Sometimes not forgiving someone takes your energy and time which they don't deserve. And it can be better to forgive but not forget and not take them back. Just letting it go can be better for someone
I think physical cheating I couldn't forgive but emotional cheating I probably could. I actually emotionally cheated before and didn't really realize it but if your not getting what you want you are tempted to find it elsewhere and not waste your time
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I have cheated and I have taken full responsibility for my actions, always told the truth about it and even told my future partners about having cheated in the past. I have grown up from it, it was when I was really young, and I have changed and am 100% certain I would never again. I don't think I forgive myself, so I don't expect anyone else to do so, but I think they have anyway because they still want me to be in their lives and feel I'm alright besides my actions.
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their is never one clear answer to this , It depends a lot on the person , are thay someone that dose it often and justified it in there mind as a ok thing , or was it a first time last time kinda thing , were thay drugged or set up.. theirs a lot of variables that can come in to play.
everyone makes mistakes. some people learn. I'm not going to condemn someone for the rest of their life for cheating. with that said, I'm going to break up with them once I found out.
I have no idea what the fixation of cheating is; we'll forgive people who thieve from us things we cannot ever replace but won't forgive someone for kissing someone else.
No forgiveness, but I'll give the alleged cheater girl an essay assignment on why she's sorry and regrets cheating if she can read the whole thing with a poker face then I'll believe her, for now...
I think most people deserve forgiveness. Most of us want to get into paradise and have eternal life with God, but we can't get there without his forgivness. Imagine he wasn't forgiving.
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I might acknowledge his apology, but I would never trust him again. So there will be no more relationship.
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They can be forgiven. It should not be forgotten. There is no reason for anyone to trust that person again.
Sometimes not forgiving someone takes your energy and time which they don't deserve. And it can be better to forgive but not forget and not take them back. Just letting it go can be better for someone
I think physical cheating I couldn't forgive but emotional cheating I probably could. I actually emotionally cheated before and didn't really realize it but if your not getting what you want you are tempted to find it elsewhere and not waste your time
I have cheated and I have taken full responsibility for my actions, always told the truth about it and even told my future partners about having cheated in the past. I have grown up from it, it was when I was really young, and I have changed and am 100% certain I would never again.
I don't think I forgive myself, so I don't expect anyone else to do so, but I think they have anyway because they still want me to be in their lives and feel I'm alright besides my actions.
their is never one clear answer to this , It depends a lot on the person , are thay someone that dose it often and justified it in there mind as a ok thing , or was it a first time last time kinda thing , were thay drugged or set up.. theirs a lot of variables that can come in to play.
everyone makes mistakes. some people learn. I'm not going to condemn someone for the rest of their life for cheating. with that said, I'm going to break up with them once I found out.
I have no idea what the fixation of cheating is; we'll forgive people who thieve from us things we cannot ever replace but won't forgive someone for kissing someone else.
Fuckin' backwards as species right there.
Now I think that I wouldn't forgive a cheater, I think that I won't change my mind.
Well I don't like talking about this but I cheated on someone once. And I would never ever do it again because
*I really hurt that person and dont want to hurt anyone else
Everyone deserves another chance but not with the same person.
Forgiveness is for your own benefit, not the person you forgive.
This way you aren't holding on to that grudge for life.
However, forgive and forget they even existed is my motto. There is no excuse for cheating, so do it once, and we are over forever.
I wouldn't forgive them, but i wouldn't seek revenge or anything.
If you forgive, you do not see the long term.
They will have kids with a different mother and it is a primary reason why bastards exist.
they deserve to be forgiven but they can´t expect to be given another chance in the relationship. that´s how i see it.
very few cheaters ever truly feel sorry for cheating they only feel sorry for getting caught.
no sympathy here.
no forgiveness either
No forgiveness, but I'll give the alleged cheater girl an essay assignment on why she's sorry and regrets cheating if she can read the whole thing with a poker face then I'll believe her, for now...
I think most people deserve forgiveness. Most of us want to get into paradise and have eternal life with God, but we can't get there without his forgivness. Imagine he wasn't forgiving.
I might acknowledge his apology, but I would never trust him again. So there will be no more relationship.
Everyone deserves forgiveness and yes even cheaters. People change.
Yes. Wife of 25 years has cheated twice. Sucks, but it's reality.