My boyfriend is in a chain of bad luck help?

[Anonymous]

His boss is late paying him and he really needs the money. He got injured and has difficulty with insurance so he can't get the medical care he needs. His car had a lot of problems and it cost him a lot. he's been working harder lately because the boss demanding more too.

He's strssed out and unhappy for good reason but I feel he has a negative attitude. He complains a lot and now it's like any little inconvenience makes him upset. He never yells at me or anything.

But he unhappy and even admits his life is crappy right now. Some of the stuff hapened after we got together. It makes me worry that he'll never take the next step. Or that he has a negative attitude. He likes to complain. I am unhappy about stuff too but I put on a happy face. Then again I think his problems are more severe than mine.

Am I wasting my time? Why do I stay? I'm starting to wonder that. He's understanding. He gets me. He's smart. He's not full of bullshit. He's deep.

But I don't want to close myself off... help?

[youngisthan]

Every body face the issues in life and different people has different way to deal with it. I think this is a bad time for him and you should be with him and support him.
If he has negative attitude or if he complains more then talk to him about it, make him realize that there's always something positive happening in our life if we learn from our bad days. So this is just a phase and it will soon go.

[Anonymous]

He sounds just like me. I have so much going on. Life singles out certain people to throw loads of shit on. Stay by him in these hard times. I can only wish his life gets better.