How to talk to your partner about excessive PDA? (Page 2)

Question

While I like handholding and kissing, I find my girlfriend's desire to do it in public quite excessive. She has to hold my hand ALL the time and if I don't , she feels rejected by me. I enjoy doing it but I really find the need to take breaks. And kissing, hugging, talking intimately... I try to find an out of the way , out of sight spot to do that. And she wants to do it in the middle of public. How do you talk to your girlfriend/boyfriend about this without them feeling that you like them any less? 

I mean it's not heavy making out sessions or sex in public, but still. She claims it's normal, but it's awkward to me. I see some couples that occasionally hold hands in public but 100% all the time. So my second question is what do you consider normal and how much?

cinderelli · Answer

All the time... nope... I won't do that.. sometimes it's fine tho.. and holding hands is not a big deal

NajemEddine · Answer

to much of it is bad tell her that  also she keeps holding your hand in public to show your are hers :p  female making their zones clear hhhh but being clingy is not good

brewersfan01 · Answer

I dont like any pda in public, and i dont like seeing other people do it. its disrespectful, and it paints the wrong picture for your girl (that she's loose). just seems like childish behavior.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe she's an exhibitionist. Then its hard to get them to break it especially if she gets a rise out of your discomfort or others reactions.

RationalMale · Answer

What's wrong with it? I get a big kick out of making out in public

backonthelist · Answer

Just tell her she's being a bit clingy. Its easy to get carried away, she'll realize what ur saying and adjust

SmandyCandy · Answer

Geez I wish I knew how to help with that because it gets on my nerves lol

Anonymous · Answer

With mine I just say stop fuckin doing that shit in public man

cybys · Answer

I feel you bro doing things in public that are uhh *close* feels awkward or just weird

Anonymous · Answer

Try talking to her but if that doesn't work use some reverse pyhcoligy and just she how far she will take it before she backs off

anonman32 · Answer

I can't help you man i love this stuff.

Owl95 · Answer

Talk to her

IvoirianGirl20 · Answer

Another fake problem

How to talk to your partner about excessive PDA? (Page 2)

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