex count, that many women need to have slept with him 🤔
Women like sex as much as them, what not with ‘’him’’
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I like it when my SO has been with at least a few other people, and I've been more than fine with it when it's been a lot. If I was lied to about it, that I would have problems with.
The hang ups and insecurities that usually come with sexual inexperience is tedious. It's not 1950 and I'm not so insecure that I need some chaste partner to sooth my ego. I enjoy sex, why would I want to be with someone who doesn't?
There is a massive double standard , no doubt about it. But yeah , it matters , and it matters a lot , like it or not , if you have a female partner and you ask the question and she comes back quickly with " 155 , you were my 155 th " , lets me honest , no one is going to think anything other than " man , Im outta here , full stop " , hence women will often delate the number , whereas men tend to inflate.
But , yeah , it certainly makes a MASSIVE difference.
I get I'm late to the party on this one but to me. a persons sexual history matters to some degree. because regardless of if they think about it regularly or not. it can still effects how might handle future encounters.
I've lost count how many times i've talked to different girls in the last 15 years and admitted I am a virgin. Girl usually says, aww, I respect that, not a lot of guys are they just want sex like a fuck boy would. But seems to me like the same girls who say chase the guys who are bad boys dealing with multiple girls on the side. I don't get life man.
Number of bodies isn't as important as why the number is what it is.
I've only slept with one person before and would want my prospective girlfriends to also have a low body count just so we can have raw intercourse without worry as much
i dont judge so it doesn't matter to me, one or one hundred but its good to share past life experience when getting to know each other
It absolutely does not matter at all and should not no matter what
i am not so sure how many exactly i have had but for sure i have had around 1700 or so sexual partners and thankfully people around me who matter are ok with it
At the end of the day people are very , very picky when it comes to dating & marriage and there are things some people just can't overlook. Sexual history is one of many things that are stumbling blocks when it comes to relationships. But you like what you like.
One's number of partners is none of anyone else's buisness. Obviously, disclose if you have an STD/STI, but that still doesn't have anything to do with the amount of partners
You don't think history matters then? That life starts once the relationship starts with you and anything before that doesn't matter?
Would this include if he had a criminal history that he said was none of your business? or does that matter... it is all in the past after all.
criminal histroy and number of past parteners aren't the same thing.
They are both history in the past though, sounds the same.
How can you say some history is unimportant but the other is, isn't all of it important as all of it relates to who you or they are.
Seems some people pick and choose what is important and what is not.
Which is kind of the point of the mytake, it only matters if it matters to the people involved and if they are on the same page as to what matters, there won't be an issue.
It shouldn’t matter as long as you are being safe and protecting your self against STD and pregnancy.
It’s not really a double standard. You can’t apply the same rule when Women have all the power in relationships or hookups when it comes to sex. Most Women can have sex whenever they want, but most Men can’t. Women like Men who have had a good amount of sexual partners because it means they are experienced and they have qualities that other Women like.
Double standards exist for both men and women. Look, I want a virgin simple. You have to understand it’s much harder for a guy to find sex which is why he’s seen as a respectable man if he has multiple partners. It’s different. Ugly sex find sex easier than attractive men. How’s that for fair?
It doesn't matter at all. Have sex with as many or as few people as you like and/or can score.
Yes, if you add one or two more girls, it adds to the pleasure. If you've ever had six boobies in your face at one time, then you'll know what I mean.
No, it does not, and the topic shouldn’t even be brought up, as it’s predictive of absolutely nothing whatsoever. Much less is it something that you can expect either person to be honest about. An STI test should be more than enough to alleviate any valid concerns in that area.
Nice Mytake, never feel down by your whats done is done you can't change it, what matters to me is girl is loyal and honest and doesn't have feelings for any of her ex's
How can you be confident a girl will be loyal to you if she has given herself away to so many guys?
Women literally are imprinted in their minds and physically by the men they have been with.