i didn't think so when i was in my 20's but now that im in my 30's yes. but at the same time i have yet to date a faithful female since i came back to ohio in 2002
I was once a player. I met this awesome cool young lady and she stole me heart. I loved her and cherished her. I never did her any wrong, I gave her anything she wanted. After 8 months being in a relationship with her. I discovered that she was sending guys pictures of herself #Nudes. Long story short, I'm a Player once more.
I've cheated on one of my bfs, I was young and immature. I haven't cheated since, that was 5 years ago. So in my case I say no, but most cases, not all, but most. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Relationships are basically clockwork. Some constituents are universal (those who look for simpler goals like sex), while some are compatible with a specific part ( like a typical tag team sort of thing). Now, those lacking a strong sentimental value are bound to cheat again, and those with a higher sense will regret it, or will even be honest about their intentions from the start.
Interesting. The answer changes with age and stage of development. I'm curious what the outcome would be.
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I believe someone who has cheated in the past can change their behavior due to acknowledging the mistake they have made but I'll be damned if I am going to a give a girl that has cheated in the past a chance.
My partners grandmother has shared stories about her cheating on all her husbands. So yes I'm convinced that maybe certain people cannot fight temptation as well as others. But people make mistakes so.
Hey Aaron, Quick question for you: If a guy admits to cheating in the past, but says he wouldn't again-and its different for different relationships-would you believe him? What do you make of that?
Hi @Rachel-Russo, glad to see you! That's a tough one. If I was dating him, I'd want more info. i. e. what makes each relationship different for him. I'd make sure to especially ask him what it was about the person he cheated on to make him cheat? Then I'd listen carefully to see if he takes any responsibility for his cheating or if he only blames his ex. Every relationship takes two. If he can't own why he cheated, he's a HUGE risk for cheating again.
Thats not true :) I cheated once! But then after year I got into a perfect relationship and I am dating from 1 year now and going to marry her soon. Its all bout true love!
Yes. Once a cheater always a cheater. I just can't think, outside of criminal activity, any other thing that is as devastating to a relationship as cheating.
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Cheated once (when things were bad) and never cheated again
i didn't think so when i was in my 20's but now that im in my 30's yes. but at the same time i have yet to date a faithful female since i came back to ohio in 2002
I don't agree with this actually.
I agree there is a good chance he/she will remain a cheater-Very good. But I don't ALWAYS agree with this.
I was once a player. I met this awesome cool young lady and she stole me heart. I loved her and cherished her. I never did her any wrong, I gave her anything she wanted. After 8 months being in a relationship with her. I discovered that she was sending guys pictures of herself #Nudes. Long story short, I'm a Player once more.
I've cheated on one of my bfs, I was young and immature. I haven't cheated since, that was 5 years ago. So in my case I say no, but most cases, not all, but most. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Relationships are basically clockwork. Some constituents are universal (those who look for simpler goals like sex), while some are compatible with a specific part ( like a typical tag team sort of thing). Now, those lacking a strong sentimental value are bound to cheat again, and those with a higher sense will regret it, or will even be honest about their intentions from the start.
yes i kinda agree... once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater
Interesting. The answer changes with age and stage of development. I'm curious what the outcome would be.
I believe someone who has cheated in the past can change their behavior due to acknowledging the mistake they have made but I'll be damned if I am going to a give a girl that has cheated in the past a chance.
My partners grandmother has shared stories about her cheating on all her husbands. So yes I'm convinced that maybe certain people cannot fight temptation as well as others. But people make mistakes so.
"Once a Cheater always a Cheater?"
I think no.
But I'll look forward to expert's advise
i dont think so.. i disagree, people cheat for different reasons, they change..
Not always. Society doesn't allow for open relationships in general. You can do it but don't talk about it. Sssshhh.
I think is too easy to say once a cheater always a chester. I think people make horrible mistakes. It doesn't mean they will always repeat it
not true.. iv cheated but i learned my lesson :/ and if i were to find love again i would know what to do better
I say no, without feeling like going in to detail
No. Even The Apostle Paul in the once killed Christians, until Jesus opened his eyes and then he became a follower of Christ.
That's different entirely.
Hey Aaron, Quick question for you: If a guy admits to cheating in the past, but says he wouldn't again-and its different for different relationships-would you believe him? What do you make of that?
Hi @Rachel-Russo, glad to see you! That's a tough one. If I was dating him, I'd want more info. i. e. what makes each relationship different for him. I'd make sure to especially ask him what it was about the person he cheated on to make him cheat? Then I'd listen carefully to see if he takes any responsibility for his cheating or if he only blames his ex. Every relationship takes two. If he can't own why he cheated, he's a HUGE risk for cheating again.
Thats not true :) I cheated once! But then after year I got into a perfect relationship and I am dating from 1 year now and going to marry her soon. Its all bout true love!
Yes. Once a cheater always a cheater. I just can't think, outside of criminal activity, any other thing that is as devastating to a relationship as cheating.