Are women my age 37+ years ever going to be given a chance to find love and happiness or are men over wanting older women for their partners?

[Becky01]

[DooMguy]

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oh mein gott, I was just lurking a forum today and found this question on there, guess which forum it was?

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anyway I don't really know the future, you might find somone. . . or not. But I'll just leave this here just in case you need it /r/ForeverAloneWomen

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gott mit uns

[MasterofYou]

Actually I'm into younger women like you sweet kitten...

[Becky01]

thank you @MasterofYou

[modeve]

I think that 37 is not an age to worry about. Sexologists say 30's is the prime age, so you are still young. Older age is a "concept" and "fear" only. People in 40's and 50's can find partner.

[dudeman]

lol thirties is prime for a womens horniness because their eggs and wombs are dying. just like a flower before it dies it sends out the most nectar.

[modeve]

@dudeman
Yes, it's correct.

[dudeman]

so thats not a good thing.

[Indigo91]

A woman's prime years is her 20's

[modeve]

Thanks for MHG.

[Mustachekitteh]

Not sure about how harder or easier it is but I think you could still find some.

[EllieLexis513]

Women of all ages are having issues finding a decent guy.

[evenlift]

LOL.

[Shymalea]

because they always fall in love with the,, bad,, guys, the ones who use women as something from the supermarket, use it and throw it away afterwards. I hate those men!

[Barrabus_the_Free]

You had a chance. When you were 16-26. Back when you still had your youth and looks. What were you doing all those years?

You know what you were doing, and I know what you were doing. You were spreading for every drug dealer, biker, ganger, jock, and two-bit criminal that looked your way. You figured that the average guys would always be there, and once you'd "had your fun" and The Wall had his way with you (and you had a couple of thugspawn, most likely) you'd find some chump who'd be happy to take on your past, your baggage, and some other man's kids.

But it's not quite working out how you'd planned, is it?

I wonder, will you tell the younger women not to waste what they've got, or let them follow in your footsteps, making the same mistakes and suffering the same fate?

Ha, we all know the answer to that: you'll let them make the same mistakes. If you're lonely and miserable, why should THEY get what YOU want?

[WalterRadio]

I am in my upper 40's. The average age of women I date is 23. My current girlfriend is 21.

I will say that there is one 42 year old woman I had been trying to get to go out with me. She is Asian and looks like she is 30.

That exception noted, there are some sweet, kind, beautiful women over 30; they are ALWAYS married.

Here are my complaints that start to appear with single women over 30, increasing with age. You may not have any of these, but these are general observations:
1. Overweight.
2. Bitchy
3. Demanding.
4. Excess baggage, always complaining about ex husband.
5. Failing looks.

Why put up with it, when there is a slim, sweet, grateful, drama-free, pretty girl who is 21 or 22 and happy to go out?

[AFBBucks]

Question: When you were in your prime, did you even give "nice guys" half a chance? Of course not. You know what happened to most of those nice guys? While you were busy riding the carousel with "exciting" (but not marriage material) men, the smart young women in their primes snapped up all those "boring" nice guys. That bus left the station a long time ago and you weren't on board. And the few nice guys who are left, who invested in themselves and now have a lot to offer, they can get someone much younger than you.

[Indigo91]

That's what happens to women who ride the cock carousel with alpha males in their youth instead of looking for a good caring guy. Am sorry to say but men don't want shallow post wall sluts who rejected all the decent nice guys for players, six pack pretty boys and psychopathic bad boys. After all that women now want love from a good guy when all those assholes have disposed you. You've made your bed cupcake, now lie in it. :)

[Negrodamuss]

yeah you're reaching what some would call "the wall". Guys just have much more options as they get into their 30's, so you're going to find it difficult to compete for men's attention when they can easily pull girls in their 20's. My suggestion is to give them something that a lot of younger girls aren't, such as maturity, independence, sexual experience, home cooking... etc.

[ArrowheadSW]

I'd like to date a woman your age. My experience is women your age really love sex and can be very fun to be with. The downfall is if they still want to have kids then I would not be on the same page, as I don't want to father children. Or if they have problematic teenage kids, that can really be draining.

[FakeName123]

For all men who want to found a family, yes. Your biological clock is as good as done.

Additionally most decent guys are already in comitted relationships/marriages already. That decreases the number of decent and available ones drastically.

So I will have to say that your chance has drastically decreased and will decrease further with every additional year.

