My girlfriend hardly gives me any affection, I always initiate the affection, what do I do? (Page 2)

[jermainyrn]

I would leave her man. Everyone knows when you aren't getting what you need, you end up heartbroken or unsatisfied

[kittykatbrat]

I couldn't agree more. UPS!!!

[Fezziwig]

Cut her off. Trust me, she'll notice when you stop and she'll start initiating more contact herself. Then you can play around and find some sort of balance.

[Newtown]

get a new gf, at your age you should not be worrying about this kind of thing, anyway she is not for you if you are not feeling loved or wanted enough by her

[Your_boss]

I never ever initiate anything either
It's mainly because
This guy told me I was annoying
And so I never Initiate anything anymore even if I want too
I just let the guy do it
That was I know he doesn't think I'm annoying

[WhiteRaven]

Talk to her. Tell her a relationship without mutual affection is bound to fail. So unless she wants it to fail, she should learn to be more affectionate.

[xyzzy]

Mmm yeah you can't force someone to be something they are not. Stop trying to make your "girlfriend" your "property"

[AcreativeUserName14]

if she's not affectionate then that's who she is, I can relate to this because I'm not affectionate. whatever you do just don't push it because that can be really annoying and may drive her away.

[ClauseViter]

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[unicornsandglitter]

Tell her you just don't feel the same. People are affectionate even when they say they aren't, just when they have found the right person.

[Anonymous]

Try brushing up against her and getting close to her face-to-face, while staring at her lips after giving her a compliment, and she'll probably wanna kiss you..

[asheley15]

She isn't going to change. Your gonna have to compromise or move on.

[PhoenixItalian]

She may enjoy the attention you give her and feel empowered by rejecting you. I'd be very direct with her about it. It might be time to start looking elsewhere if she's not up to par with expectations

[Mr_Xavier]

Watch Corey Wayne's videos on YouTube. You'll learn a lot.

[planb224]

I'd look for someone else, she's not showing you she cares. So its time to find someone that does

[Keenisha]

it takes time for her to get comfortable. Are you her first bf? Maybe she doesn't know how to act

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you are further along in the relationship than her. Better to give her time if you really like her.

[MJas16]

It's hard for a nonaffrctionate person to show their love. Give it time, she'll eventually open up

[victoriac17]

I think some people are naturally like that and there isn't too much you can do. As long as she's comfortable around you-that's all.

[frederico]

Make her crave your attention. Frame chase her. Aftr a few weeks, she'll be begging for your kisses.

[Anonymous]

All women are like that. less than 1% of women are affe ctionate