Well I think if you do love him and feel that the t-shirt incident was not really that serious and something you guys can make up on, I think you guys should talk about your feelings and eventually someone has to say sorry. You can be the upper woman and say it because maybe he is expecting it. It really matters if you really want to get back with him. I know it meant a lot to you and you might experience that in your relationship over the years if you continue it, but you should make it clear in a kind, understanding, civil conversation with him. Don't make it out as if he's the bad guy because that will only push him away. Anyway, let me just say feelings don't just change automatically. He is probably thinking about you too as I am about my ex. We haven't talked for a while either but when someone does say hello, things are ok for now. Someone has to start the conversation in order to get your message across or things will be left unsaid. That is if you want it to. If you guys feel like you need more time, just put it on hold until you think you're ready to apologize/talk. Don't wait too long as he might think you're over reacting and over him.
Was it him who broke up with you? It should be you to come up and talk to him. I always felt like that. If it was him who messed up, he should come to you... At least that's how it seems according to my friends and what they have told me to do about my ex. But if it's really getting to you, I say step up and be the one to contact him.
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I agree with Jermaine that you should just get back in contact. You don't have to jump right into arguing again about the shirt. Just talk about whatever like you would have before the fight. Once you get friendly again you can work out the shirt issue. You obviously don't see the shirt as THAT big of a deal now, so it's probably best to agree to disagree and move past it.
I don't think he's using it as a way out. From what you wrote it doesn't sound like he wanted to break up, he just didn't understand the big deal about the shirt. I doubt he thought you'd get that upset or that it would lead to breaking up.
Contact him but you don't have to say your sorry at all just agree to disagree but also something you need to think about is maybe its bigger then the shirt and he's looking for a way out of your relationship...cuz honestly I don't know any guy that would lose their woman over a shirt that they didn't buy or that isn't one of a kind.
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I would say you were the one that put your relationship in jeopardy over a stupid shirt. Who the fuck cares.
Same with the male photographer, he was wrong there. What's so bad about a guy taking pictures of you over a woman, that's some stupid jealous bullshit.
You are both being stupid.
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