Me and my sister do it sometimes and I know it sounds weird but I never had any sexual thoughts; but it makes us feel so close (like there's nothing between us) and the feeling of her warm, soft skin against mine is just so relaxing.
I know a lot of people might call it incestuous but cuddling is a natural instinct (and animals are well documented to cuddle with siblings) and clothes are not natural.
Do you think cuddling naked could be entirely platonic?
Actually I think that's probably quite natural. Mostly society's perverted outlook that everything has to be sexualised. It's not for me though. You're lucky to have such a close relationship with your sibling. I think that's what's really binding you together (literally it seems). If you have such a strong platonic bond, then you should probably enjoy it. Most peoples' hearts are closed.
I suppose what might make it slightly odd in most peoples' eyes is that with family, the relationship is so tarnished and conditioned by say, 20 years of experience, a lot of them unpleasant. It's good that you've managed to keep yours clean and pure :)
Cuddling... not platonic between a boy and a girl. Between sisters... I'd guess it's platonic, but weird.
Cuddling naked... not even slightly platonic between a guy and a girl. Between sisters... Maybe platonic, but weird as FUCK. If I found out any girl I was with did that and thought it was ok I would break up with them on the spot... after asking her if she was up for a threesome with her sister of course.
I say to each their own before I saw your age 25-29. Teenagers or pre teen is one thing but, I think you should both be finding other people to cuddle with at this stage of your lives.
I would never do so with my brother, mostly because he's so much older than me. I probably wouldn't even cuddle with him clothed. but if you two enjoy it then continue.
@adquidorator why are boobs and but sexualized in women but not in men. Why is fuck a bad word but saying frick instead is acceptable. I think a bunch of dumb rules to create conformity. To each their own
Naturalists cuddle all the time and it doesn’t lead to incest or sex. The world in which we live like us all to fit in a box. When we don’t they judge us harshly. They are the ones without not us. Think for yourself you deserve and as a human you crave a close connection involving touch. I think it’s wrong that womens breasts are sexualized and mens are not. It’s ok for a man to walk around with his pants hanging off his ass however for woman it’s not ok. My entire family cuddles naked. We are a nudist family and not one of them have tried to have sex with me. Just a way of life.
Other animals cuddle but they have much different sexualities than us. Humans have worn clothes for hundreds of thousands of years. Are you black? Humans started wearing clothes in Africa but if you're not black your ancestors have worn lots of clothes for millenniums. Modern humans have evolved with them just like with cooking. That's why we don't eat raw beef or chicken.
I cuddle naked with my brothers cuz we're comfortable with each other, nothing sexual. So nothing wrong with you doing it too. It's just that some annoying people oversexualize everything.
wow, that is just disturbing. but as you are sisters then I would not think much of it other then really weird. but man and woman? no way that is platonic... at least not for the guy
You seem to be saying that since they are sisters you would not see it as disturbing. So let me change things up. What would you say to two brothers around 28 years old cuddling naked?
@Red_Arrow I guess your eyesight didn't see the "wow, that is just disturbing" part of my reply. I separated that part and the "platonic" part of it. SOme people are just ok with nudity. Women are way more ok with being naked with other women. I don't think you will ever find 2 straight men cuddling... ever... ever... so no, i don't consider that at all...
I did not miss your "wow, that is just disturbing." I also did not miss the "but as you are sisters..." that immediately followed. Hence why I said "since they are sisters you would not see it as disturbing."
My point being that I do not see being siblings lessening the weirdness of two women cuddling naked as a platonic thing.
Don’t listen to this. We all need to feel connected and we are conditioned to think we shouldn’t. However I applaud you for taking care of yourself through platonic touch
I think it is sexy for you 2 girls to cuddle naked if thats what ye like then go for it dont care what other people think stick to what you like doing :)
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