What does it mean when your boyfriend says its up to you?

[Anonymous]

He's away working and his assistant asked me if I wanted to fly out to him. It has been a bit rocky between us and I know he wants to sort the problems out.
Anyway I asked him if he wants me to come? He said its up to me.
And to me I'm not sure if that means I want you here with me. Or because I've been confused about our relationship and one minute wanting him next minute I don't because of his baby mother.
Any ideas?

[canbrave]

He is testing you to see you want to be with him but it depend on you

He wants you to face him and say I not going no where I'm here for you and I love you or I need you and your my everything he wants you to fight for him and put your foot down and say enough let's have the talk

P. s it don't matter if it's about his baby mother if you wanted to be with his baby mother he will but he is not and now he hoping that you will show him that you are going to him and be with him

This is not hard forget the baby mother and be with him fight for him if that the only reason for not want to be with him then extremely dumb holy 💩

FIGHT FOR HIM AND DON'T GIVE UP PUT YOUR GOOT DOWN AND BE THERE FOR HIM THERE THICK AND THIN IF IT'S SEX THEN GET A BOOK AND DO EVERYTHING IN THE BOOK GO HAVE SEX IN SOMEONE ELSE HOUSE OR IN A BUSH OR ON A TREE OR IN A TREE HOUSE

DAMN

[Skittles_lover]

I'm sure he wants to see you but only wants you to come if you really want to be there. I don't think he'd ask or put the offer out there if he didn't really want you there and for the sake of your relationship, it might be best to talk about some things in person.

[TrueSweetness724]

If he extended the offer he wants you to. If you feel like it would help the relationship i say you ready should do it.

[gray_sailor]

I'm just here for the Xper point.

I will also endorse what the girls are saying looking from a guys perspective.

Sometimes a man wants to fight to get a woman.

This is a time when a man wants a woman to fight for him.

He wants you with him.

He really needs you to want him too.

[gray_sailor]

Thanks for the MHO.
good luck