My boyfriend never talks to me.

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend never texts me first. and half the time he doesn't text me back and the only way I get him to text me back is if I text him like three more times and then he's just like sorry. he doesn't act the way he used to be. and he always uses the excuse that he's working. I know he does work a lot but it can be all the time.

and whenever I confront him he gets mad at me. also I could not text him for a day, but that doesn't bother him. he won't like text me anything and be like why didn't you text me. and whenever I'm like you don't wanna be with me he's like yes I do. stop saying that I always tell you I do. and then ill be like you have another girl and he will be like stop you're making me mad. I don't. he doesn't show me he loves me anymore.

what should I do?

[HaleyElizabeth]

you need to tell him that if he doesn't show that he loves you and actually trys to talk to you, instead of you having to bring on every conversation, that you will break up with him. because he shouldnt treat you that way. you have no idea what is going on.

[Anonymous]

okay how long have you been with him and how old is he and have you had sex yet ? sounds like somethink that happend to me

[Asker]

We don't see each other as much at the moment because he is in a different state for some reasons right now. and yes we have had sex. and we have been together for about 5 months.

[Asker]

Oh and he's 19.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay what happened after you had sex and do you have sex a lot ? how far into the realtionship did you have sex and how did it go after that how much do you see him and what kind of things do you do when you see him ?

[Opinion Owner]

This happend to me I think this happened to me

[Asker]

I haven't seen him in about a month and a half. but we go out to dinner cuddle watch movies. normal things that any couple would do

everything was normal after sex. it made me feel like we were closer after it

but ever since like a couple weeks ago everything has been going down hill and he doesn't show any love toward me. I feel like I'm the only one working in this relationship he always tells me everything is fine. told me he will "try" to go back to how he used to be. I don't know why he has to try

[Opinion Owner]

What happend the last time you was with him and proper talked to him

[Asker]

Nothing. he came here for a couple times. and we just hung out and acted like any couple would. it was perfect. and whenever I confront him about the way he acts and the things he doesn't to make me sad he acts like he doenst care and he always gets made and tells me to stop stressing about it. and I'm like well if you felt the way I did you would stress about it too. and he's like yeah your right. I texted him over an hour ago and I haven't gotten anything

[Asker]

And I told him to text me when he woke up this morning. and of course he didnt.

[Opinion Owner]

Stop talking to him if he wants you he will come to you don't you do the running there is obviously somethink wrong it wouldn't just go like this

[Witchbabylove]

Going through the same thing right now. We are both in our 20's, I'm 24 and he's 23. He spends his time at work and with friends and I know his phone is broken but he could email me. He doesn't try whatsoever and gets frustrated at me and calls me needy, which pisses me off because I've been with other guys and they've all called me aloof. I know it's not me being crazy here. I don't know how to get that across when he won't even give me the time of day.

[Anonymous]

I don't think he is interested in you anymore. I would keep my options open and start looking elsewhere. But before you do that let him know that you don't feel like he cares anymore. If he doesn't change, break up with him.

[Xenophobia]

talk on the phone...dont text message.

[Asker]

We used to everynight since he has left. and now we dont. he's always "working late" or out with his friends.,

[Xenophobia]

He may be cheating on you......

[Asker]

Thats what I'm thinking. but every time I ask him he's like no. and I ask him like 2 times a day and he's like stop your making me mad. and I don't know what to dooo!

[Xenophobia]

I would not jump the gun just yet......but my experience tells me that if your under 18, and this guy is under 18.....one of you is very immature. If he doesn't have time for you all of a sudden, he's chilling with his buddies trying to act single again, or he's talking to other girls.