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

Well, we have been crying for some time now how nice guys finish last. If you don't pin one down when you're younger, it gets harder as they get upset and offended as they get old.

Back to the question, you still have a chance. Love and happiness is not very hard to find, but it almost always requires settling down for less than your ideal man. Are you willing to make that sacrifice?

[dogbert444]

There are no reasons why you can't attract a guy at any age. It's just that decent singly guys (and single ladies) are fewer in number, as time goes by, and are difficult to find. But certainly not impossible.

[AFBBucks]

Sure, but can she attract an "acceptable" guy? You know: never married, 100K+ income, at least 6 feet tall, not bald, athletic build, etc.

[Becky01]

@AFBBucks
I am not after complete perfection I am after my kind of flawed man

[AFBBucks]

I think you missed my point. Even if you're willing to "compromise" for "near perfection", there are going to be few guys who meet your criteria. I'm sure you think that your expectations are reasonable, but your ongoing lack of success would indicate otherwise and as others have already pointed out, the kind of guy you're probably targeting can easily date women 10 years younger than you.

[Riggers]

Women that age are literally ideal. Shit. I have honestly considered for a long time now waiting until I'm like 30+ until I start dating just I can date women of that age without it being wrong lmao

[Barrabus_the_Free]

Ideal? WTF are you smoking?

[Riggers]

@Barrabus_the_Free?

[Barrabus_the_Free]

@Riggers :

Women that age are FAR from ideal. Their appearance alone is enough to put them in the "Bottom of the Barrel" category. The BEST looking 'older' woman I have ever seen is Maria Brink, she's 38, and she can't compare to a 19 year old. She just can't.

Once you add in 20 years of being pumped and dumped, and a couple of thugspawn, and all the other baggage, women older than 28 aren't worth your time unless you're just looking for a one night stand or you're in your mid 50's or older.

[Riggers]

@Barrabus_the_Free I'd have to respectfully disagree in every regard. as I said in my OP, I feel so strongly about that I don't think I will even start dating until I'm 25-30+.

I prefer their mentality. Most younger girls are generally shallower and all they want to do is party and shit. And, when you're both not good looking and a bit introverted there's no fucking point trying.

Whereas a few older women are more realistic and willing to settle and stuff. That's what I want. A family and a nice woman, not some young girl who is only interested in looks and usually money.

[RationalMale]

Sure there are still single men out there at that age. Your main problem is... the ones you will find desirable will have plenty of female attention. And a 38 year old man can get a 30 year old woman if he's taken care of himself.

[evenlift]

This.

[mghowmasculinist]

lol, don't you mean get a 20 year old.

[RationalMale]

@mghowmasculinist I think it would take an exceptional 38 year old to get a 20 year old. It would only take a fairly good 38 year old to get a 30 year old, someone who maintained and bettered himself.

[Regulatus]

Going by the tried and true "Half his age +7" rule, your ideal man is 60 years old. However, I'm guessing that you have your POF profile set to block messages from any man not in the 28-42 age range. Amirite?

[Becky01]

you are wrong

[Regulatus]

Bet I was close.

[Anonymous]

Well, I read somewhere that people in general start to panic around the age of 35, about not having a "life partner" so they are absolutely willing to settle for just about any one.

No idea if it's true in your case or not; either way - there's still hope for you; but if you want kids you better start doing what you girls expect us guys to do, even though it's not easy, and approach

[Anonymous]

My last girlfriend was 46. I'd have no problem in liking and having a relationship with a 37-year-old. Better that than 20 or 24.

I think if it was serious you'd have to have thought about the question of children and settle it relatively early since, like it or not, evolution is knocking on your door.

[Mesonfielde]

Well reproduction for women gets risky above 33 so it's probably for the best to either rush it now or never

[mikemx55]

Was this because of me? Didn't mean to get you thinking about this stuff.

[Becky01]

no honey just a question that has been on my mind for quite some time :)

[Waffles731]

I know several people who have found love and happiness even OLDER than you
my grandmother comes to mind, a family friend of mine is another, there are more

[mghowmasculinist]

Yep, this girl I know said her Grandad met the love of his life at his nursing home.

[dudeman]

a thirty seven year old should be looking at men in their fifties.

[jacquesvol]

@Becky01
You're too young for me. :)
And I'm taken.

[sexyselfie]

@Becky01 please could you pm me I cannot as yet

[gobsmacked3]

anything in life is possible

Your biggest issue is accepting you deserve happiness