So here's the situation:
Last night I was supposed to hang out with one of my friends. Okay so in all reality, he is definitely a friends with benefits , but I digress. We had been planning this for a few days now. I knew he would have to come over later that day because he was spending most of the day getting his sleeve tattoo done. But before his appointment yesterday morning, he came over for about twenty minutes just to hang out with me for a bit but the he had to leave. I didn't hear from him all day. Finally at about 9 at night I got tired of waiting. I knew he should have been done hours ago. So I texted him and asked him if he was still planning on coming over. I didn't get a response until midnight saying that he was probably going to come over late that night because he was really tired. I was kind of annoyed with that. I had waited all day for him, but what else could I do? So I told him that was fine. I stayed waiting for the text that would let me know he was finally coming over, but after a long time I fell asleep. Early this morning I woke up half panicked thinking I missed his text, and frantically found my phone. No text. I knew he was about to wake up to go to work so I messaged him saying "I guess staying up was a waste. Whatever. Have a good day at work." A bit later I got a response saying "I'm sorry I slept in too much. Want me to come over before work?" Not exactly thrilled about being an early morning booty call I just told him "it's not worth it. Just go to work." He would have only had a half hour over here anyways. I got no response after that. So what do I do here? Do I just play it cool and let it roll off? Do I give him a piece of my mind? Do I (preferably not) pull the whole dreaded "we need to talk" thing? Do I cut him off altogether? How big of a deal should this be anyways? I mean, he killed my weekend. I want to be able to stand up for myself, but I also don't want this to be made into a bigger deal than it should be.
Last night I was supposed to hang out with one of my friends. Okay so in all reality, he is definitely a friends with benefits , but I digress. We had been planning this for a few days now. I knew he would have to come over later that day because he was spending most of the day getting his sleeve tattoo done. But before his appointment yesterday morning, he came over for about twenty minutes just to hang out with me for a bit but the he had to leave. I didn't hear from him all day. Finally at about 9 at night I got tired of waiting. I knew he should have been done hours ago. So I texted him and asked him if he was still planning on coming over. I didn't get a response until midnight saying that he was probably going to come over late that night because he was really tired. I was kind of annoyed with that. I had waited all day for him, but what else could I do? So I told him that was fine. I stayed waiting for the text that would let me know he was finally coming over, but after a long time I fell asleep. Early this morning I woke up half panicked thinking I missed his text, and frantically found my phone. No text. I knew he was about to wake up to go to work so I messaged him saying "I guess staying up was a waste. Whatever. Have a good day at work." A bit later I got a response saying "I'm sorry I slept in too much. Want me to come over before work?" Not exactly thrilled about being an early morning booty call I just told him "it's not worth it. Just go to work." He would have only had a half hour over here anyways. I got no response after that. So what do I do here? Do I just play it cool and let it roll off? Do I give him a piece of my mind? Do I (preferably not) pull the whole dreaded "we need to talk" thing? Do I cut him off altogether? How big of a deal should this be anyways? I mean, he killed my weekend. I want to be able to stand up for myself, but I also don't want this to be made into a bigger deal than it should be.
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