myTakes: Relationships
The Differences Actually Make A Difference?
*** Just a reminder that this myTake is inspired from my personal opinion on the topic. I'm no relationship expert , but if I can give you advice from someone who's been through it, it's that the differences do weigh on...
The Horror of Ghosting
Yes, this is a common thing. Yes, it's already been written about. But I want to give my thoughts on it. I’ve been talking with some people here about ghosting and seen some questions about it, so I decided to do my own...
The Maternal Jealousy part one
Introduction Reasons a. youth She always compared her weight with mine because she was gaining weight as she aged and had my three siblings, whereas I was paper thin as a teenager. And she was also losing her hair...
Poison flower you've stung me again!
Poison flower you've stung me again. Beautiful and venomous, tainted by all the wrongs you refuse to confess You smelled so sweet and pretended to love me deeply You lied about both our intentions and promised to leave me...
Forgiving and Loving again after Infidelity
I already know I’m up against a lot of people who will not agree with me here, but for those who are in positions of trying to get past the hurt of a cheating partner, who still feel love for them and want to make it...
A short note about the men in my life
This is picking up from my other myTake Short letter to the women in my life and I'm genuinely a bit taken aback that I didn't foresee it'd be more positive than I thought. Maybe it's because they are much fewer and...
There is no Benefit to "Friends with Benefits"
I am no believer in the Friends with Benefits concept. I think it's a term that was created for the person who loves the least between the two people to make the person they're sleeping with feel some validation, without...
When You're Hurt: Don't Give up on Love
Having your heart broken can create serious feelings that meant to shield you from feeling bad. It's our emotional defense mechanism, much like how scabbing happens over a cut. We have emotional defenses as well. If you...
Why can't I stop missing you?
It seems no matter what i say, no matter what i do, i can't take my mind off you. I feel trapped, crazy, helpless, and hopeless. Its been nearly 7 years since i seen your face. I dont wanna feel stupid and keep showing up...
Relationships /Dating As A Whole
Hi there, I feel as if this needs to be addressed to everyone. Whenever you were in a teen relationship or even a relationship now do you ever just make quick assumptions? I know I have from my experiences, you may think...
An open letter to my boyfriend!
When I first saw you 5 years ago, I never thought you would mean to me what you do now. Then you were just another cute little shy guy who was awkward around me, not knowing you had a huge crush on me then. I got a bit...
Ditch The Double Standards.. Be Gone With Bias... Don't Alienate With Assumptions...
This Mytake is about the many double standards I see both genders seem to be guilty of, the bias based off hatred, and false, inaccurate assumptions..... Disclaimer: While I'll try to keep it from both the male and female...
Advice on Relationships and Marriage
This is phrased as though it is meant for the ladies, but men, you can learn from this too. You see, a man will not marry someone he is cool with. He is not going to marry someone that he likes. Just because he likes you...
Confessions of a Love Triad.
Whether you want to call it a Poly Triad, Love Triangle, or as we call ourselves Soul Trinity, there seems to always be some stigma whenever people here about somebody in such relationships. I have been in a loving trio...
Falling in love platonically
My entire life I've always thought "true love" was between lovers because that's what I, along with a lot of people have been taught. You fall in love with people you want to make-out with or make love to. You fall in...
What I want in a man
I don't think I'm someone better than anyone else and deserve perfection. That would be stupid. My perfect man is imperfect AF!! I want someone who knows he has flaws and wants to do better, not for me but for himself. I...
"Say It With A Song" Sunday
Music is a big part of my life.... Not just because I lived with a musician for 20 years.... Music has always been my go to, when I'm happy, when I'm sad, when I need an energy boost or motivation..... And while it can...
5 Signs You Must Definitely Part Away From Her
Sometimes you can't expect some people to change into anything good. While some people change into better people after they get into a relationship, some just cannot change themselves. These are some signs of such...
Short letter to the women in my life
I'm sorry to say this is a letter of bitterness and resentment. To you four, who like an accursed axis of evil worked along to fragment and destroy my being as a man, I have to write and dedicate those words that I know...
10 Warning Signs That Your Girlfriend Is Toxic
Sometimes it's too late when we begin to realize that the one we've been loving all this time is not the right one for us. I loved someone from all my heart only to be treated like s--t at the end. I even got mocked with...
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