Just some one to listen to me and help me with life. some one that nice to look at and have sex with. Some one to yell at me a few time. Someone that get me and is not try to use me. someone that like the some of the things as I like.
Yeah, I think it the most basic things men want... yes, we could list out 100 of things... but if you as a woman are only doing these 5 things and you are extremely mindful of it... then you are doing 20 x better then 95% of women.
Good Mytake, nice to see a mytake detailing what men want in a relationship.
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My ex could. He was so big that while he was doing another girl from behind I was able to postion myself so that as he thrust into to the other girl, the length of his penis was rubbing my clit.
I don't either, but I am 46 so you would probably think I am a creepy old man. I never exactly wanted kids myself, but at the same time it just something I always assumed I would do.
So yeah, my wife wanted kids, so we had kids. But at 20 when I fell in love with her if she would of never wanted kids... then I think I would have been fine with that. But its hard to say... at 20 I would have never said never... so by 34 or so I might have regretted it.
But honestly my most sincere answer would be for me personally... at 20 something if I would of fell in love with a woman that never wanted kids, I think I would have been good with that choice.
I will say this though. I dated a 42 year old that never wanted kids, and she never had them. Which honestly I had no problem with. But she also said she was never married, but found out she was technically married twice, but she did not count them as marriages. And it became very apparent in sort order why she never had kids and why she was single at 42.
If you're not BPD or victim of childhood trauma... then its probably fine. In my case the only two women I met that were anit-kids at 40... were both victims of childhood trauma. And unfortunately this also resulted in them having some BPD issue. Which they both were keenly aware of and honestly not having kids was probably the best choice for them. They just knew they were not mother material.
At the same time though, due to there mental health issues... they had a lot of trouble history in dating. And even they were both in therapy their issues eventually made them undatable. They were very self centered, and self indulgent... everything was always about them. Which will never work with having kids... because everything is always about the kids. And in dating at some piont in the relationship things have to be about the other person and just yourself from time to time. Its not about getting your way, its about compromise and working together.
But if this is not who you are then I say definitely don't have kids. I must admit that the two relationships I had with women without kids. were most amazing time of my life for about 3 months... at that point they it became too difficult for them to manage their BPD issues. they both amazing woman... lots of fun, but undatable and not marriage material. Which was super sad to me, I really think it could of been amazing.
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Just some one to listen to me and help me with life. some one that nice to look at and have sex with. Some one to yell at me a few time. Someone that get me and is not try to use me. someone that like the some of the things as I like.
There are billions of men and they want different things, but the above list is probably fairly common
Yeah, I think it the most basic things men want... yes, we could list out 100 of things... but if you as a woman are only doing these 5 things and you are extremely mindful of it... then you are doing 20 x better then 95% of women.
just basic both gender want for relationship.
Me embracing my inner toxic goddess: Literally impossible, and to know what? this list is sexist and controlling, if he were a real man-
alright that’s enough of that….
I think the point is clear enough, non?
Good Mytake, nice to see a mytake detailing what men want in a relationship.
My ex could. He was so big that while he was doing another girl from behind I was able to postion myself so that as he thrust into to the other girl, the length of his penis was rubbing my clit.
I want the girl to tell me what they want, tell me their darkest fantasy.
I don't like girl that keep to themself. We are in a relationship everything is possible now, don't hold back on me.
A partner in crime. A loving honest person that doesn't hate being around me.
Common beliefs and goals. And reasonable response time.
I can do all of what you listed as, but do all men want kids? Cause I don't lol
I don't either, but I am 46 so you would probably think I am a creepy old man. I never exactly wanted kids myself, but at the same time it just something I always assumed I would do.
So yeah, my wife wanted kids, so we had kids. But at 20 when I fell in love with her if she would of never wanted kids... then I think I would have been fine with that. But its hard to say... at 20 I would have never said never... so by 34 or so I might have regretted it.
But honestly my most sincere answer would be for me personally... at 20 something if I would of fell in love with a woman that never wanted kids, I think I would have been good with that choice.
I will say this though. I dated a 42 year old that never wanted kids, and she never had them. Which honestly I had no problem with. But she also said she was never married, but found out she was technically married twice, but she did not count them as marriages. And it became very apparent in sort order why she never had kids and why she was single at 42.
She sounds like me but I'm currently 31...
If you're not BPD or victim of childhood trauma... then its probably fine. In my case the only two women I met that were anit-kids at 40... were both victims of childhood trauma. And unfortunately this also resulted in them having some BPD issue. Which they both were keenly aware of and honestly not having kids was probably the best choice for them. They just knew they were not mother material.
At the same time though, due to there mental health issues... they had a lot of trouble history in dating. And even they were both in therapy their issues eventually made them undatable. They were very self centered, and self indulgent... everything was always about them. Which will never work with having kids... because everything is always about the kids. And in dating at some piont in the relationship things have to be about the other person and just yourself from time to time. Its not about getting your way, its about compromise and working together.
But if this is not who you are then I say definitely don't have kids. I must admit that the two relationships I had with women without kids. were most amazing time of my life for about 3 months... at that point they it became too difficult for them to manage their BPD issues. they both amazing woman... lots of fun, but undatable and not marriage material. Which was super sad to me, I really think it could of been amazing.
equality and empty balls would be a good start.
I agree.
Men want to feel loved.
Honesty is the best policy.
Peace, fidelity, and fun.
Peace is a good one... peace of mind. Not constant stress and anxiety from one day to the next.
yes!
Who’s gives a shit what men want. Hell they want to be women 😂
LOL :-)
Honestly a kinky, Smart, Goal oriented and Submissive woman.
I want a female who I can be myself around; and, I show her unconditional love
Maybe. Then again, what would I know about relationships?
They want beautiful, smart, witty, passionate and succesful woman like me
To be honest we want the same what women want from us, but we are suppressive because our responsibility is to provide not to take.🫰
Wow, it's crazy when you give them all of this and more, yet, it goes underappreciated.