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myTakes: Relationships

Why dating a friend was a lot more surprising than I thought it would be

I promise this won't be long. Tonight is the first night in a while, I'm spending at my place, after days, weeks of staying non-stop at my girlfriend's place because she would get upset if I tried to leave. And since...
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5 Little Things To Do To Make Her Happy

When I used to have a girlfriend, I did all these things for her and she loved it. Even though she left me for a rich guy, I still recall these simple acts on how to make her happy. That being said, I'd like to shed a...
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Why We Need To Stop Referring To Men As Controlling

Often times, we'll hear a story about a controlling boyfriend or ex. He doesn't like when I go out and wants to keep me home. He's so controlling! My ex was crazy and controlling, so I broke up with him. Most times, the...
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20 Hobbies That I Find Attractive in a Partner

A. When a guy is passionate about Music in some form like: #1 Poetry- I find it more literary but its the rhythmic appeal that I like. In HS, I used to love reading the raps and poems I wrote to my love interests. #2...
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Why you should know your partner's love languages

You know what your partner likes to do with free time, what kind of music they like to listen to, and what kind of food they like, even how they like their eggs cooked and what dressing they like on their salad. You know...
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Why even bother with love? I know why!

We've all been here. Someone comes into your life, whether by your action or theirs, and they grow on you. You start seeing them in a different light, appreciate all they are, enjoy their very presence. Something about...
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A Letter I'll Never Send to the Boy That I Still Like

I like you. There, I said it. I wrote it down: I like you. I know, that’s weird. But it’s true. Maybe I’m just a hormonal teenage girl who’s crushing on a boy. But when I think of you, my heart stops. And then it skips,...
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Can a woman really change a man? What are the movies telling us?

This is most likely an unpopular opinion. We've all heard the stereotype. A man with several undesirable qualities meets a woman. She, through the power of her love and affection, fixes those issues. We see this...
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Why it might not be a good idea to date your friend

The McClintock Street memorial @Olderandwiser once wrote a great myTake about why you shouldn’t date your best friend . I respect his wisdom and advice, but there’s one thing he forgot to mention. If the relationship...
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Don't Be Afraid To Love

I could sense those sparks that united us. Something in me became alive that didn't exist. Every time we get close it only pulsates. Before I met you the world was surrounded by darkness. My heart was filled with hate,...
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How to know if your boyfriend is cheating on you through social media (even if the side chick is blocked).

Even if the side chick blocked your boyfriend on social media, she can't 100% clean her trail. These are my private investigator tips I use to find out anything. 1. Use a fake Instagram account. Always use a fake...
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I have retroactive jealousy OCD; a jealousy fixated on my boyfriends past!

" THE TERM RETROACTIVE JEALOUSY, or what is also referred to as “retrospective jealousy” and “retrograde jealousy,” refers to painful thoughts and curiosity regarding a partner’s past relationships and/or sexual history....
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How and Why to Avoid Dating a Woman with Borderline Personality Disorder or Narcissistic Personality Disorder

This is based on my personal experience in dating two particular women, one of which probably had NPD and the other BPD. These were traits and actions that would have clued me in had I known to look for them or understood...
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Men are the most frustrating human beings on the planet!

I tell my husband I want him around more for important occasions (e.g. parties, holidays etc). He understands where I am coming from but doesn't say much on it. He then tells me he will be busy over the Christmas period...
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I’m just venting but...

So this dude and I have been in a casual arrangement for some time, for a year or so. One day he lands a bombshell on me when we’re chatting. He tells me that he’s been fully, 110%, faithful since the second month of our...
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Reasons she won't commit to you and what you can do to make her

1.) You're boring No woman wants a man who doesn't have anything going on with his life. Are you adventurous? Do you hit the gym or play some hoops? If you're just sitting your ass at home playing your stupid video games...
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Problems of my relationship that has nothing to do with cheating or money

When I was younger I used to think that most marriages ended because of cheating and or money problems. Here are 10 issues that I have in my marriage that has nothing to do with cheating or money. 1. I have to solve...
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The Kind of Woman I Like (and Some I Don't)

This compilation is not based on physical appeal, but character features that are not the usual, trite, go-to recommendations. Of course an attractive woman is nice and a woman with a shapely body and breasts, but even...
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To marry or break up: A decision I can't decide! Part 2

If you haven't read Part 1 of this story, you can view it in the link below. If you already have, feel free to skip on ahead: To marry or break up: A decision I can't decide! The "Talk" I have taken the advice of many on...
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A thought about my current relationship

I promise this won't be long. As many of you who have been following my situation and my outbursts for some time now, at end of July I broke up with the girl I was supposed to propose to. It was just the necessary...
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